Umxholo
UDavid K. Williams, onegalelo kwiphephancwadi iForbes, wathi “enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo (nezingaziwayo) kwinkampani yezorhwebo ayingomsunguli okanye umniniyo — yindima yeqabane elibalulekileyo laloo mntu.” Kodwa kuhlala kungekho lula kwaphela. Omnye wabaphandi abadumileyo balo mbandela nguTrisha Harp, umsunguli weHarp Family Institute. Ithisisi yakhe ithi "Ulwaneliseko lomlingane kwizibini zoosomashishini" apho atyhila khona isifundo sakhe malunga nobudlelwane phakathi kweshishini nomtshato bezisa iingcebiso ezininzi kunye nokuqonda xa kufikwa kulo mbandela ubaluleke kakhulu kwimitshato kunye nakushishino ngokwalo.
Ukuqwalaselwa kwezona zikhalazo zixhaphakileyo abantu abazinikayo xa kufikwa kwiziphumo zeshishini kwimitshato yabo, kunokuqatshelwa ukuba umtyumbi wabo oqhelekileyo loloyiko. Olo loyiko luyaqondakala ngokupheleleyo, kodwa ukululawula kungakhokelela kulwakhiwo olwakhayo kunye noxinzelelo kwezorhwebo kunye nasemtshatweni. UTrisha Harp, phakathi kwabanye abaninzi, wenze umsebenzi wokusikhomba kwiindlela zokuziphatha ezinokusebenzela loo njongo.
1. Ukungafihlisi kunye nokunyaniseka
Kwiimeko ezininzi, eyona nto inegalelo kuloyiko kunye nokungabikho kokuthenjwa ayizizo iingxaki ezikhoyo ezikhoyo okanye ezinokwenzeka, kodwa inkungu kunye nomfanekiso obonakalayo wento eyenzekayo. Oko kukhokelela kukoyikeka okumnyama, ukufihla kunye noxinzelelo. Ke ngoko, uHadi ugxininisa ukubaluleka kokwabelana ngayo yonke imiba yeshishini, nokuba bajongeka kangakanani na. Intetho eyinyani kunye nehlaziyiweyo yophuhliso lweshishini zezona zinto ziphambili xa kuziwa ekwakheni ukuthembana, ukuzithemba kunye nokumanyana.
Kwelinye icala, ukunyaniseka kubalulekile xa uchaza uloyiko kunye namathandabuzo. Unxibelelwano oluqinileyo, oluvulekileyo kunye nokudlala “ngamakhadi avulekileyo” kunika iqabane lomrhwebi ithuba lokutshintsha uloyiko nomdla.
Ukuba ngusomashishini kunokuba lilolo ngamanye amaxesha, kwaye ukuba nomphulaphuli olungileyo ecaleni kwakhe anokwabelana naye ngezimvo kunye neenkxalabo zakhe, kutyhila kakhulu kwaye kuyakhuthaza.
2. Ukuxhasa kunye ne-cheerleading
UTrisha Harp ucebisa ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abatshatileyo bazive bengamalungu eqela elinye. Uphando lwakhe lubonise ukuba abo babelana ngeenjongo zabo zeshishini kunye neentsapho bafumana amanqaku aphezulu xa kuziwa kukuziva wanelisekile ngumtshato kunye nezinye iinkalo zobomi ngokunjalo. Ukuba elinye iqabane livakalelwa kukuba ishishini lomnye lelakhe ngokunjalo, ukuba babelana ngomdla omnye, uya kwenza ngendlela ekhuthazayo nexhasayo.
Ukuziva uqondwa, uxabisekile kwaye uxhaswe kunendima ebalulekileyo kwimpumelelo yomrhwebi. Akukho sidingo sokwazi malunga neshishini kakhulu njengeqabane elibaqhubayo kuba uncedo lwengqondo kulula kakhulu ukulifumana kunemvakalelo. Ukubuza nje ukuba kukho nantoni na onokunceda ngayo, ukunika ingxelo ethembekileyo kunye nokukhuthaza xa kufuneka, kwanele ukuba usomashishini azive engcono kwaye anike konke okusemandleni akhe. Ke ngoko, ayothusi into yokuba, njengoko idatha kaTrisha Harp ibonisa, usomashishini kuninzi lwamatyala anenqanaba eliphezulu lombulelo ngalo lonke uncedo kunye nenkxaso abayinikwa ngamaqabane abo.
3. Intsalela yomsebenzi wobomi
Olunye uloyiko olusengqiqweni kumaqabane osomashishini abanalo kukuba ukunika ixesha elininzi kunye namandla kwishishini akuyi konga kakhulu umtshato. Ushishino ngokuqinisekileyo lufuna ukuzinikela okunzulu kunye nokuzincama okuninzi, kodwa kukwakho namaxesha apho zonke ezo nzame zihlawula ngokwazo. Ngaphandle kwabo bonke ubunzima abajamelene nabo, uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo bathi baya kuphinda batshate noosomashishini babo.
Akukho xesha losapho okanye nantoni na ithetha kuphela ukuphatha kakubi kwexesha. Nokuba usomashishini akasoze abenabo njengabanye abantu, umgangatho wexesha olichithe kunye ubaluleke kakhulu kwaye loo nto ixhomekeke kuwe ngokupheleleyo.
UChris Myers, omnye umnikeli weForbes ukholelwa ekubeni, xa kufikwa koosomashishini, ibali elilinganayo lomsebenzi wobomi liyintsomi. Kodwa ayibonisi ngxaki kuba inkcazo yakudala yomsebenzi njengento ekufuneka uyenzile ukuze ufumane imali ayihambelani nomxholo wale mihla wokushishina.
Kuosomashishini abaninzi, umsebenzi abawenzayo ungaphezulu kokufuna nje ukufumana inzuzo. Kukuthanda kwabo, ukubonakalisa amaxabiso abo amakhulu kunye nothando lwabo. Umgca phakathi kobomi nomsebenzi awusekho ngqongqo kwakhona, kwaye ukuzenzekelayo komntu ngokwenza umsebenzi kuya kumenza ngcono kubomi bakhe bobuqu.