Umxholo
Yiba nobushushu nothando
Ukuba uyalutyeshela ulwimi ekubhalwe kulo inqaku, kukho iingcebiso ezimbalwa apho. Elinye lawona manqaku aphambili kolu luhlu lwezikhokelo lujikeleze umfanekiso womfazi ofudumeleyo nothandekayo, owaziyo ukubonisa uthando kumyeni wakhe.
Esi sisiphakamiso esingenakuphelelwa lixesha. Nangona ukubonisa uthando lwakho kumyeni wakho kusenokungaze kuhlale kunikezela ngokumkhulula izihlangu, kuya kufuneka ufumane iindlela zokubonisa uthando lwakho kuye. Sisoloko sityhala ecaleni iimvakalelo zethu kwaye sigxile kakhulu kuxanduva lwemihla ngemihla, emsebenzini okanye amaxhala. Kakhulu kangangokuba sivumela abo sibathandayo ukuba baqashele ukuba sibakhathalele kangakanani. Musa ukuvumela ukuba oku kubenjalo emtshatweni wakho.
Yiba nengqiqo
Esinye isakhono esibalulekileyo sokuba abafazi abangama-50 babonakale bekhulisa kukuqonda. Sinokuhendeka ukuba sitsho ukuqonda okungaphezulu kancinci ukuba siyakukholelwa into ekhuthazwe leli nqaku. Umfazi wama-50s wayengaze athethe ngezikhalazo ukuba umyeni wakhe ufike emva kwexesha okanye wayezonwabisa eyedwa.
Nangona singekhe sonke sivumelane nenqanaba lokunyamezelana kwakhona, kukho into enqwenelekayo apho. Akukho namnye kuthi ofezekileyo, kwaye nabayeni bethu abafezekanga. Akufanele uvumele ukufakwa kwisikhundla sokuthobela, kodwa ube nokuqonda okuthile ngobuthathaka kunye nokusilela komyeni wakho kubuchule obuyimfuneko oluluncedo ngokulinganayo namhlanje njengoko bekunjalo kwiminyaka engama-60 eyadlulayo.
Tendela kwiimfuno zomyeni wakho
Isikhokelo esithetha ngaso siyalela oomama ukuba bahoye iimfuno zabayeni babo ngeendlela ezininzi. Kodwa, ubukhulu becala, sifumana ingqiqo yalawo madoda efuna uxolo nokuzola, kunye nesidlo sangokuhlwa esifudumeleyo. Kule mihla singathi indoda yanamhlanje ineemfuno ezimbalwa kunoko, kodwa eyona nto iyafana- ukuba ngumfazi olungileyo, kuya kufuneka ubeke inzame yokujongana neemfuno zomyeni wakho.
Oku ubukhulu becala akuthethi ukuba ucocekile, uncumo, kwaye ujongeke ungacacanga. Kodwa, oko kuthetha ukuba novelwano ngento anokuyidinga kunye nokukhangela iindlela zokubonelela ngaye okanye zokumxhasa endleleni yakhe. Kuninzi esinokukufunda kubafazi be50s, kwaye yile ndlela yokwenza iqabane lakho lobomi bazive bexabisekile kwaye bekhathalelwe.
Izinto ezitshintshileyo
Isikhokelo somfazi wasekhaya sama-50 sikhuthaze lo mfanekiso apho umfazi wayefudumalayo kwaye eyindawo yokuqonda evela kwilizwe elinoxinzelelo ngendoda yakhe-ngeyona ndlela. Nangona kukho amanqaku athile kwinqaku elikhankanyiweyo, kukho into ekungekho mntu unokuvumelana nayo kule mihla. Kwaye ke kukusilela ngokupheleleyo konxibelelwano oluthe ngqo kunye nohlaziyo.
Ingcebiso enikwe kwesi sikhokelo inyanzelisa ukuba umfazi olungileyo angayibonakalisi iminqweno yakhe, iimfuno, athethe ngokukhathazeka kwakhe, abonise ukudinwa kwakhe, aveze isikhalazo sakhe. Kwaye nangona amanye amadoda anamhlanje esenokunqwenela ukuba abonakale onwabile umfazi onje, le yindlela engenampilo yokunxibelelana.
Namhlanje abacebisi bemitshato bayavumelana kunxibelelwano yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kulo naluphi na ulwalamano. Ukuze umtshato uphumelele, abantu abatshatileyo kufuneka bafunde ukuthetha ngokuthe ngqo nangokunyaniseka omnye komnye. Ingayingxoxo phakathi kwamaqabane alinganayo, apho bobabini banakho kwaye kufuneka bacacise ngayo yonke into abahlangabezana nayo. Le yindawo apho iindlela ezindala kunye nezintsha zingqubana khona.
Ke, ukuba ngumfazi olungileyo kumyeni wakho kuyafana noko kwakunjalo kwiminyaka engama-60 eyadlulayo. Kuya kufuneka ufudumale, uqonde kwaye ube novelwano. Kodwa, kwahlukile kwinto enye ebalulekileyo, elilungelo lakho ukuba nenkxaso efanayo kunye nomdla kumyeni wakho. Umtshato, ngapha koko, ubambiswano kwiinjongo ekwabelwana ngazo kunye nemibono ngekamva, hayi ubudlelwane bobukhoboka.