Umxholo
- Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ufumanisa ukuba iqabane lakho liyakopa?
- Olu lukhetho lwakho
- Ungaphumelela njani ekukhohlisweni kwaye uqhubeke
- Ubudlelwane emva kokungathembeki
- Ubomi emva kokungathembeki
Abantu zizilwanyana zentlalo.
Ngesizathu esithile, siyatsaleleka kwabanye abantu, nokuba babonakala ngathi banezinto ezinjani. Kukwindalo yethu ukukhulisa ubudlelwane bethu nabanye abantu. Siyathemba ukufumana eyona ikhethekileyo esifuna ukuyinikezela kunye nokuchitha ubomi bethu bonke.
Ngelishwa, ubomi abuhlali buhamba ngokwesicwangciso.
Ukungathembeki ngamanye amaxesha kubuyisa ubuso obubi. Xa ukhohliswa, izinto ziyatshintsha. Ityumza ithemba lethu namaphupha kwaye isithumele kwindawo emnyama.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ufumanisa ukuba iqabane lakho liyakopa?
Uhlangabezana njani nentshabalalo elandelayo emva kokuba uqinisekisile ukona kweqabane lakho?
Ayisiyo malunga nokukrokrelwa kwetyala kwisicatshulwa se-flirty okanye amarhe owavileyo kumhlobo wakho. Kulapho ke unabo ubungqina obupheleleyo okanye ukuvuma izono iqabane lakho likukhohlisile.
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile ukuzola.
Ndiyazi ukuba kulula ukutsho kunokuba kwenziwe. Nokuba uziva ngathi ngumbono olungileyo wokulahla imoto yeqabane lakho okanye unqumle umntu wesithathu kwikhulu elinamaqhekeza ekhitshi. Ngokwenene ngumbono owoyikisayo oneziphumo ezihlala ixesha elide.
Unokuchitha ixesha lakho wedwa okanye nabanye abahlobo ukuzola, kwaye ugcine izinto zingawi ngokupheleleyo.
Kuya kubakho ukuthetha malunga nokwahlukana ngenxa yokuba waqhatha, okanye iqabane lakho laqhatha nawe. Konke kukuva, ke yehlisa umoya, de uxoxe ngayo yonke into kunye neqabane lakho ngentloko ecacileyo.
Akukho nto ibekwe ematyeni. Yonke into isentloko yakho kwaye akukho nto intle ephuma kuye nabani na xa esentlungwini.
Emva kokuba wena neqabane lakho nipholile. Lixesha lokuba sixoxe ngezinto onokukhetha kuzo.
Olu lukhetho lwakho
- Xoxa ngalo mbandela, xolela (ekugqibeleni), kwaye uqhubeke.
- Ukwahlukana ngoxolo nemiqathango
- Ezisisigxina hlukala/ uqhawulo-mtshato
- Zijongane
- Ukwaphuka kunye noxinzelelo
- Yenza into engekho mthethweni
Kukhetho lokuqala kuphela oluya phambili ngolwalamano olusempilweni.
Oku kulandelayo kuya kuthetha ukuba ubudlelwane buphelile ngandlela thile kwaye wenze konke okusemandleni ukunqanda ezi zimbini zokugqibela.
Ungaphumelela njani ekukhohlisweni kwaye uqhubeke
Jonga ugqirha, ukuba ezo ziingcinga ezilawula ingqondo yakho. Le yimizekelo yendlela ukuqhatheka ngayo kwiinguqu ozenzayo, kodwa siyathemba ukuba zingakutshintsha ube ngcono.
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile ukuze uqhubeke nokuxolela.
Asitsho ukuba kufuneka ulibale yonke into eyenzekileyo kwaye nihlale kunye ngokungathi akwenzekanga nto. Xolela kuphela xa iqabane lakho lizisola ngokwenyani kwaye likulungele ukulungisa izinto.
Enye into ebalulekileyo yoxolelo uyenza ngokwenyani. Awusoze uyisebenzisele ukonyelisa iqabane lakho kwikamva kwaye uzise iinkumbulo ezimbi.
Lawula inzondo yakho kunye nomsindo, izakuhamba ngokuhamba kwexesha, kodwa ungamxolela umntu kwanangaphambi kokuba yenzeke.
Nje ukuba uxole ngokuthetha lo mntu nokuba awuxolelanga entliziyweni yakho, sebenzela ukwakha ubudlelwane bakho. Yenza ngcono, lungisa yonke into, ngakumbi izinto ezincinci.
Uninzi lokungathembeki luzalwa kukudikwa kunye nokuma.
Qinisekisa ukuba iqabane lakho lifaka umgudu, ukuba kunjalo, phendula ngendlela efanayo. Ubudlelwane buyindlela-mbini. Sukwenza imeko ibe nzima ngakumbi kunangaphambili.
Ixesha elingaphezulu, izinto kufuneka zibe ngcono. Ihlala isenza. Ukuba nobabini nibeka uthando kunye nomzamo kuyo.
Ubudlelwane emva kokungathembeki
Uhlangabezana njani nokuqhathwa?
Yinto elula, ixesha liyaphilisa onke amanxeba, kwaye oko kubandakanya nawe. Ukophula izibophelelo kubuhlungu. Ukungcatshwa kuvakala ngathi kukuphela kwehlabathi, kodwa ngethamsanqa, kuvakala kuphela ngaloo ndlela. Ihlabathi liyaqhubeka nokujika kwaye izinto zihlala ziba ngcono.
Unokuziva ngathi awusoze uphinde uthembe mntu kwakhona. Yenye yeziphumo zokuba ukhohliswa njani kutshintsho lwakho. Inqaku elifanelekileyo kwaye kunzima ukuthemba kwakhona emva koko. Kodwa awungekhe wonwabe ngaphandle kokuthembela kwakhona.
Yiya phambili ngolunye usuku ngeli xesha omabini la maqela azama ngako konke okusemandleni ukulungisa ubudlelwane bawo kunye nokwakha kwakhona ukuthembana. Yiyo kuphela indlela yokuhamba. Ayizukwenzeka ngokukhawuleza, kodwa iya kwenzeka ekugqibeleni. Elona candelo lilungileyo malunga nalo ukuba wena neqabane lakho niqhubeka nenza ngaloo ndlela, ubudlelwane benu buya komelela kunakuqala.
Ayisiyondlela ilula, emva koko akukho buhlobo bunzulu bunje.
Ayikhe ibe malunga nee-unicorn kunye nemvula, yakha ubomi kunye.
Ukwakha nantoni na akunakuze kube lula, kwaye ubomi abuyonto. Kodwa wena neqabane lakho ninethemba lokuba ukuyenza kunye kwenza ukuba uhambo lube mnandi ngakumbi.
Ukuba awukwazi ukuzizisela ukuthembela emntwini kwakhona nangasiphi na isizathu, nokuba awungekhe, okanye akabonakalisi ukuba uthembekile, unokucinga ngokuthetha nomcebisi womtshato okanye ingcali.
Ubomi emva kokungathembeki
Uxinzelelo yenye yeendlela zokukhohliswa kutshintsho lwakho.
Abanye abantu abanakuze nje bagqithe kuyo kwaye ishiya umngxuma omkhulu entliziyweni yabo nasemphefumlweni. Konke kukhetho. Ungaqhekeka ufumane umntu omtsha, okanye unokulungisa le sele unayo.
Khumbula, ukuba uye wahlukana, ulahlekelwa zizinto ezininzi, ngakumbi ukuba unabantwana.
Ngamanye amaxesha lukhetho olufanelekileyo ukuba uyaqhubeka nokuhlala kubudlelwane obunetyhefu, kodwa ukuba awukho, kuhlala kufanelekile ukuba uhlale uzama. Kukho abanye abantu abamsulwa abasesichengeni. Kubandakanya neyakho.
Kungathatha iiveki, iinyanga, okanye neminyaka ukuphola ngokupheleleyo kwiintlungu zokungathembeki.
Ukukhohliswa kutshintsho lwabantu ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa banokukhula bomelele okanye babe buthathaka. Olu khetho lolwakho.