Umxholo
- Iziqhulo ezihlekisayo ngomtshato
- Amahlaya malunga nemitshato ayizizo iziqhulo ngokwam
- Amadoda angatshatanga kunye neziqhulo ngomtshato
- Nantsi enye
- Umtshato awungomdlalo
Wonke umntu uthanda iziqhulo.
Kukho intetho ethi ukuhleka lelona yeza lilungileyo. Umtshato kunye nobudlelwane zezinye zezihloko ezithandwayo zokuhlekisa. Iziqhulo ngomtshato zibetha kufutshane nekhaya kangangokuba awukwazi ukunceda kodwa uhleke.
Ukunyamekela ukungahleki kakhulu okanye i-Freudian slip ingabangela ukuba ulale ngaphandle namhlanje ebusuku.
Kuyathakazelisa ukuba ngamadoda kuphela ajeziswa ngaloo ndlela. Akufani nokuba asifuni ukuhlala kude kube sebusuku, kodwa ukuba siyaphuma phandle sichithe ubusuku kwenye indawo, iya kuba yimfazwe yesibini yeHlabathi.
Yonke le nto ngumqhulo womtshato ngokwawo.
Iziqhulo ezihlekisayo ngomtshato
Isizathu sokuba umtshato womtshato uhlekise xa kuthelekiswa namanye amahlaya afana nalawo malunga nabapolitiki kunye namagqwetha, ngaba oko kusondele kakhulu kubomi bethu, ngaphandle kokuba ungumpolitiki okanye igqwetha. Ukuba kunjalo, ke ubomi bakho yinto yokuhlekisa.
Amahlaya malunga nemitshato ayizizo iziqhulo ngokwam
Ngamabali amafutshane kunye nama-anecdotes abantu abatshatileyo abahlangana nawo yonke imihla. Inye i-anecdote ehamba:
"Indoda inokuchitha ngaphezulu ukuze ithenge into eyifunayo, ngelixa umfazi eya kubhatala isiqingatha sexabiso lento ayifunayo."
Iyahlekisa lonto kuba yinto yabantu kubudlelwane, ngakumbi abantu abatshatileyo bahlala behlangana. Kuba iyinyani, ibetha ngamandla. Ezona ziqhulo zimnandi ngomtshato azihlekisi kuba libali elihle. Kuyahlekisa kuba kuyinyani.
Elinye iqela lehlaya elihlekisayo ngomtshato kuxa umfazi elawula indoda. Kwintsapho yesiNtu, usolusapho okanye umyeni ulawula phezulu. Kodwa yonke indoda eyonwabileyo emtshatweni iyayazi loo nto ayisiyonyani njengeli bali.
Indoda esandula kutshata yabuza utatomkhulu wakhe imfihlelo yomtshato wabo ohlala ixesha elide. Utat'omkhulu waphendula. “Yinto elula nje, mfo wam. Umakhulu wakho wenza le nto ayifunayo. ”
Wabuza umfana. "Uthini ngawe?" Ndenza le nto ayifunayo. ”
Kuyahlekisa ukuva ukuba xa ungatshatanga, kodwa kuyahlekisa kwaye kuhlekise kumadoda atshatileyo ayaziyo inyani ngobomi bomtshato.
Amadoda angatshatanga kunye neziqhulo ngomtshato
Inokunika umbono wokuba iziqhulo ezihlekisayo malunga nomtshato zisoyikisa amadoda angatshatanga ekuphumeni umbuzo kuba uninzi lwazo iziqhulo zendele enyanisweni.
Ingabonakala ngathi umtshato bubomi obunzima kangangokuba ukuzikhusela komntu kukuphela kokuhleka.
Kukho i-anecdote ehamba ngolu hlobo:
“Ndidlule kwinkqubo ebizayo nebuhlungu izolo. Ndandinomqolo kwaye amasende omabini asuswe. Ukanti, ezinye zezipho zomtshato zazintle. ”
Lowo wayenomxholo ofanayo nebali likaTatomkhulu, kodwa woyikisa ngakumbi umntu ongatshatanga. Ayinyani kwaphela, kuthi, apha emtshatweni.com, kholelwa ukuba amadoda awuphakamisa umbuzo kwaye ahambe nawo anee-cojones ezinkulu. Kukho ii-anecdotes ezimbini malunga naloo nto.
Eyokuqala imalunga nendoda nonyana wayo bethetha ngomtshato.
Unyana: “Tata, ndivile kwezinye iindawo, ukuba indoda ayimazi umfazi wayo ide imtshate.” Utata: “Nyana, yinyani kuyo yonke indawo.”
Nantsi enye
Isibini sasibukele ingxelo yeendaba kumabonwakude malunga nabacimi mlilo benceda amaxhoba avaleleke kwisakhiwo esivuthayo. Umfazi: Iyamangalisa indlela amanye amadoda aya kwindlu etshayo aze abeke ubomi babo emngciphekweni ngenxa yabantu angabaziyo. ” Umyeni: "Ewe, kunjengokutshata."
Kulungile, mhlawumbi ayoyikisi kangako, ndiyathetha ukuba ubomi bumalunga nokunxibelelana nabantu ongabaziyo kwaye uburharha busetyenziswa apha njengesilumkiso kumadoda angatshatanga angena kuwo angena kubo kuphela abakhaliphileyo.
Xa umntu athandana naye eqhula ngomtshato, oko kuthetha ukuba bazama ukufumana inkalipho yokuhamba kuwo.
Uninzi lwamakhwenkwe athandana nawo luza kupheka ngaphandle ngelixa abanye baya kuthi xibilili bazidubule ngenyawo. Kukho izibonelelo zokuthenga inkomo, yiyo loo nto amadoda esatshata. Bathi abafazi bangabafeli-nkolo xa kufikwa eluthandweni. Ngokwenyani, eli bali liza kunceda wonke umntu ukuba aqonde ukubuyela umva kuyinyani.
Inkwenkwana kunye notatomkhulu wakhe baya emtshatweni, yaza inkwenkwe yabuza kuyisemkhulu “Utatomkhulu, kutheni le ntombazana inxibe ezimhlophe?”
“Mfana, ngumakoti lowo. Unxibe ezimhlophe kuba etshata, kwaye lolona suku lumnandi ebomini bakhe. ” Ixesha elidala laphendula.
Inkwenkwana yajonga umtshakazi emva koko yabuza: “Kutheni le nto inkwenkwe inxibe mnyama?”
Ke amadoda atshatileyo akangobugwala, eneneni akhaliphile kakhulu ukuhlala kwindlu etshayo kwaye azuze uninazala nje ngobisi lwasimahla.
Ingxaki kuxa ubutsha obungenamkhawulo ubisi olukhululekileyo buba ngumsebenzi. Ukuyiqonda ngcono nali elinye ibali elimalunga notatomkhulu kunye nenkwenkwana.
Inkwenkwana: “Tatomkhulu, yintoni le?”
Tamkhulu: “Yikhondomu ke leyo, amadoda ayisebenzisela ukonwabisa abantu basetyhini.”
Inkwenkwana: "Kutheni iza ngamathathu?"
Tamkhulu: “Yeyabafana besikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, bayisebenzisa kabini ngobusuku bangoMgqibelo nangenye iCawa.” Inkwenkwana: "Uthini ngalento, ithi ipakethi yesithandathu?"
UTatomkhulu: “Yeyezitudiyo zekholeji, bazisebenzisa kabini ngooLwezihlanu kabini ngeMigqibelo, kwaye kabini ngeCawa.”
Inkwenkwana: “Uthini ngale phakheji yabalishumi elinambini.”
UTatomkhulu: “Eyamadoda atshatileyo, enye nguJanuwari, enye ngoFebruwari ...”
Umtshato awungomdlalo
Nokuba zininzi iziqhulo malunga nomtshato, umanyano ngokwalo ayisosiqhulo, kuthatha ukuzibophelela okuninzi kwindoda ukuba ithathe umfazi imyeke amenzele zonke izigqibo.
Umtshato uyinto engcwele, yiyo loo nto imitshato emininzi yenziwa kwindawo yonqulo njengecawa okanye itempile. Ezinye iinkonzo zivumela abefundisi bazo ukuba batshate ukuze babone indlela yentlambululo-miphefumlo. Amahlaya obuKrestu ahlekisayo ngomtshato nawo akhona, enye ihamba ngoluhlobo, uAdam noEva banomtshato ogqibeleleyo.
U-Eva akanako ukukhalaza malunga nendlela amanye amadoda alunge ngayo kunaye, akanamazala, kwaye ukuthengwa akukaze kwenziwe.
Iinkolo ezindala zeminyaka ayisiyiyo kuphela ephuma neziqhulo ezihlekisayo ngomtshato. Itekhnoloji yale mihla ikwandisa isandla sokunceda, njengebali lokucela isithuthi sakho ngeSat Nav GPS ukuba iye esihogweni. Iya kukunika umkhombandlela kwindlu yomamazala wakho.
Kusenokufudumeza intliziyo. Esi siqhulo sethu esizithandayo ngomtshato.
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Umyeni wayemangalisiwe, wayelindele ukufumana isihogo malunga nokufika kwakhe ekhaya, wabuza unyana wakhe ukuba kwenzeke ntoni phezolo. Watsho unyana. “Umama uzame ukutshintsha iimpahla zakho kuba ubukhapha yonke indawo emva koko watsho. Mka kum, nditshatile! ”