Umxholo
- 1. Ubukela i-gay porn kwaye uxoka ngayo
- 2. Unemikhwa engaqhelekanga ye-intanethi
- 3. Akanamdla kwezokwabelana nawe ngesondo
- 4. Uyi-homophobe
- 1. Ngokwenene imbonakalo yakhe
- 2. Uhlala kwizinto zamantombazana okanye ezabafazi
- 3. Ufuna ukuzama "iimpundu"
Akuqhelekanga ukuba abantu basetyhini bazibuze ukuba "Ngaba umyeni wam usisitabane?" Izinto ezininzi zingenza umfazi abuze ngesini sendoda yakhe, kwaye kunokuba luxinzelelo ukucinga ukuba oyena mntu umthandayo kwaye umthembileyo ugcina imfihlo enkulu kuwe.
Ngelixa ekuphela kwendlela yokwazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umyeni wakho ulifanasini okanye ulala nabantu abatshatileyo kukuba akuxelele, kukho imiqondiso onokuyijonga ekwenza ukuba uyazi ukuba incoko malunga nokwabelana ngesondo iyafuneka.
Kukwakho ke, nangona kunjalo, izinto ezininzi uluntu olunokuthi zikuxelele ukuba umyeni wakho li-gay elingenanto yakwenza nokuziphatha kwakhe ngokwesondo.
Funda ezinye zeentsomi ezilahliweyo kunye neempawu ozojonga kuzo xa ufumanisa ukuba ubuza, "Ngaba umyeni wam uyisitabane?"
Umyeni wakho unokuba li-gay ukuba:
1. Ubukela i-gay porn kwaye uxoka ngayo
Okokuqala, ukubukela kunye nokonwabela i-gay porn akuthethi ukuba umyeni wakho ulifanasini.
Amadoda amaninzi athe tye ayayonwabela i-porn ye-gay amaxesha ngamaxesha. Kodwa ukuba indoda yakho ifihla ukusebenzisa kwayo iphonografi, okanye iyaphika ukuba nayiphi na iphonografi oyifumanayo endlwini okanye kwikhompyuter yayo yeyayo, emva koko inokubuza ubuncinci ngesini sayo.
Ukuba ufumanisa i-porn ye-gay kwikhompyuter yakhe okanye ezinye izixhobo okanye ufumana ukuprinta i-porn ye-gay ejikeleze indlu, lixesha lokuba nencoko.
2. Unemikhwa engaqhelekanga ye-intanethi
Ukucoca imbali yesikhangeli sakho kunokuba lucoceko kwidijithali, kodwa inokubonisa ukuba umntu ugcina imfihlo.
Ngokukodwa ukuba uqala ukwenza ucoceko rhoqo emva kokuba uye waqubisana naye malunga ne-gay porn okanye enye indlela yokuziphatha ekrokrisayo kwi-Intanethi, kuya kufuneka uqale ubuze imibuzo. Isenokungabi li-gay, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba ikho into angakuxeleli yona.
Kwangokunjalo, ukuba neakhawunti eyahlukileyo yemidiya yoluntu apho uninzi lonxibelelwano lwayo ingamadoda ongawaziyo, ukubhengeza kunye nokufumana iiprofayili kwiindawo zokuthandana nabantu abathandana nabathandana nabantu abathandana nabathandana nabantu abathandana nabo, okanye ukubuza imibuzo efana nokuthi "ungazi njani ukuba ulifanasini" inokuba ziiflegi ezibomvu.
3. Akanamdla kwezokwabelana nawe ngesondo
Zininzi izizathu zokuba umntu angabinamdla kwezokwabelana ngesondo, kwaye imitshato emininzi ineebbs kwaye zihamba kwimisebenzi yesondo.
Kodwa ukuba umyeni wakho akathandi kwaphela ukulala nawe ixesha elide, kwaye akazimiselanga ukuxoxa ngomcimbi okanye abone ukuba kukho ingxaki yezempilo (yengqondo okanye yomzimba) ebulala i-libido yakhe, eneneni, unokuba gay okanye ukubuza ngesini sakhe.
Akukho mdla kwezokwabelana ngesondo nawe ngakumbi uphawu lwesilumkiso ukuba ubunolala ngesondo kwasekuqaleni kubudlelwane bakho, kodwa yehla ngokukhawuleza kwaye ayizange iphinde ibuye.
4. Uyi-homophobe
Okumangalisayo kukuba, eli linani lokuqala lokuxela kwangaphambili ukuba umntu yindoda okanye isini esivaliweyo esivaliweyo.
Ukuba indoda yakho ingumntu othetha phandle, uphatha abantu abathandanayo ngendlela eyahlukileyo okanye engalunganga, wenza iziqhulo ezininzi "ezithandanayo", okanye uthetha ngabantu abathandana nabo ngendlela ethoba isidima, usenokuba uzama ukubanga "tye" ngenxa yokuba eneentloni ukuba gay (okanye ukufunyanwa).
Oku kuyinyani nokuba ulungile kubantu abathandanayo kodwa abathandanayo bathandana besini esinye nesini.
Zininzi izinto uluntu oluxelela abantu basetyhini ukuba ziimpawu zabayeni babo, kodwa oko akuthethi nto kwaphela.
Ezinye izinto ezingatyikityiyo umyeni wakho li-gay zibandakanya:
1. Ngokwenene imbonakalo yakhe
Kukho into eyothusayo yokuba umntu ukhathalele inkangeleko yakhe ukuba ulifanasini.
Ayikho njalo!
Kungenxa yokuba umyeni wakho ekwifashoni, uthanda ukugcina iinwele zakhe kunye neenzipho zilungisiwe (nokuba ufumene i-manicure), okanye kungenjalo uthatha ixesha ukuzibeka akuthethi ukuba ulifanasini.
2. Uhlala kwizinto zamantombazana okanye ezabafazi
Imisebenzi kunye nezinto abanomdla kuzo azinabuni, kodwa uluntu lwethu luyathanda ukuzenza.
Ukuba utshatile kwindoda enandipha imisebenzi “yobufazi” efana nokupheka, ukubhaka, ukucoca, ukuhombisa, okanye i-yoga, abantu banokuzama ukukwenza uzibuze ukuba "ingaba umyeni wam ulifanasini?"
Kodwa umdla wakhe awunxibelelananga kwaphela nesini sakhe. Ukubhaka ii-cookies okanye ukwenza kwindawo yokubonela yasekuhlaleni akunako “ukumenza” isitabane.
3. Ufuna ukuzama "iimpundu"
Kuyothusa abantu abaninzi, kodwa uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo abathembekileyo bayazibandakanya kwezesondo ezimpundu okanye ukudlala ngesondo ezimpundwini.
Kwaye oko kubandakanya uninzi lwamadoda athe tye ayakonwabela ukungena ngaphakathi okanye ukuvuselelwa kweprostate yabo nge-anus okanye perineum. Iintloni ekuhlaleni zigcina amadoda amaninzi ekufuneni olu hlobo lokudlala okanye avume ukuba bayazibandakanya kulo.
Ukuba umyeni wakho uveza umdla wokuphonononga "izinto zempundu," yenza incoko. Ukuba awukho kuyo, awunyanzelekanga ukuba ubandakanyeke kuyo, kodwa uyazi ukuba ukuba nomdla kwi-anal akuthethi ukuba umntu wakho ulifanasini.