Umxholo
- Dynamics eNtsha
- Ukubonakaliswa kwethu
- Ubomi bunokuba bhetele ngakumbi kunangaphambili
- Ukufumana ibhalansi
- Chaza ixesha lomgangatho kwakhona
- Nxibelelana
- Isipho sosapho
Unxibelelwano olukhethekileyo luyenziwa phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho xa uqala ukuqonda, 'Senze oku, lo mmangaliso mncinci ulapha ngenxa yethu kwaye uyinxalenye yethu sobabini.'Ukujonga umntwana wakho okokuqala kunzima kakhulu, ngelo xesha uziva wonwabile kwaye woyike. Kodwa lo mxube ulonwabo lweemvakalelo uyancipha ngokukhawuleza kwaye iseti entsha ithatha indawo yabo njengoko ungena kumhlaba ongabhaliswanga we ... Ubuzali.
Ngexesha leentsuku ekucingelwa ukuba zigqibelele 'kuni nobabini' kuphela, bekukho izinto ezithile ezenzekileyo: Nobabini niye navumelana, nobabini anivumelani kwaye nifumene ukuvumelana okanye omnye wenu wanikezela komnye. Wawaqhela la malungiselelo kwaye wafumana indlela yokwenza ukuba usebenze kwaye wonwabe.
Dynamics eNtsha
Ngoku, ngequbuliso uzifumana phantsi kweemeko ezintsha kunye neseti entsha yokhetho ekufuneka yenziwe. Izinto eziguqukayo ezazisendaweni zadlula kwaye yonke into iyabhidisa kwaye uziva ngathi usemhlabeni ongagungqiyo. Kukho umntu wesithathu obandakanyekayo kwaye nangona bengenalo uluvo okwangoku, ngokuqinisekileyo kubonakala ngathi kuchaphazela sonke isigqibo osithathayo. Imalunga nayo yonke loo nto kubo. Ukukhetha akusekho lula kangako.
Siqala ukucinga ukuba lo mntu mncinci uthathe into kuthi: inkululeko yethu. Siyakholelwa ukuba inkululeko yethu yokuzikhethela, inkululeko yexesha, kunye nenkululeko yokucinga, zonke zithathiwe. Owu, sisidenge kangakanani! Asikuboni oko kulungileyo phambi kwethu.
Ukubonakaliswa kwethu
Sityhola izinto ezingalunganga. Abantwana abayongxaki kwaye khange babange ngxaki. Inyaniso ebuhlungu yeyokuba ingxaki ihlala ikhona; abantwana bethu bavele baphakamisa isipili kwaye babonakalisa okungaphakathi kuthi lonke elixesha. Abantwana basibonisa iimpazamo zethu, ebesikade singavumi ukuzamkela, okanye mhlawumbi sasingazi nokuba zikhona. Bakhupha okona kubi kuthi, okusisipho kunye nentsikelelo abantu abaninzi abayithathi kancinci, abayikhathalelanga, okanye bayilahla ngokupheleleyo ngokungazi kwabo.
Ukukhula kunokungakhuli kunye nokuzingca. Kodwa usenokuthi kwakungekho ngxaki ziphambili ngaphambi kwabantwana bakho. Mna neqabane lam besenza kakuhle. ” Hayi, kulula kakhulu ukuhlala kwihlabathi apho singazukucelwa mngeni! Sikhetha ukuhlala kwihlabathi apho imiba esezintliziyweni zethu ihlala ingafakwanga.
Ubomi bunokuba bhetele ngakumbi kunangaphambili
Ubomi nabantwana bunokuba BUNGCONO kunangaphambili. Inyaniso emangalisayo kukuba akukho nto ithathiweyo kuwe, ngokuchaseneyo; uzuze into abanye ngaphandle kwabantwana abangazi nto ngayo. Ufumene ukuqonda kwesiqu sakho kwaye ukuba bobabini niyaphakama kumceli mngeni wokukhula kunye nokutshintsha ngobomi, kuyakuthatha kwinqanaba elimnandi lonxibelelwano kunye nobunzulu obungazi nokuba bukhona.
Guqula umbono wakho, uhambe nokuhamba, kwaye wamkele ukuba izinto zitshintshile. Funda ukubuthanda ubomi njengoko bunjalo kwaye uqale ukwamkela le adventure intsha. Sukuxinana ngokucinga ukuba ubomi bebubhetele ngaphambili. Hayi, obona bomi bumnandi buhlala buza kuza ukuba uhlala ngokuchanekileyo.
Ukufumana ibhalansi
Ibhalansi isitshixo, ibhalansi ye uxanduva lwabazali kunye namalungelo, kunye nokulingana kwi ubudlelwane neqabane lakho kwaye nawe. Awuseyiyo nje isibini kwaye ubomi bakho abusenakuba malunga nobabini kwaye kungafanelekanga nokuba kube malunga nomntwana wakho. Ukufumana ibhalansi efanelekileyo kunokuba yinkohliso kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uhlengahlengise kwaye ufunde ukonwabela zombini iindima zakho kwaye ube unyanisekile nakuwe.
Chaza ixesha lomgangatho kwakhona
Ukufumana ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye kunokuba ngumceli mngeni kodwa ungawusebenzisa lo mceli mngeni khulisa ubumnandi kubudlelwane bakho. Yile mizuzu mincinci ithetha lukhulu ngoku. Ayizizo iintsuku ezinde, ezingamavila elunxwemeni kuphela ezijolise komnye nomnye ukuba zibalulekile ngoku. Ngoku, kuyadlula omnye komnye epasejini kwaye bonwabele into yokuba nitshayisene. Kukucofa kwigumbi elixineneyo elenza ukuba ngamnye kuni azi ukuba niyacingelana.
Nxibelelana
Thetha, thetha, nyaniseka kwaye musani ukugwebana. Yabelana ngeenkxalabo zakho kwaye ungabi ngqwabalala, kodwa endaweni yoko, xolela. Wonke umntu usabela ebomini ngokwahlukileyo kwaye ukuncedana ngezinto kunokuvumela ubukrakra kunye nenzondo ngumahluko phakathi 'kwenze okanye ukwaphule'. Umqobo ngamnye owela kuwo kunye noloyiso ngalunye, luzisa imbeko kunye nonxibelelwano olomeleleyo.
Isipho sosapho
Musa ukuwela kumgibe wokucinga ukuba abantwana benza ubudlelwane bakho bube mandundu. Kucelomngeni, ewe, kodwa izinto ezininzi zicelomngeni kubudlelwane. Ayisiyondawo. Inqaku kukuba uyakhetha ukujongana nemiceli mngeni kwaye ubavumele ukuba bakuncede ukhule kwaye utshintshe neqabane lakho, okanye ulwe nobomi kwaye uphelele wedwa. Unesipho esikhethekileyo ngoku. Nina nobathathu niyintsapho kunye. Ukuba lusapho kunokukuchaza ngokutsha. Inokukwenza ukuba ube nguqu lwakho olungcono. Konke kuxhomekeke kuwe.
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