Umxholo
- Qala kancinci, qalisa ukhuselekile
- Zikhumbuze ukufaneleka kwakho
- Yenza uluhlu lwengqondo lwezihloko zencoko
- 1. Nika izimvo ngento oyiphawulayo ngozuko lwakho
- 2. Nika ingxelo ngento ekujikelezileyo
- 3. Nika izimvo ngesiganeko sangoku
- Unomdla wokuzibandakanya, ke qhubeka
- Unonxibelelwano
- Nyaniseka "wena"
Ngaba uthathile kumntu othile okhethekileyo? Enye yeemvakalelo ezimnandi emhlabeni, akunjalo? Uyababona, amehlo akho ajongise ezantsi, uzama kwaye uzibambe ngoncumo lwakho, uzive izidlele zakho zivutha. Owu, ufuna okuninzi ukuthetha nabo kodwa uneentloni kakhulu. Qikelela ukuba? Silapha ukunceda! Qhubeka ufunda ezinye zeengcebiso malunga nendlela yokuvula kunye nendlela oza kuyichoboza ngayo. Ulungele? Thatha umoya omninzi kuba izakuba kukukhwela okumangalisayo.
Qala kancinci, qalisa ukhuselekile
Kulungile, siyazi ukuba ungumngenisi kwaye kubuhlungu ukuba ube ngowokuqala ukubulisa. Ke makhe siqale ngokuziqhelanisa.
Uza kuthi hello kumntu omnye ngosuku, kodwa hayi ukutyumza kwakho.
Isenokuba ngumntu ofunda naye, osebenza naye, umntu ombona yonke imihla kwisitrato okanye ibhasi, ummelwane wakho. Nabani na ongazukuchaphazeleka nguwe ubulise kubo.
Injongo yalo msebenzi kukukubonisa ukuba umhlaba awuzukuqubeka xa uthatha inyathelo kwaye uthi "molo" kuqala kumntu oqhelene naye. Nje ukuba ukwenze oku kangangeeveki ezimbini, uyakwakha ukuzithemba ngokwaneleyo ukuze uthi "molo" (okanye "molo" okanye "Kuhamba njani?") Kukukhathaza.
Zikhumbuze ukufaneleka kwakho
Rhoqo abantu abaneentloni banokuzithemba okuphantsi okunokuba negalelo kuloyiko lwabo lokufikelela kwabanye. “Abayi kuba namdla kum,” banokuzixelela njalo.
Ngoku lixesha lokusebenza kwiingqinisiso zakho.
Ziqhelanise noku yonke imihla yobomi. Oku kuqinisekisiwe ukunceda ukuphucula iimvakalelo zokuzithemba kunye nokuba sempilweni. Okukhona uziva ngcono ngawe, kokukhona kulula ukuthatha umngcipheko kwaye uqalise incoko naye wonke umntu okujikelezile, kubandakanya nokutyumza kwakho!
Yenza uluhlu lwengqondo lwezihloko zencoko
Kulungile, ke ulawule u "Molo, kuhamba njani?" Ukutyumza kwakho kuphendule "Kukhulu? Kwaye wena?". Unomtsalane othile! Ugcina njani izinto zihamba? Ngethamsanqa kuwe, unoluhlu lwezihloko zencoko ezingaqhelekanga entlokweni yakho. Tsala enye yezi zinto ukuze ugcine umdla wakho unomdla:
1. Nika izimvo ngento oyiphawulayo ngozuko lwakho
Umvambo, iinwele okanye umbala, into abayinxibileyo ("icici elihle!") Okanye isiqholo sabo ("Inuka kamnandi le nto!
2. Nika ingxelo ngento ekujikelezileyo
Ukuba usesikolweni, yithi malunga neklasi yakho elandelayo okanye ubuze indlela ozikhathaza ngayo. Ukuba usemsebenzini, nika izimvo malunga nendlela osile ngayo kusasa kwaye ubuze ukuba uzimisele kangakanani na njengaye wonke umntu.
3. Nika izimvo ngesiganeko sangoku
“Uwubukele umdlalo phezolo?” isoloko iyisiqalo esihle sencoko, ngaphandle kokuba awungomntu othanda ezemidlalo. Kwimeko apho, khetha ezopolitiko, ukuhamba kusasa, okanye nasiphi na isihloko esishushu esele kwiindaba mva nje.
Unomdla wokuzibandakanya, ke qhubeka
Ngoku wena kunye nomntu otyumkileyo niyathetha. Uziva ukuba banomdla; abazenzi izizathu zokuzama ukuphelisa ingxoxo. Ulwimi lwabo lomzimba lubonisa ukuba bafuna ukuyigcina iqhubeka: iinyawo zabo zikhomba kuwe kwaye "babonisa" into oyenzayo-mhlawumbi ukunqumla izandla esifubeni, okanye ukutyhala inwele ezilahlekileyo emva kwendlebe xa usenza njalo. Yonke imiqondiso elungileyo!
Okwangoku, unokucebisa ngokuthatha ikofu okanye isiselo esinxilisayo, kwaye uhambise incoko kwindawo apho ungaqhubeka uthethe khona ngelixa usela kwisiselo.
Unonxibelelwano
Ukutyumza kwakho kuvumile ukuya kuphunga ikofu kunye nawe. Uvalo?
Thatha umoya omkhulu kwaye uzikhumbuze ukuba umntu otyumkileyo ufuna ukuqhubeka ethetha nawe.
Ungumntu onomdla, onobubele nolungileyo. Kwindawo yekofu, cela ukuhlawulela lo “mhla”. Kuya kubonisa ukuba ungumntu onesisa kwaye uthumele umyalezo kwi-crush yakho ukuba uyabathanda ngaphezu kokuba ungumhlobo.
Ngoku likwalilo ixesha lokuba ubuyele kuluhlu lwakho lwengqondo lwezihloko zencoko nje ukuze "ubambe" kwaye uphulukane nomtya wengxoxo. Nazi ezinye zeendlela ezongezelelekileyo zokuqhubeka nokuthetha emva nangaphambili:
- Vula iifowuni zakho kwaye ubeke izimvo kweminye yemifanekiso yakho ehlekisayo.
- Bonisa omnye memes memes hilarious
- Yenza ezinye zevidiyo zakho ezithandwayo ze-youtube-ukuvula okubandayo kwe-SNL, umzekelo.
- Yabelana ngohlu lwakho lomculo kwaye uthethe ngeebhendi zakho ozithandayo. (Mema ukutyumka kwakho kumsitho womculo ozayo ukuba unawo engqondweni.)
Nyaniseka "wena"
Ukuba ungumntu oneentloni, unokucinga ukuba kungcono ukwamkela i- "persona", uxelisa umntu omthandayo okanye ombona engoyena mntu udumileyo kunawe. Sukwenza oku. Ufuna ukuba umntu otyunyuziweyo akuthande ukuba ungubani kanye kanye, hayi umntu obaqhubela phambili.
Yiba nguwe, kuko konke onako.
Kwaye ukuba umntu owamthobeleyo akawamkeli — ukuba ubona bephelelwa ngumdla- kulungile. Zikhumbuze ukuba ayikuko ukwaliwa. Kungenxa yokuba awufanelanga umdlalo omnye komnye njengoko wawucinga ekuqaleni.
Oku kwenzeka lonke ixesha kwaye akuthethi ukuba awunguye umntu obalaseleyo. Qhubeka uzibeka phaya. Uya kuba nezinye izinto ebomini, ngombulelo. Kwaye ngenye imini, la “molo mncinci, kuhamba njani?” Iya kuba sisiqalo sobudlelwane obuhle, obunothando.