Iingcebiso eziluncedo ezingama-35 malunga nendlela yokugcina uthando luhleli phakathi kwenu nobabini

Umbhali: Laura McKinney
Umhla Wokudalwa: 2 Utshazimpuzi 2021
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Iingcebiso eziluncedo ezingama-35 malunga nendlela yokugcina uthando luhleli phakathi kwenu nobabini - I-Psychology
Iingcebiso eziluncedo ezingama-35 malunga nendlela yokugcina uthando luhleli phakathi kwenu nobabini - I-Psychology

Umxholo

Ukugcina ukuthandana kuphila!

Xa ucinga 'ngokugcina iRomance iphila,' cinga ngesisa nangokuzimisela.

Uhamba usiya kuyo okanye ushenxa kwisisa nakwinjongo kubudlelwane bakho. Yintoni ozimisele ukuyenza kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla? Ngaba unesisa emoyeni okanye uyazingca? Ngaba wenza ngabom kwaye wenza ukuthandana kunye nokusondelelana kubudlelwane bakho kube yinto ephambili?

Ukugcina ukuthandana kuphila, ufuna ukuba 'ngenjongo.'

Yabelana ngabom nothando lwakho, ixesha lakho, kunye nezixhobo zokuxhasa iqabane lakho kuko konke abakwenzayo. Jonga ubudlelwane bakho ngelensi yamehlo eqabane lakho kunye nothando olungenamiqathango.

Xa usebenzisa isisa emoyeni intliziyo yakho iyalandela.

Ubeka eyona nto ibalulekileyo kuye kwaye ubenze babe ngabokuqala kwilizwe lakho.


Ungayisebenzisa njani le nto kubudlelwane bakho? Ngaba ubeka iqabane lakho kwindawo yokuqala kuyo yonke into oyenzayo, okanye ngaba baphantsi kweloluhlu lwezinto ezininzi onazo kuwe yonke imihla?

Ndidinwe kakhulu andinanto iseleyo ukuba ndiyinike, yile nto ndiyivayo kwizibini ezininzi ekucebiseni ngokobudlelwane.

Ngesondo? Ngubani onamandla okwenza oko? Khange siyenze lonto ukusukela nini, hmmm, ibiziinyanga ezili-10 okanye, ndicinga njalo. Ayisiyonto ilungileyo.

Ngaba uyazicingela, okanye ngaba unika ngesisa nangeenjongo zakho kunye nexesha lakho kunye nemfesane?

Jonga kwakhona: Umtshato ufuna malini?

Nazi iingcebiso ezingama-35 zokugcina uthando luphila-

1) I-Flattery-enye yokuncoma ngosuku. Yabelana ngento endiyithandayo kakhulu oyenzileyo namhlanje


2) Khetha ukuthandana omnye nomnye yonke imihla

3) Shiya amanqaku othando kwizipili ezineempawu zeglasi, amanqaku ancangathi, kunye nemiyalezo ebhaliweyo, kwimoto yeqabane lakho, ibrifkheyisi, ityesi, idrowa, okanye nayiphi na indawo onokucinga ngayo ukuzisa uncumo ebusweni beqabane lakho

4) Yongeza ukuthandana kwinkqubo yakho ngokwenza ixesha elikhethekileyo lodwa suku ngalunye. Kungaba yimizuzu emi-5 phambi kokuba uvuke kunye nemizuzu emi-5 ngaphambi kokuba ulale ugxile kuphela komnye nomnye

5) Yakha isondo kwinkqubo yakho ukuze usondele, udibanise, wonwabe, ubonise uthando. Abanye bacinga ukuba isondo kufuneka sibandakanye amasiko okanye ubugqwirha ngalo lonke ixesha, kodwa kufuneka nje ukuba unxibelelane ngandlela ithile ngokwenyani. Yenze ibe sisiseko sakho sekhaya

6) Ukudlala ngothando kwaye ukhumbule ukuba yayiyintoni ibali lakho lothando yonke imihla. Yintoni ebitsaleleke komnye nomnye, kwaye uziva njani ukubona oko kujonga, oko kujongeka, ukuchukumisa kunye nokuphinda wenze loo mizuzu.

7) Ukuba umyeni wakho okanye umfazi uhamba ze engena eshaweni, ucinga ntoni-

  1. Uhlala eshiya iimpahla zakhe phantsi.
  2. Akawashiyi amanzi ashushu.
  3. S / Ushushu kakhulu! -Ayikho enye into ebalulekileyo!
  4. Ndinqwenela ukuba bangangxama okanye siza kufika emva kwexesha.

8) Yiba nobusuku bomhla weveki, uyicwangcise, kwaye unamathele kuyo. Yiba nenjongo kwaye ukhusele elo xesha. Ukuba ufuna ukuhambisa ixesha, lungisa kwakhona; Sukuyiphephetha njenge "yokuzikhethela


9) Ipikniki kunye nomdlalo bhanyabhanya okanye ukubukela ubukele umabonwakude umbonisa nina nobabini ekhaya

10) Yenza isidlo kunye kwaye ube nayo ngaphandle okanye ngokukhanyisa ikhandlela

11) Umfowunela kunye / okanye umbhalele umyalezo emini ukuze umazise ukuba ucinga ngaye, ubathande, ubathande, ubathande, ubazise

12) Thatha uhambo olwandle, ubambe izandla, kwaye uthethe kuphela ngothando lwakho. Buza: Ndenza ntoni kakuhle kubudlelwane bethu? Zinto zini endizenzayo ezikonwabisa?

13) Thatha into entsha oyithandayo kunye okanye zibopheleleni ekwenzeni umdlalo kunye neqabane lakho abathanda ukubonisa ukuba ulikhathalele kangakanani

Ishedyuli yomhla "wokuphuma."

15) Yiba nesidlo sakusasa ngeveki / ngeholide kusasa

16) Thatha iholide yasekhaya encinci. Cima izixhobo, uvale iimfama kwaye ulale kunye emva koko upheke amaqebengwana, amaqanda, ibhekoni, kunye neerberberries kunye ne-whip cream kunye neChampagne kwisidlo sakusasa kwindawo ekhethekileyo

17) Fundani incwadi kunye xa niqhuba. Funda ngokuvakalayo kwiqabane lakho kwaye wabelane ngeengcinga malunga nazo apha endleleni

18) Bhaka ii-cookies kunye kwaye uzihlobise

19) Nikanani amathuba okumangalisana inyanga nenyanga ngesidlo sangokuhlwa esikhethekileyo sipheka isidlo sangokuhlwa sabanye

20) Ngaba wayenosuku loxinzelelo? Yishiye ngasemva uye kwi-ice cream, wabelane nge-sundae, okanye i-ice cream soda. Ngaba uziva ubhetele?

21) Bukela umdlalo kunye nokuhleka kunye!

22) Ukuba unabahlobo nomntwana (kwaye unomntwana), setha ukutshintshana ngokutshintshana kobusuku ukuze ubusuku bube simahla

23) Ngomntwana okanye abantwana, yiba nemini ebusuku ekhaya ngo-8: 00 emva kokuba abantwana belele. Okanye ungenise umntu ogcina umntwana kwindawo ohlala kuyo kwaye umgcinele umntwana ekhaya kwaye ukhathalele indlela yesiqhelo ebusuku njengoko uphumile kwaye uzivalele kwigumbi lakho lokulala ubusuku

24) Dessert Ngobusuku bokuqala .... wonwabe xa uthanda idessert yakho ngobunye ubusuku kwaye utya isidlo sangokuhlwa kamva

25) Ngaba uziva ungaphantsi kunxibelelene? Ukuchukumisa impendulo. Unyawo okanye ukubhucungwa ngesandla, ukubhucungwa intamo, ukubuyisa umva, emva koko utshintshe. Ukubuyisa isitshixo

26) Yilahle! Vumela konke okudlulileyo kunye nantoni na eyenziwe liqabane lakho. Qala ngokutsha, ngoku. Qalisa ukwenza iinkumbulo ezintsha. Yazanani kwakhona kwakhona. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuthandana kwakho ungumfazi / indoda entsha, emangalisayo, yasendle. Zivumele ubekho ngokupheleleyo kwimihla yakho

27) Yiba nomdla! Akusekho pecks zincinci esidleleni, iihagi ezincinci zangaphezulu, okanye uthando olubuthathaka lwalunjalo. Ubuncinci kube kanye ngemini, ncamisanani ngokungathi ninyanisile. Xa nigonana, qinisekisanani xa ninokuwolana ngokupheleleyo, into enamanzi, ibhele yomzimba opheleleyo (ukuqina okanye ukuwola ngokuqinileyo akubalanga). Xa iqabane lakho lisithi thanda, yeka lento uyenzayo, uhambe ngaphezulu, ujonge emehlweni, kwaye uthi, Ndiyakuthanda nam. Ndiyathetha, ndiyakuthanda ngokwenene! Yonwabela indlela oziva ngayo

28) Qaphela omnye nomnye njengabantu. Intoni? Xa iqabane lakho lifika ekhaya, yima umzuzu, ubamkele ekhaya. Nokuba uphi ofika ekhaya kuqala, bamkela ubukho bomnye ngothando

29) Cwangcisa kwangaphambili. Ngaphambi kwabantwana, ungahamba nomhla nanini na xa ufuna okanye uhlale ubusuku bonke uncokola nomntwana, kuthatha ukucwangciswa kwangaphambili ukwenza nayiphi na into eyenzekayo, kodwa kusenokwenzeka!

30) Yiba ngumhlobo osenyongweni omnye nomnye. Yiba nehlaya ngaphakathi, ucaphule iikowuti zomdlalo bhanyabhanya omnye komnye, myeke abe ngumntu wokuqala ofuna ukuthetha naye xa uneendaba ezimnandi, iindaba ezimbi, okanye intlebendwane

31) Zinyamekele. Khumbula xa uqala ukuthandana? Uhlala uzama ukujonga nokwenza izinto ngokusemandleni akho. Umtsalane kwinkangeleko yomzimba ihlala iyinto yokuqala esitsalayo. Kulula ukuzonwabisa kwaye ulibale oku njengoko sisiba lula. Ucoceko olusisiseko kwiimpahla ezintle kunye nokwenza iziseko sisiseko sokusondela

32) Yabelana ngeKhowudi eyimfihlo. Khetha igama elinokuthi livele ngamanye amaxesha kwincoko (ubushushu, ezinzulwini zobusuku, igumbi lokulala, ukhilimu otyhidiweyo ...) kwaye uvume ukuba ngalo lonke ixesha umntu elisebenzisa, kuya kufuneka uchukumise-nantoni na ukusuka ku-kiss ukuya ekubethekeni kwethanga okuqhubekayo phantsi kwetafile

33) Guqula amashiti kwaye wenze ibhedi phezulu njengehotele engaqhelekanga kunye neetshokholethi kumqamelo.

34) Gcina umnyango wegumbi lokulala utshixiwe kwaye ufundise abantwana indlela yokuxabisa kunye nokuhlonipha ixesha labucala kunye nemida

35) Gcina uthando luphila ngokudala, kwaye NDIYAKUTHANDA, kwaye NDIKUFUNA umqondiso ukuze ukwazi ukudlala ngothando nabo kwindawo enabantu abaninzi!