Umxholo
- Yiba nobulungisa
- Yenza usapho lwakho lube kwindawo yokuqala
- Hlonipha ulwalamano lwabo nonina
- Zixabise izinto ezincinci
- Gqiba ngento ebaluleke kakhulu
- Yiba nabo
- Lawula ulindelo lwakho
Ukuba ngumama wesibini ngumceli mngeni ongafaniyo nomnye. Isenokuba ngamava amangalisayo. Ukuba unokufumana indlela yokuhamba kwimiceli mngeni onokwakha ubudlelwane obomeleleyo, obuhlala buhleli nabantwana beqabane lakho kwaye ekugqibeleni nibe lusapho olusondeleyo.
Ukuba ngumama wesibini akwenzeki ngokukhawuleza. Kuthatha umonde nokuzimisela ukwenza ubudlelwane obutsha busebenze. Kungokwemvelo ukuba iimvakalelo ziya kuba zibaleka kumacala omabini, kwaye ubudlelwane bunokukhawuleza bube bungangqinelani.
Ukuba ungutata womtshato wesibini okanye malunga nokuba ngomnye, nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokukunceda uhambe ngendima yakho entsha ungakhathazeki kangako.
Yiba nobulungisa
Ukulunga kubalulekile ekwakheni ubudlelwane obuhle nabantwana bakho bomtshato wesibini, ngakumbi ukuba sele unabo abantwana bakho. Hlalani phantsi neqabane lakho nivumelane ngemithetho nezikhokelo zokugcina izinto zilungele wonke umntu obandakanyekayo. Ukuba nobabini ninabantwana, kubalulekile ukuba wonke umntu anemigaqo efanayo yomgaqo, izikhokelo, isibonelelo, ixesha lezinto azithandayo njalo njalo.
Ukuba nobulungisa kunceda ukwakha isiseko esiluqilima solwalamano lwakho olutsha nabantwana bakho bomtshato wesibini.
Yenza usapho lwakho lube kwindawo yokuqala
Usapho luthatha ixesha kunye nokuzinikela, ngakumbi xa kusenzeka utshintsho olukhulu. Ukuba yintsapho yomtshato wesibini lutshintsho olukhulu kuye wonke umntu. Ngoku kunakuqala, abantwana bakho bomtshato wesibini bafuna ukuba wenze usapho lube yinto ephambili. Chitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabo kwaye ubenze babone ukuba babalulekile kuwe.
Yazi ukuba abanakuhlala bebonisa uxabiso-eli lixesha elinzima kwaye bangathatha ixesha ukufudumeza kuwe-kodwa baqhubeke nokubabeka phambili nokuba kwenzeka ntoni.
Hlonipha ulwalamano lwabo nonina
Oomtshato wakho wesibini banokoyika ukuba uzama ukuthatha indawo kuMama wabo, kwaye abafuni uMama omtsha. Sele benomama abamthandayo. Ungasusa uxinzelelo oluninzi kwixa elizayo ngokuhlonipha ubudlelwane babo nonina.
Cacisa nabo ukuba awuzami kuthatha indawo kaMama wabo okanye uphinde uphinde ulwalamano lwabo naye. Uyaqonda ukuba le nto banayo ikhethekile kwaye yahlukile-ujonge ukwenza ubudlelwane bakho nabo. Vumela olo lwalamano lutsha lube ngokwemigaqo yabo.
Kuphephe nasiphi na isilingo sokuthetha kakubi ngoMama wabo, kwaye ukhuthaze uTata wabo ukuba enze njalo. Injongo yemvisiswano kunye nentlonipho, ungathathi hlasi kwelinye iqela.
Zixabise izinto ezincinci
Phakathi kokuhlengahlengisa kubudlelwane bobuzali benyathelo kunye nayo yonke imiceli mngeni eza nayo, kunokuba lula ukuphulukana nendawo yezinto ezincinci.
Mhlawumbi omnye wabantwana bomtshato wakho wakwanga ngaphambi kokuba uye esikolweni. Mhlawumbi bacele uncedo ngomsebenzi wesikolo okanye bonwabile ukukuxelela malunga nosuku lwabo. Ezi zinto zincinci zizinto zonke ezibonisa ukuba bakuthembe kwaye balixabisile igalelo lakho ebomini babo. Wonke umzuzu wonxibelelwano kunye nonxibelelwano lukhethekile.
Kungangabonakali kuninzi ukuba kukho iingxoxo kunye nezinto ezinkulu ekufuneka ujongane nazo, kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha loo maxesha amancinci akha ubudlelwane obunothando kunye nokuvuleka.
Gqiba ngento ebaluleke kakhulu
Njengoko ujikeleza ekubeni ngumama wesibini, uya kufumanisa ukuba zininzi izinto ekuza kuxoxwa ngazo kwaye kugqitywe ngazo. Ukusuka kwindlela yokusingatha iiholide ukuya kumaxesha okulala kunye namaxesha okutya ukuya kumboniso weTV onokubukela usapho lwakho, kuninzi ekufuneka ucinge ngako.
Ezinye zezi zinto zinokukhawuleza ukungabinanto njengoko usapho lwakho olutsha lufumana ubume kunye nemiphetho yalo. Unokunceda izinto ezigudileyo ngokuthatha isigqibo malunga neyona nto ibalulekileyo kuwe kwaye ujolise kuyo.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uphumelele onke amanqaku-yima umhlaba xa kukho into ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe, kodwa zilungele ukuyekelela nayo. Oku kwenza ukuba abantwana bakho bomtshato wesibini bazi ukuba uyazixabisa izimvo zabo, kwaye ayisiyiyo yonke into ekufuneka ilwe. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, nonke nikwiqela elinye.
Yiba nabo
Ukuzinza kwinqanaba elitsha lobudlelwane bomzali kunzima. Oomtshato wakho wesibini bahamba ngexesha elinobunzima kunye nexhala, kunye notshintsho olukhulu olwenzekayo. Okwangoku, kufuneka bazi ukuba banabantu abanokubhenela kubo, abantu abadala abaya kuba bekhona nokuba bathini.
Vumela abantwana bakho bomtshato wesibini ukuba umntu omdala, nguwe. Yiba khona kubo ngokungaguquguqukiyo, ngeentsuku ezilungileyo nezimbi. Nokuba yingxaki yomsebenzi wasekhaya okanye kukungazithembi malunga notshintsho olwenzekayo, bazise ukuba ulapho. Yenza ixesha labo kwaye ukuba banenkxalabo, mamela ngenyameko kwaye unike amaxhala abo indawo kunye nentlonipho ebafaneleyo.
Lawula ulindelo lwakho
Ukulindelwa okungenangqondo kwimeko yakho entsha kuya kukhokelela kuxinzelelo nakwimilo. Izinto aziyi kuhamba ngokugqibeleleyo, kwaye kulungile. Usafumana apho ungena khona, kwaye abantwana bakho bomtshato wesibini bafumanisa apho bafuna ukuba ulingane khona. Ekuqaleni, basenokungafuni ukuba ulingane.
Kuya kubakho imihla elungileyo neentsuku ezimbi, kodwa ungalahli ithemba. Zonke iziqwengana ezirhabaxa lelinye nje ithuba lokufunda nokukhula kunye, kunye nokufunda ngakumbi malunga neemfuno zomnye nomnye.
Ukuba ngumzali wesibini ayisiyiyo into eyenye. Yinkqubo ethatha ukuzinikela, uthando kunye nomonde. Hlala ulungile, unothando kwaye uxhase kwaye unike ubudlelwane bakho obutsha ixesha lokukhula kunye nokuqhakaza.