Umxholo
- 1. Ukhetho lubethwe kwaye luphoswa
- 2. I-ejaculation yangaphambi kwexesha yenza ukubonakala
- 3. Ukulalana akubalulekanga njengokuba ucinga
Ukonwaba kokunxibelelana ngokwesondo phakathi kwesibini asitshintshi. Nangona kunjalo, uhlobo lokudibana kwezesondo luyakwenza.
Ihlala iyinto engakhathalelwanga enokubangela uxinzelelo oluninzi kubudlelwane ngakumbi kuba kunokubonakala ngathi umdla kwisini usenokuba uye wehla kumadoda nakumfazi osele ekhulile, kodwa akunjalo kwaphela.
Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye namadoda amadala utshintsho - kwahlukile kodwa kuhlala kungaqondwa kakuhle.
Ukuba ulala namadoda amadala, sidwelise ezinye zezinto ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka wonke umntu azi. Ukuqonda ezi zinto kuya kuqinisekisa ukuba uyonwabele impilo eyonwabisayo yesondo kwiminyaka emininzi ezayo.
1. Ukhetho lubethwe kwaye luphoswa
Kwiminyaka yakho yobutsha, xa wawuthandana namadoda amancinci, ngekhe ukhe ujongane nengxaki yokwakhiwa, kwaye ke, xa uqala ukuwafumana kwiminyaka yakho kamva okanye ukuba uthandana nendoda endala kungothusa ukuba uthatha buqu.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ayinguwe.
Bubomi nendalo nje, ukuzibeka ityala kuya kudala kuphela ingxaki ebingafuneki ukuba ibekho kwasekuqaleni.
Ukuba ungawamkela lo mbandela njengesiqhelo ebomini, unokunceda ukunceda ekusombululeni ingxaki, kuba iyakunciphisa ixhala lendoda yakho.
Uzibeke ityala kwaye uvumele indoda yakho endala ikwazi ukuba uzibek 'ityala ngokwakho iya kuyenza nzima le ngxaki, inokuthi uqiniseke ukuba awuzukufumana ukulala namadoda amadala!
Inyani yile xa umntu esiba mdala amandla akhe okunyusa ulwakhiwo kuba yinto engaqhelekanga ngezizathu zendalo neziqhelekileyo. Ukuba sowuzakuthatha inxaxheba kwezokwabelana ngesondo namadoda amadala, ngaphandle kokungazibeki tyala nazi iingcebiso onokuzisebenzisa ukunceda indoda yakho ihlale kulo mdlalo.
- Yandisa inani lokubetha ngamandla.
- Kunqande ukuzama ukusebenzisa iingcinga zesondo njengendlela yokukhuthaza- azisebenzi nakumadoda amadala.
- Zama ukunqanda ukuphazamiseka phakathi kokunxibelelana kwakho ngokwesondo.
- Khetha ukumthambisa ngenkanuko ukuze umncede aphumle- kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ingxaki yokubetha kunye nokuphosa izilungiso kubangela uxinzelelo olongeza kwingxaki.
- Qhelisela umonde; Indoda yakho endala ayinakukunceda kwimeko kwaye ukutyhala akuyi kwenza mahluko.
Ingcebiso: Indlela yokuchonga ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile
Ukuba ulala nomntu osele ekhulile kwaye ufumanisa ukuba ii-erections zakhe ziyabethwa kwaye ziphosakele, ukuba nje uyakwazi ukuphatha ulwakhiwo unokukhuseleka kulwazi lokuba akanakho ukungasebenzi kakuhle.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba akukho kulungiswa konke konke, kulapho unokufuna ukuqala ukuphanda ngendlela yokulawula ukungasebenzi kakuhle.
2. I-ejaculation yangaphambi kwexesha yenza ukubonakala
Ukuba ulala nabantu abadala, ubunokucinga ukuba i-ejaculation ngaphambi kwexesha yayiyinto yakhe yakudala- mhlawumbi eyenzeka xa wayesemdala, kodwa uya kuba uphosakele.
Inokwenzeka xa usabelana ngesondo nendoda esele ikhulile.
Ukuphuma ngaphambi kwexesha kuthintela uninzi lwamadoda ngalo lonke ixesha lokuphila kwabo. Ingxaki eqhelekileyo kunye nenye ongayithintelanga ukuba ulala nabantu abadala.
Ixhala likhankanywe njengesona sizathu siphambili sokuchama ngaphambi kwexesha, kokubini emadodeni nakwabadala. Kumadoda aselula ukuxhalaba kubangelwa ngumsebenzi wabo, emadodeni amadala, nokuba ulwakhiwo lwabo luza kunyuka luze lubenze ngesandla.
Okubangela umdla kukuba oku kuthetha ukuba xa ulala namadoda amadala ungafumana ithuba elingaphezulu lokudlala kunye nokwenza imisebenzi yenyama kunangaphambili.
Ngokukodwa kuba ukuba ungasusa ukugxila kwisini esijolise kwilungu lobudoda kwaye ngakumbi kwisini uya kuyiphumza indoda yakho kwaye ngolu phumlo kunye nokuthembela uya kuba nakho ukonwabela ulwakhiwo ngaphandle koxinzelelo.
Yimeko yokuphumelela xa ucinga ngayo. Oko kusikhokelela kakuhle kwinto elandelayo ebalulekileyo ukuba siqwalasele ukuba ulala namadoda amadala.
3. Ukulalana akubalulekanga njengokuba ucinga
Omabini amadoda amadala nabafazi banemicimbi yabo kwezokwabelana ngesondo, siye saxoxa ngeengxaki ngolwakhiwo, kodwa nabasetyhini bayasokola ngokoma kwelungu lobufazi nelona thambiso lilungileyo alinakuhlala lisombulula.
Endaweni yoko, ukuba neentlobano zesini namadoda amadala kujika kube kukuzonwabisa ngokwasenyameni, kubandakanya isondo ngomlomo, iithoyi zesini, njalo njalo kwaye kuchazwa njengendawo efanelekileyo.
Guqula izinto ozilindeleyo kancinane ukulungiselela isimbo esitsha sesini
Isantya sendoda esithandanayo siqala nokutshatisa nowasetyhini njengoko bekhula- siyacotha.
Ngamanye amaxesha, unokubona ukuba isini kunye namadoda amadala sinokuba shushu ngakumbi, sithabathe inkanuko kwaye sifezekise kuba asijolisanga kwisini sokungena esisekweni.
Umgaqo wesithupha apha kukuba isondo kunye namadoda amadala ahluke kakhulu kwisini kunye namadoda aselula kodwa zombini angonwaba kwaye azonwabise omnye komnye kwaye kuzo zonke iimeko, ukulawula uxinzelelo lendoda yakho kukhokelela ekusebenzeni ngcono ngokwesondo kwaye kumnandi ngakumbi kuwe.