Umxholo
- Umsebenzi wasekhaya uhleli phezulu kuluhlu lokulwa
- 1. Ukungalingani ekwahluleni imisebenzi yendlu
- 2. Ukungaxabisi iinzame
- 3. Iinkcazo ezahlukeneyo “zokucoceka”
- 4. Ukungaluthathi nzulu uxanduva lokucoca
- 5. Imibono eyahlukileyo yeendima zesini
Akululanga ukwakha kunye nokugcina ikhaya lamaphupha akho, kodwa nomntu olungileyo ecaleni kwakho, yonke into ibonakala ngathi inokwenzeka. Inye kuphela ingxaki ... Unokufumanisa ukuba awuqondi kakuhle indlela yokudibanisa imisebenzi yasendlini kunye nobudlelwane.
Ukugcina indlu icocekile kwaye icocekile ngumsebenzi odinisayo kunye nomceli mngeni ofihliweyo kubudlelwane bonke, onokuthi ubeke uxinzelelo nakolona lwalamano luqinileyo.
Umzamo wokudibana kunye nokulalanisa, nangona kunjalo, kufuneka ulingane ubomi obonwabisayo kunye. Njengoko kuvela, akukho lula ukufikelela kulonwabo kunye nokulinganisela.
Umsebenzi wasekhaya uhleli phezulu kuluhlu lokulwa
Kuyabonakala ukuba, ukujongana nomsebenzi wasendlwini kusenokufaneleka njengenye yezona milo zixhaphakileyo ezidibana nezibini.
Into exhalabisayo kukuba lo ngumba onokuthi uchaphazele nasiphi na isibini, ngaphandle kwenqanaba lobudlelwane.
Ukudityaniswa kwemisebenzi yendlu kunye nobudlelwane kunokubonakala njengengxaki encinci kodwa kujika kube kokwenyani xa kungahlawulwanga ngokwaneleyo.
Ukunqongophala konxibelelwano yeyona nto inoxanduva kuxinzelelo olonyukayo kunye nengxaki yomcimbi. Nangona kunjalo, ingxaki inokugxilwa nzulu kwizinto ezinje ngokukhuliswa okwahlukileyo okanye ukungakwazi ukulalanisa.
Ezona mpikiswano zixhaphakileyo zomsebenzi wasekhaya kunye nendlela yokuphathwa kwazo
1. Ukungalingani ekwahluleni imisebenzi yendlu
Kukhuselekile ukutsho Ubomi banamhlanje bunamandla amakhulu. Uxanduva kunye nolindelo lunokukuchitha emzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo.
Ke, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukubona iqabane lakho njengomntu onokwabelana naye ngalo mthwalo. Xa oko kungenzeki ngendlela olindele ngayo, iimvakalelo ze ukudinwa kunye nokuphoxeka kuqala ukwakha ngaphambi kokuba wazi.
Ngokubhekisele kulondolozo lwendlu, umbono wecandelo le-50/50 ubonakala njengesisombululo esifanelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ayisiyiyo eyona isebenzayo.
Inkqubo ye- Ingxaki ilele kwimisebenzi ethile. Ukulahla inkunkuma akulingani ngokwenene nokupheka, akunjalo? Ungayichazanga eyokuba ungaphulukana ngokulula nomhla uphikisana ngokuba ngowuphi umsebenzi obaluleke kwaye unzima ukuwenza.
Eyona nto ibhetele ukuyenza, kukuba uyenze thembeka kwizinto ozikhethayo kunye nezinto oziva uzithembile ngazo.
Sonke sinemisebenzi ethile esonyanyayo ukuyenza, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba iqabane lethu libabona ngendlela efanayo. Ke, kutheni kungenjalo Xoxa ngokuphandle ngezinto ezilawulwayo nezamkelekileyo eyendlu yakho?
Ukuba iqabane lakho likhetha eyona misebenzi uyithandayo, ungathandabuzi ukutshintshiselana nabo ufumanisa ukuba akunyamezeleki.
Ngale ndlela nobabini niyaziva ngcono ngombono womsebenzi wasendlwini, kwaye niyakwazi yandisa inqanaba lakho lemveliso.
Ukugcina umkhondo wempumelelo yesicwangciso esitsha, unako Yenza uluhlu lokutshekisha indlu okanye itshathi yomsebenzi wosapho kwaye ugcine umkhondo wokusebenza kwakho ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuphonononga iziphumo emva kwenyanga okanye ezimbini.
2. Ukungaxabisi iinzame
Ukuxabisa kunokuza ngeendlela ezininzi, kodwa inye into eqinisekileyo, sonke siyayifuna kwaye siyayidinga kubudlelwane.
Ukungaziva ingumbandela onzulu, ongafanele ujongelwe phantsi, njengoko kunokubangela ngaphezulu kwengxoxo yexesha elinye. Inokukhokelela ekuqwalaseleni kwakhona ukuzibophelela kwakho kwaye uyiphelise kwinqanaba elithile.
Nangona kunjalo, oku kunokuthintelwa ngokulula ukulungisa ingxaki kwakamsinya kunye nokuhlala uvulekile kwezinye izisombululo.
Uphando lutyhila ukuba ungonwabela ubudlelwane obuphucukileyo nobusempilweni ngokulula ukuphathisa omnye umntu imisebenzi yasekhaya.
Oku akuthethi ukuba uyatyhafa, oko kuthetha ukuba ulixabisile ixesha lakho lasimahla kwaye ufuna ukulichitha nabo banomdla kakhulu.
Ukufumana umgcini wendlu onamava nothembekileyo ayizukuphela thatha uxinzelelo lomsebenzi wasekhaya usukile kuwe. Iya kukubonelela ngexesha elifanelekile lokuphinda uqhagamshele kunye nabantu obathandayo kwaye ufumane imisebenzi eyonwabisayo yosapho.
Eyona nto iphambili apha kukuba akufuneki woyike Veza ukukhathazeka kwakho endaweni yokufaka ebhotileni kuqhuma nje kamva.
Khumbula ukuba iqabane lakho alilotshaba apha, kodwa umntu ongazaziyo iimpawu zakho kunye neengcinga zangaphakathi ngalo mbandela.
3. Iinkcazo ezahlukeneyo “zokucoceka”
Kungalula kangakanani ukuba sonke sibona izinto ngendlela efanayo? Ngelishwa, kunqabile ukuba kube njalo xa kufikwa kumba wokucoca.
Imeko eqhelekileyo yeyokuba elinye iqabane liphathe indawo enkulu yokucoca indlu ngokuzithemba kokwenza umsebenzi ongcono. Oku akufuneki kube sisizathu, nangona kunjalo, ukuba omnye atsibe umsebenzi ngokupheleleyo.
Inyaniso mayixelwe, nokuba kukungahlambuluki okanye umntu ongcolileyo akulungile. Kodwa xa bobabini aba bantu behlala phantsi kophahla olunye, inqanaba elithile lokulalanisa kufuneka.
Kubaqalayo, yenza enye iqonde ukuba awulindelanga ukuba kwenzeke imimangaliso. Ayisiyiyo yonke into malunga nomlinganiswa womntu onokutshintshwa, kodwa iinzame zokuzama zezona zibalulekileyo.
Ukuba iimpahla ezisasazekileyo phantsi okanye izitya ezimdaka ejikeleze indlu ziyamcaphukisa umntu omthandayo, ukuzihlukanisa kwigumbi elinye kuphela kukuphucula.
Ungavuma ngokuba nendawo yakho apho unokuba ngokwakho kwaye enye ayinakucaphuka malunga nayo.
Ngokubhekiselele ekucoceni nasekuhleleni abathandi, ukugxeka ayisiyiyo eyona ndlela ifanelekileyo. Ayisebenzi kakuhle, ngakumbi xa yenziwe ngelixa iimvakalelo zibaleka phezulu kwaye ukucinga okunengqiqo kucinyiwe.
Kungcono uzame ingcaciso elula yokuba kutheni le nto ibalulekile kuwe, idityaniswe nengqondo evulekileyo yezinye izimvo kunye nesisombululo esanelisa ngokulinganayo.
4. Ukungaluthathi nzulu uxanduva lokucoca
Ukuba nomlo ofanayo kaninzi kukuphazamiseka kwemithambo-luvo. Iimbopheleleko zomtshato azifanele zithatyathwe lula kwaye ukugcina indlu icocekile kwaye icocekile ngokuqinisekileyo yenye yazo. Ke kutheni le nto ukuba ibe mnye kuphela umntu obandakanyekileyo ozibophelela kubo?
Esona sizathu siphambili kukuba kukhuseleko lokuba kukho umntu oza kuzenza nokuba zithini. Isibini ngasinye sinemithetho yaso malunga nendlela izinto ezimele ukuba ngayo, ngamanye amaxesha zibekwa ngokwendalo ngaphandle kokuba uyiqonde.
Ukuba unika iqabane lakho umbono wokuba ungangenelela kwaye uphathe konke ngaphandle kwemeko, emva koko wenza umzekelo.
Kuyenzeka ukuba unike umbono wokuba awudingi okanye ufuna naluphi na uncedo xa, enyanisweni, ichasene.
Ukutshintsha imikhwa yakudala kuhlala kunzimat kwaye yiyo loo nto kunjalo kungcono ukuxoxa yonke imicimbi yendlu kunye neyodwa ekhethekileyo kwangoko, ukuze ucace. Musa ukoyika ukwabelana nolindelo lwakho lokwenyani.
5. Imibono eyahlukileyo yeendima zesini
Sonke sinokuqonda malunga nendlela ekufuneka iphathwe ngayo umzi kwaye le yinto esinomdla wokubambelela kuyo.
Ukukhula, ulungelelwaniso losapho lwethu lusebenza njengomzekelo, ophembelela umbono wethu wokuba zinjani izinto kubudlelwane.
Nantoni na eyahlukileyo inokubonakala ingamkelekanga kwaye ngaphambi kokuba siyazi, sinokubanjelwa kwimpikiswano eshushu kunye nomntu esimthandayo malunga nokubi nokubi.
Ngokwesiqhelo, le yinto ifundwe ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuyityhila kamva.
Ngelixa inokubonakala ngathi yumahluko nje wezimvo, inokubonisa ukuba inobuzaza ngakumbi. Kungenxa yoko le nto amagama anokwanela ukusombulula ingxaki.
Ukuba icala elichaseneyo alizimiselanga kuthathela ingqalelo umbono kunye nezimvo zakho, mhlawumbi umzekelo ophilayo unokwenza utshintsho.
Ukubona kuqala indlela izinto ezisebenza ngayo kusapho lwakho kwaye ngoba, kunokuzisa umbono omtsha. Ewe kunjalo, kuya kuba kufanelekile ukuba uphinde ubuyekeze, kodwa oku kuya kunceda ukuhambisa umahluko wakho, kunye nokuqonda ngcono iqabane lakho.