Umbono webhayibhile wokuxolelwa emtshatweni uhambelana noxolelo kubo bonke ubudlelwane. Ukudityaniswa koxolelo kuvumela izibini ezitshatileyo ukuba zibe nokholo ekubuyiselweni komtshato.
Imigaqo yobuKrestu ikhuthaza uxolelo ngenxa yeziphumo ezibi ezichazwe kuyo Galati 5:19 (izenzo zesono). Galati 5:22 Uluhlu lweziqhamo zoMoya oyiNgcwele eziziphumo ezilungileyo zoxolelo. Babandakanya uthando, uxolo, umonde, ukuthembeka, ukuthobeka, ububele, uvuyo, ubulali, nokuzeyisa.
Ibhayibhile ithi uxolelo ngamandla oMoya oyiNgcwele njengoko utsala uthando. Emtshatweni, umthandazo sisixhobo esinamandla sokuthethelela phakathi kukaKristu ubawo wethu (uThixo). Umzekelo wendlela yokuthandaza kwiNkosi yethu umthandazo kwi UMateyu 6: 1 ithi ".... Sixolele izono zethu njengoko sibaxolela abo basonayo"
Ileta kaPawulos eya kwabase-Efese kwiSahluko 4: 31-32”... Susa bonke ubukrakra, umsindo kunye nomsindo oxabana nomnini ndawo kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zobubi. 32: yibani nobubele nemfesane komnye, nixolelane njengokuba noKrestu osezulwini wanixolela. Sinyanzelekile ukuba sithandane. U-Kristu wathabatha ubume bomntu kwaye wadlula kuko konke ukuhlaziswa nokuqhubeka nokubethelelwa emnqamlezweni, ukuba wayenako ukusixolela izono zethu, ngoobani ke thina ukuba sibe nenqala ngakumaqabane ethu?
Ezinye zeemvakalelo ezibuhlungu zendele nzulu ezintliziyweni zethu kangangokuba uziva uxolelo ayisiyiyo indlela. Kukho ithemba xa uthembele ngoThixo. Kwi UMateyu 19:26 "Ebantwini oku akunakwenzeka kodwa kuye uThixo kunokwenzeka" uYesu uqinisekisa abafundi ukuba babe nengqondo evulekileyo yokuba uThixo asithumele uMoya oyiNgcwele ukuba athambise iintliziyo zethu ukujonga izinto ezingenakwenzeka njengezinto ezinokwenzeka.
Nokuba inzulu kangakanani imvakalelo ebuhlungu ngenxa yesenzo esivela kwiqabane lakho, awunagunya lokwenza lukhuni intliziyo yakho, mxolele ukuba uqinisekise uthando kunye nezipho zoMoya oyiNgcwele ukuze usebenze kubuthathaka beqabane lakho. Kufuneka ulixolele kangaphi iqabane lakho?
UMateyu 18:22, UYesu ubaphendula abafundi ngenani lamaxesha ekufuneka umxolele umntu okukhubekisayo .... ”Andikuxeleli kasixhenxe, kodwa kasixhenxe. Ngokucacileyo, awusoze ugcine ukubala inani lamaxesha ekufuneka ulixolele iqabane lakho, kufanelekile ukuba kungabikho mda.
UMateyu 6:14, emva kokuba uYesu wafundisa abafundi bakhe indlela yokuthandaza - uMthandazo weNkosi. Wabona ukungathandabuzeki kubafundi ngokuxolela waza wabaxelela. Ukuba uyabaxolela abantu xa bekona, uYihlo osemazulwini uya kukuxolela nawe, kodwa ukuba awubaxoleli, naye uYihlo osemazulwini akazukukuxolela.
Ngenxa yokungafezeki kwethu njengendoda okanye umfazi, sukukhawuleza ukhuphe isibi esikwiliso leqabane lakho ngelixa ushiya isigodo kwelakho iliso. Ukungafezeki kwethu kwemvelo kuhlala kusenzakalisana; ukuze siphile ngokuvisisana emva koko kufuneka sixolele ukuvumela uThixo ukuba asixolele kwaye ahlangabezane neemfuno zethu njengoko sicela emthandazweni.
KwabaseRoma5: 8 "... Kodwa okwangoku, uThixo ubonakalisa uthando lwakhe kuthi, sakubon 'ukuba sisengaboni wasifela." Inika ingxelo ecacileyo ngenjongo yokuza kukaYesu asindise aboni. Sona kangaphi kuThixo? Ukanti, ujonge ecaleni kwaye usinika ithuba lokuba siguquke kwaye samkele isihloko esithi "bantwana bakaThixo." Kutheni ungabonisi uthando olufanayo kwiqabane lakho ngokuxolela ukukhupha iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu. Asingcono kunoKristu owazithoba wanxiba izihlangu zoLuntu ngalo lonke uzuko wasifela ukuze sisindiswe. Akuzange kumhluthe amandla nozuko. Lowo ngumgaqo ofanayo amaqabane afanele ukuwenza. Uxolelo luthando.
Kwabase-Efese 5:25: “Madoda bathande abafazi benu njengokuba noKrestu walithandayo ibandla waza wazinikela ngenxa yakhe.
1 kaYohane 1:19 “Ukuba siyazivuma izono zethu, uthembekile, ulilungisa, ukuba asixolele izono zethu, asihlambulule kuko konke ukungalungisi. Njengokuba uKristu esifundisa nje, kufuneka ulwamkele uxanduva lokuziphatha kwakho; isibonakaliso esicacileyo sokuba uyavuma ukulunga nokungalunganga kukwenza uThixo ukuze asebenzise ilungelo lokuxolela.
Kwangokunjalo, iqabane elikhubekisa iqabane kufuneka lehlise ikratshi lokuvuma izono zalo ukuze lixolelwe liqabane. Xa kukho uvumo lwezenzo ezigwenxa kuvula ingxoxo ukucima nakuphi na ukuthandabuza, iingcinga, kunye nokungaqondi ukufumana isisombululo sengxaki emva koko uxolelo luyaqala.