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- Uthatha nje ukuba ...
- Umfazi: Asisabelani ngesondo njengakuqala.
- Awumoyiki ukuba ...
- Umfazi: Uhlukumeza abantwana kunye nam / ngokwasemzimbeni / ngokwesondo.
- Ukucinga rhoqo malunga nokuba kutheni umyeni wam endenza ukuba ndidandatheke.
Ngalo lonke ixesha ndiva le, okanye umahluko wayo, komnye umntu. Andigwebi kwaye ndipeyinta umfanekiso ongathandekiyo womyeni kwangoko. Amaxesha asixhenxe kwali-10, Umfazi usabela nje ngendlela ebaxekileyo.
Phambi kokuba singene kumbandela ombi nobuthathaka wento ekufuneka yenziwe ngumfazi xa ekhalaza ngendoda yakhe yile, "umyeni wam uyandidandathekisa." Masiqale siqale kuqala, ukuba ngaba umfazi uyasabela nje.
Ke, ndibuza owona mbuzo ucacileyo ngaphandle kobubi.
Umfazi: Umyeni wam uyandidandathekisa.
Me: Ngoba?
Uthatha nje ukuba ...
Umfazi: Uthe, uzakundisa [Faka iNdawo ethile apha], kodwa sekuyiminyaka, khange ayenze.
Mna: Ndiyaluqonda unxunguphalo lwezithembiso ezaphukileyo, kodwa ukuba kukho ezinye izinto eziphambili kwipleyiti yakhe njengokuzisa ekhaya ibhekhoni okanye ukuzama ukunyuselwa ukuze uyifumane. Emva koko, yiba nomonde.
Logama nje ethembekile, esenza konke okusemandleni, kwaye engachithi ixesha lakhe kunye nemali kwisithili sokukhanya esibomvu, emva koko kuyakufika. Ekugqibeleni. Ingayiyo.
Thatha indima yakho, uthathe indlela ephezulu yokuvuthwa, kwaye ube ngumfazi onothando xa esekhaya.
Umfazi: Undixelele ukuba uzakuchitha yonke imihla yakhe kunye nam, Ngoku, uhlala esebenza. Ufika ekhaya emva kwexesha kwaye asebenze ngexesha leeholide.
Me: Ok, kukho amacala amabini kulento, inokuba usebenza kakhulu, okanye uyakuqhatha. Kodwa andizukucebisa eyokugqibela ngaphandle kokuba bayayenza.Into yokugqibela esiyifunayo kukunika umntu oxineneyo emideni ukuba neengcinga ezimbi.
Zama ukuxoxa ngayo nomyeni wakho, Mxelele ukuba ayikhathalele impilo yakhe kwaye achithe ixesha elininzi lokuphumla ekhaya. Menze aqonde ukuba ukusebenza nzima kakhulu kuya kumenza agule, kwaye abantu abagulayo abaphangeli, kwaye baphela benikezela ngemali eninzi kuGqirha Quack Quack.
Zama ukumnyoba ukuze ahlale ekhaya. Lahla ikratshi lomfazi wakho wale mihla kwaye ufunde indima yendabuko, njengokupheka esona sitya asithandayo kunye nayo yonke loo nto. Yiza nezizathu ezahlukeneyo zokuba ahlale kwaye athethe ngomsebenzi wakhe. Qinisekisa ukuba konke malunga nokugcina impilo yakhe ukuze aqhubeke nokwenza umsebenzi wakhe.
Umfazi: Akasandijongisi ngohlobo olufanayo, kwaye xa sele esekhaya, uhlala ebambene nefowuni yakhe edlala imidlalo okanye evula i-intanethi.
Me: Zama ukuqonda i-hobby yakhe ubone ukuba uyayithanda na. Uninzi lwezinto zokuzonwabisa zamadoda ziphantsi kodwa ziyonwabisa. Ngubani owaziyo, ungayithanda, kwaye umyeni wakho uya kuthetha nawe kakhulu ngayo. Ingakumbi ukuba imalunga nokuxhasa ilungelo lezemidlalo elithile.
Ukuba awuyiqondi into enomdla malunga namadoda angama-22 akhaba ibhola ngeenxa zonke, emva koko ufumane enye into enomdla ngayo, endaweni yokukhalaza ukuba, 'umyeni wam undenza ndidandatheke'.
Ndiyalazi eli bali lokwenyani lokuba umfazi akaqondi kakhulu malunga nebhola, kodwa uyakuthanda ukubukela kuba uCristiano Ronaldo noLionel Messi bashushu.
Umfazi: Asisabelani ngesondo njengakuqala.
Me: Zama ukutya okona kutya ukuthandayo yonke imihla iveki, ubone ukuba usakuthanda. Uninzi lwezinto ezintle lusadika. Impendulo yoku ilula, Nciphisa ubunzima, yiya esalon, kwaye ujongeke umncinci kwaye unemfashini kangangoko unakho.
Ungumyeni usakuthanda. Sukubamamela bonke obo buxoki malunga "uyakwamkela njengoko ungumgquba weenkomo." Sele eyenzile, awukaqhawuli mtshato okwangoku. Kodwa yenza inxaxheba yakho kwaye ukuba unokwenza okuthile ukuphucula isibheno sakho sesondo, yenza oko. Amadoda athe tye zizidalwa ezilula, amantshontsho ashushu ahlala enomdla, akukho ngaphandle.
Abo bathi ngenye indlela bayaxoka okanye sisiqhamo sekhabethe.
Umfazi: Uhlala eyilibala imihla ebalulekileyo kusapho (njengemihla yokuzalwa kunye nezibhengezo)
Me: Ewe, amanye amadoda anjalo nyani. Ngethamsanqa iteknoloji yanamhlanje inesisombululo. Ukuba usakhathalele ngawe, into endicinga ukuba uyayenza, uyakukuvumela ukuba ungene kuyo yonke imihla oyithatha njengebalulekileyo kwi-smartphone yakhe kwaye umazise ngayo.
Ukuba ungakhangela kude ngaphambili, ungashenxisa iingcebiso malunga nento oyifunayo kunye nolo suku lolo suku.
Awumoyiki ukuba ...
Umfazi:Uyandiqhatha, ndifumene imiyalezo ebhaliweyo emnxebeni.
Me: Oku kubi, ukunganyaniseki akunakuthethelelwa. Ayilotyala lexhoba. Ukuba ulithiyile iqabane lakho ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungakopela, ke hlukana.
Ukukopa ngumntu ozama ukuba nekhekhe kwaye atye naye. Sisenzo esikhohlakeleyo sokuziyolisa.
Rhoqo kungelilo, xa umntu esondela kum ngale ngxaki, kusafuneka ajongane nomyeni wakhe wale ngxaki, nokuba sele eyazi okwethutyana.
Ndingacebisa ukuba ndibone umcebisi womtshato oqeqeshiweyo kwaye ndibeke onke amakhadi etafileni.
Umfazi: Uhlukumeza abantwana kunye nam / ngokwasemzimbeni / ngokwesondo.
Mna: Inzulu kakhulu lento kunale yokukhohlisa. Izinto zinyuka ngokukhawuleza xa oku kusenzeka. Inokubangela nomonakalo wengqondo ongenakulungiseka.
Zininzi iimeko zokufa ngenxa yokuphathwa gadalala, kodwa kukho iitoni zabantu abadala abangasebenzi kakuhle abaneengxaki zengqondo eziwohlokayo ezivela kubantu abatshatileyo nabazali.
Ukunganyaniseki kunokuxolelwa, kwaye ngokuhamba kwexesha, amanxeba anokuphola, kodwa umonakalo ekuxhatshazweni unokuhlala ngonaphakade ngakumbi ukufa. Uninzi lwabafazi abazixeli izehlo zokuphathwa gadalala emakhaya ngethemba lokuba abayeni babo bangatshintsha kwaye izinto zizakubangcono, ayikhe yenzeke lonto.
Eyona meko ilungileyo yoku kukutshintsha komyeni, kodwa usapho luya kuhlala luloyiko lokuphinda ubuye, iimeko ezimbi kakhulu azinakucingelwa. Sisivumelwano esibi.
Ukucinga rhoqo malunga nokuba kutheni umyeni wam endenza ukuba ndidandatheke.
Ke, apho ninayo bantu, ngaphandle kwamatyala amabini, ngelishwa eyenzeka rhoqo kunokuba besinokuthanda kuluntu oluphucukileyo, kuthathelwa ingqalelo iimeko ezininzi ezingaxelwanga.
Andizukutsho ukuba iinkxalabo zabo zincinci, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo zikuluhlu lobunzima abantu abadlula kubo ebomini nakubudlelwane ukuze baphile.
Yilapho imicimbi ye-quotient yeemvakalelo, bajonge nje ii-cheerleader ezizukisiweyo ukuzithethelela ngecala labo. Kodwa kukho abantu abanengqondo ebuthathaka kunye nokudakumba kwabo kuyinyani. Ukuba bajongana okanye abatyeshelwa, babuyela umva kwi-ego yabo, kwaye izinto ziya zisiba mandundu.
Ke gweba ngononophelo, yingxaki eba mandundu njengoko ixesha lihamba, okanye ukuba umntu usecaleni koxinzelelo lweklinikhi, cebisa ukuba ubonane nengcali.