Umxholo
- Umcimbi wale mihla
- Ukuswayipha ngasekunene
- Ukuthenga kwi-Intanethi
- Iindlela zokufumanisa
- Iimigca eluziziz
“Imiyalezo ebhaliweyo ilipstick entsha ekhola, ityala elilahlekileyo lekhadi letyala. Ngokukhawuleza kwaye babonakala ngathi bayinto nje, banokuba sisiqinisekiso semicimbi efihlakeleyo ”, utshilo uLaura Holson phaya ngo-2009. Itekhnoloji idale ukhetho; abantu abasavinjelwanga ukunxibelelana nabo sele besazi okanye bahlangana kwaye malunga. Itekhnoloji ayenzi ukuba kube lula ukukopa, itshintshile indlela esicinga ngayo ukuba yintoni ukukopela kwaye yenza kube lula ukufumanisa ukungcatsha. Ukukrexeza akusapheleli nje ekuthandaneni ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo; inkcazo yayo iyanda kwaye iyahluka ukusuka komnye umntu uye komnye: umtya wemiyalezo kumntu ongamaziyo unokwamkeleka komnye umntu, kwaye ukuswayipha kube kanye kuhlelo lokusebenza lokuthandana kunokuba sisaphuli-mthetho komnye.
Umcimbi wale mihla
Kule mihla kukho inani elinokubonakala lingenasiphelo kumaqonga emiyalezo enza ukuba kube nakho ukunxibelelana nomntu ongamaziyo okanye idangatye elidala ngephanyazo, ngokufuthi ngokungaziwa okanye ngokufihlakeleyo. I-Snapchatting, imiyalezo ye-Facebook, iTinder swiping, i-Instagram ngqo-imiyalezo, iWhatsapping ... ukubala kodwa zimbalwa. Uhlobo lwento ethandabuzekayo phakathi kobuchwephesha obunamandla kunye nonobhala wakhe banikezele ngendlela "yokuhlangana kweTinder", ekulula kakhulu ukuyifihla kunodlelwano lweofisi.
Ukuswayipha ngasekunene
Itekhnoloji inike uluntu ukufikelela simahla kulwazi kunye nemibono, icela umngeni kubantu ukuba bacinge ngokwahlukileyo kwaye bazichaze isimilo sabo. Akusekho nkcazo ilula yokungathembeki, ubuncinci kwabanye. Kwabaninzi, ukunganyaniseki kukungcatsha ukuthembana. Kukho ukwanda okungafaniyo kwinto abantu abakholelwa ukuba kukukopela, kwaye oku kungatshintsha kwisibini ngasinye nakumntu ngamnye kweso sibini. Kuvavanyo olwenziwe nguSlater noGordon, i-46% yamadoda kunye ne-21% yabasetyhini bavumile ukuba basebenzise ukuthandana ngelixa besebudlelwaneni, kwaye isithukuthezi sikhankanywa njengesona sizathu siphambili. Kuya kubonakala ngathi ngokubanzi, uninzi lwethu luthathela ingqalelo usetyenziso lwee -apps zokwenza amadinga ngelixa kubudlelwane ukukopela (iipesenti ezingama-80 zabo baphononongiweyo), kodwa i-10% yafikelela kwinqanaba lokuba ithi ukusetyenziswa kwabo kukukopela kuphela ukuba kukhokelela ukunxibelelana ngokomzimba.
Ukuthenga kwi-Intanethi
Kukhuselekile ukuba izimvo zesiko lomtshato zichithwe kwamanye amalungu oluntu. U-Ashley Madison, inkonzo yokuthandana ejolise kwabo bakwimitshato kunye nemitshato (kwaye isilogeni sayo sasifudula sisithi "Ubomi bufutshane: yiba nokuthandana"), uqhayisa malunga nezigidi ezingama-52 zabasebenzisi ukusukela oko yasekwayo ngo-2002. UNoel Biderman, umseki wayo, wazilwela ukugxeka, esithi u-Ashley Madison ngobulumko unceda abantu ukuba benze imicimbi ngeendlela ezingenabungozi kuluntu nakwezasemsebenzini. Nokuba wenza ntoni, wathi "ukungathembeki bekude kakhulu kuno-Ashley Madison". Kodwa kwiminyaka apho yonke into ithunyelwe kwi-intanethi ngandlela thile, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uhlale ungaziwa kwaye ugcine izinto ziyimfihlo? Ngokucacileyo akunjalo. Iwebhusayithi 'eyingqondi' yatyholwa ngo-2015, ikhokelela kwiinkcukacha zeakhawunti zabasebenzisi abazizigidi ezingama-32 ezithunyelwe kwiwebhu emnyama kwaye ziveza imicimbi efihliweyo yezigidi zabantu abatshatileyo.
Iindlela zokufumanisa
Kodwa iteknoloji ayithandi nje abo banqwenela ukuphonononga ukhetho lwabo; wonke umyalezo, umfanekiso, kunye neapps ishiya umkhondo, nasemva kokuba icinyiwe. Oku kungakhokelela kumaqabane enza ukufunyanwa okungamkelekanga ngengozi. Okanye apho utshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha, ukusuka kwixesha elidala "ukusebenza emva kwexesha" ukuya ekuthatheni ifowuni ishawa, uxelele amaqabane asolisayo, i-intanethi ibonelela ngeendlela ezininzi zokuphanda. Kukho iimeko ezigabadeleyo ezinje ngomfazi owafumanisa ukuba umyeni wakhe uyakhohlisa xa embona kwikhaya lenkosikazi yakhe kwiiMephu zikaGoogle, kwaye okuxhaphakileyo ukwenzeka kutyhila ukubulela kumyalezo oposiweyo we-Instagram okanye umyalezo odanyazayo kwifowuni. Ayisiyiyo kuphela ukuba kulula ukuyityhila le nto, kukudlala komntwana ukufumana igama lomnye umntu kwaye ucofe kuphela ukufumanisa naluphi na olunye ulwazi abalubonisayo kwihlabathi liphela kwimithombo yeendaba.
Iimigca eluziziz
Ngoku sihlala kuluntu oluhlala nokunxibelelana kwi-intanethi. Singalindela njani ukuba imicimbi, iifoto, okanye imiyalezo ebonakala ingenabungozi igcinwe ngasese xa sibhengeza esidlangalaleni ubomi bethu? Ukukrexeza kufakwe kwiifowuni zethu kwaye akunakupheliswa lula okanye ulibale. Inkcazo yokukrexeza itshintshile kuninzi, imigca iphazamisekile. Kukho iindlela ezingakumbi zokukhohlisa kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ithuba elininzi elinikwe amaqonga akwi-Intanethi ngoku. Ngelixa kungenakwenzeka ukuxelela ukuba kukho imicimbi ngoku, ngokuqinisekileyo kulula ukubhengeza ukungathembeki kweqabane. Mhlawumbi konke kulula kakhulu ukuphonononga ezinye iindlela kweli xesha lobugcisa.
UKate Williams
UKate Williams ligqwetha eliqeqeshwayo kusapho oluphezulu nakwifemu yomthetho womtshato iVardags abagxile kwixabiso eliphezulu, elinzima nelomtshato wamanye amazwe.