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Umxholo
- Iintliziyo zethu zifuna ukonwaba emva kokuba sivulele omnye umphefumlo
- Ukufundwa gwenxa kwemeko kukugcina unamathele
- Ukusebenza ngokwakho sisitshixo sokoyisa ingqumbo
- Sivame ukufuna into eyaziwayo
Yintoni ithemba elinokuyenza ngayo? Yonke into? Au Contraire, nditsho!
Ndifumanise ukuba enye yezona ndawo zibuhlungu kodwa zibalulekileyo kulo naluphi na ulwalamano lothando kukwamkela ukungabi nathemba.Kukho amaxesha, xa ngokuchasene nenyani ephambi kwam, ndiye ndaxhoma emntwini emva kwexesha elide benomdla wokwabelana nabo.
Ukuba ukuzithemba kukuziva unakho ngaphambi kokuba uyiqonde ngokupheleleyo imeko, ndibenetyala lokuqiniseka ukuba ndinokulungisa ubudlelwane obaphulwe ngaphaya kokuqonda kwam.
Kukho into enokuthethwa malunga nokuzingisa, ungandivi gwenxa kwaye emtshatweni okanye nakweyiphi na intsebenziswano yokuzibophelela, ukulinda ixesha lokuqhawulwa yinto esiyibhalisela abantu abadala.
Iintliziyo zethu zifuna ukonwaba emva kokuba sivulele omnye umphefumlo
Nabani na oye waba nomzali okanye ilungu losapho elincamile kubo uyayazi imeko enganyamezelekiyo yokuba banokuthintela olo hlobo lwenzakalisayo ukuba lungaze lubenzakalise kwakhona.
Inqaku lam lelokuba ngamanye amaxesha umyalezo osisiyatha wokuxhasa isangqa unokukhokelela ezantsi emngxunyeni womvundla wokuphila ngaphandle kweskripthi ukusuka ebuntwaneni esingenanto yakwenza nalapha nangoku.
Ukuhlawulela into ebendingenayo ndisengumntwana, ukugcwalisa umngxunya owombiwe kwakudala ibiyindoda yam engaboniyo ebomini. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ndingenza izinto zitshintshe ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunaleyo bendiyenza xa ndandisemncinci kakhulu ukuba ndilawule okwenziweyo kum bekusoloko kunzima ukuzibona.
Ukufundwa gwenxa kwemeko kukugcina unamathele
Ngenye imini xa ndandisemncinci, ndandithandana nemvumi eyayithanda icarlinet yayo kunye novuyo lokudlala ndedwa okanye nabasebenzi bayo ngaphezu kokuba bendinokukuqonda.
Andina talente okanye uthando lomculo wasekamereni kwaye ndingaziva ndibuhlungu kwaye ndaliwe xa ethanda ukuziqhelanisa okanye ukwenza ixesha kunye nam. Inzondo yam nokungayifundisisi kakuhle le meko kundigcine ndanamathela enxebeni lomntwana onesithukuthezi xa engazukubhiyozela ubomi ngesipho sakhe engandibandakanyi kwinto ebendingenamdla wokwenene kuyo, phofu.
Ukusebenza ngokwakho sisitshixo sokoyisa ingqumbo
U-Lynne Forrest ugqirha wezengqondo owaqulunqa ngokutsha "iDrama Triangle: ii-3 Faces of Victim" icacisa le ngxaki. NgokukaGqirha Forest, ukuba ubalisa njani ibali lezinto ohamba kuzo kubaluleke kakhulu.
Ukuba ngekhe uyeke ukufumanisa abalinganiswa kwidrama yakho "njengexhoba" okanye "umtshutshisi" kwaye uqhubeke nokuzama ukufumana umntu "oza kukuhlangula" endaweni yokusebenzisa isicwangciso sokusebenza ngokwakho uhlala ubambekile, usenza ingqumbo.
Ubomi bam bonke, ndisebenzise ubuchule bam kunye namandla am ukuzama ukucwangcisa iziqwenga zepuzzle zobuntwana bam nabantu abadala, apha ngoku, ababeneendlela ezahlukeneyo zobomi kunye namaphupha kunokuba ndandinokukuqonda.
Bendixakeke ndicinga idrama yothando engenakwenzeka, kangangokuba ndiye ndalahlekelwa kukungakhathali kwam ndaza ndazibona ndingumntwana olahliweyo, ongaqondakaliyo nongathandwayo. Kutheni le nto umntu kufuneka adlule kwiintlungu zolu hlobo lokulahleka, alahlekelwe lixesha elidlulileyo, engazi nto, ngekhe ndazi!
Apha, bendibalahla ndingazi, ndibasola ngokundenzakalisa.
Yiyo, bahlobo bam, yimeko engenathemba!
Sivame ukufuna into eyaziwayo
Into endiyaziyo yayingeyondlela yokonwaba.
Kuthathe unyango kunye namaqela amanyathelo ali-12 ukuze ndibone ukuba luluphi usizi endizenzela lona kunye "namaxhoba" am angaboniyo endibabona "njengabenzi bobubi".
Phambi kokuba ndiyitshintshe le recipe yentliziyo ebuhlungu, kwakufuneka nditshone enkungwini yokungabi nathemba. Ngaphambi kokuba ndibuyele kwibhodi yokuzoba, ndithandane, ndavuleka amehlo, bendifuna ixesha apho ndingagxila khona kubudlelwane obunothando kunye nam.
Ngoku kwavakala ngathi kukungabi nathemba lokwenene!
Kunzima ukuziva uthandeka xa uzibek 'ityala ngezinto ezimbi ezenzeke kuwe xa wawusengumntwana. Kunzima ngakumbi xa ungazi nokwazi ukwenza kwakho oko.
Ukufumana ubudlelwane, ukumamela, ukuvumela abantu ukuba bandithande, ngaphandle kwezothando, baqala ukujika inqanawa yam.
Namhlanje ndibeke ukungathembeki ekusebenzeni ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ndihleli ndingenathemba lokuba ndiyakuhlala ndigqibelele; ukuba ndiyakutshintsha nabani na; Akukho themba lokuba nantoni na ngaphandle kweenjongo ezinyanisekileyo, ububele kunye nokucaca zezona mbewu zivumela uthando ukuba luqhakaze. Ndiyathemba ukuba ndingayenza loo nto, usuku ngexesha.