Umxholo
Ukuqonda gadalala akusoloko kungumsebenzi olula. Ukuphathwa gadalala yingcinga entsonkothileyo, enokuchazwa ngokucacileyo kodwa kube nzima ukuyiqonda nokuchonga. Ngamafutshane, impatho-gadalala yiyo nayiphi na indlela yokuziphatha okanye isenzo esithathwa ngokuba sikhohlakele, sinobundlobongela, okanye senziwa ngenjongo yokonzakalisa ixhoba Igama elithi “ukuxhatshazwa”Igubungela uluhlu olubanzi lokuziphatha kunye nezenzo; le mizekelo ilandelayo zezona ndlela zixhaphakileyo zokuphathwa gadalala kubambiswano, umtshato, okanye ubudlelwane bexesha elide: ezemvakalelo, ezengqondo, ezomlomo, kunye nezomzimba.
Ingaba injani impatho gadalala?
Abo banamava okuphathwa gadalala ixesha elide okanye kubudlelwane obuninzi bahlala benobunzima ekuboneni ubudlelwane obungenampilo obukhoyo ebomini babo. Ukuphathwa gadalala kunye neziphumo zazo zinokwahluka kakhulu, kungoko kungekho ndlela yokuchonga xa ubudlelwane busoyikisa okanye busengozini. Ngaphambi kokuba ufune uncedo (okanye ulunike), kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ezinye zeempawu eziqhelekileyo zokulumkisa ezihlala zikho kubudlelwane neendlela zokuziphatha ezingalunganga.
Oku kulandelayo luluhlu lwezinye zezona zilumkiso zixhaphakileyo okanye iiflegi ezibomvu. Ukuba uninzi lwezi zinto lukhona kubudlelwane bakho okanye kwenye oyibonileyo, jonga olu lwazi lulandelayo uluhlu lweempawu zeendlela onokulufuna okanye unike uncedo ngazo.
- Ixhoba liyoyika iqabane;
- Ixhoba lixoka kusapho okanye kubahlobo malunga nokuziphatha gwenxa njengendlela yokugubungela umxhaphazi;
- Ixhoba likhazimlile okanye liyabekek 'amehlo liqabane ukuze liqiniseke ukuba alicaphuki;
- Umxhaphazi uyaligxeka okanye alibeke phantsi ixhoba ngamazwi xa ekunye nosapho okanye nabahlobo;
- Umhlukumezi ngabom ulihlazo ixhoba phambi kosapho okanye abahlobo;
- Ixhoba liyasongelwa, liyabanjwa, liyatyhalwa, okanye libethwe liqabane;
- Umxhaphazi ugxeka izinto ezifezekisiweyo okanye iinjongo kunokuba azincome;
- Umxhaphazi usoloko ejonga ixhoba okanye unika umda wexesha kwizinto ezifana nokuya ezivenkileni okanye ukundwendwela abahlobo / nosapho;
- Umxhaphazi ulithintela ixhoba ekuchitheni ixesha nosapho;
- Ixhoba likhetha ukungamshiyi umxhaphazi, esoyika into anokuyenza umntu lowo ukuba ulwalamano luphelile;
- Ixhoba alivunyelwa ukuba lifumane, ligcine, okanye longe imali;
- Ixhoba lishiywa liqabane kwiindawo ezinobungozi okanye lonakaliswe yimpahla yalo ngumxhaphazi;
- Ixhoba lisoloko lityholwa ngokukhohlisa, okanye;
- Ixhoba liqhutywa ngezenzo ngobuxoki nangezisongelo ezivela kumxhaphazi.
Ngubani onokunceda?
Uluntu oluninzi lunezinto ezimbalwa zasimahla ezifumanekayo kwabo bafumana iindlela zokuziphatha gadalala kunye nezenzo. Iinkqubo zeShelter zibonelela ngendawo ekhuselekileyo yokuba amaxhoba ahlale iintsuku okanye iiveki ezininzi ukuqinisekisa ukuba axhonyiwe kwinani lezixhobo ezongezelelweyo kwaye akhuselwe ngokwasemzimbeni kumxhaphazi wawo. Ezi ndawo zokufihla intloko zihlala zibandakanya iinkqubo ezikwisiza ezinje ngokucebisa umntu ngamnye kunye namaqela enkxaso, ukucebisa ngoncedo ngexesha lobunzima kubantu kunye neentsapho, ukuthethelelwa kwezomthetho, kunye nabasebenzi bokudlulisela eluntwini.
Imigca yeengxaki ifumaneka kuluntu, kumazwe, okanye kwizixhobo zikazwelonke. Le migca yeengxaki ihlala ivula iiyure ezingamashumi amabini anesine ngosuku kwaye incedise ukudibanisa abantu okanye iintsapho ezisengxakini kubasebenzi bexesha likaxakeka abafanelekileyo. Le migca yeengxaki ayenzelwanga ukubonelela ngonyango emntwini kodwa ibhulorho phakathi komntu osengxakini kunye nolwazi olufanelekileyo, ukuhanjiswa kunye nenkxaso yeemvakalelo.
Abameli bezomthetho zizibonelelo ezigqwesileyo ezihlala zifumaneka kwiiarhente zoluntu kunye neeofisi zezixhobo. Igqwetha linokunceda ekufayiliseni izikhalazo zebhetri, ii-odolo zokukhusela, uqhawulo-mtshato, amabango wembuyekezo yokwenzakala, ukuthunyelwa kwamagqwetha, kunye nokubonelela ngenkxaso ngexesha lokumanyelwa kwenkundla. Amagqwetha anjalo hayi Amagqwetha kodwa angadibanisa ixhoba lokuxhatshazwa kumagqwetha kunye nezinye izixhobo zomthetho.
Ukunyanzeliswa komthetho kunokuba yenye yeendlela zokuqinisa ezomeleleyo zomntu ophethwe gadalala. Banegunya lokubamba umxhaphazi, bafake iingxelo zeziganeko ezifanelekileyo, kwaye banikeze indlela ekhuselekileyo yokuba ixhoba libuyele ekhaya liye kuqokelela izinto ukuba ngaba umngcipheko wokhuseleko uyinto exhalabisayo.
Ungenzani?
Ngamanye amaxesha ayilulo uncedo lobungcali, abo baqeqeshelwe ukunceda amaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala, abona basebenza kakhulu ebomini bomntu. Abo bakulungeleyo ukumamela ngaphandle kokugweba okanye ukugxeka, abo bazimisele ukubeka ecaleni ezabo izimvo okomzuzwana, ngabo ababa ngabona bantu baxhasayo ekumeni kubudlelwane obuhlukumezayo. Kubalulekile ukuba ungamameli nje kuphela, kodwa ukholelwe umntu xa bethetha. Kunzima ngokwaneleyo ukufikelela ngaphandle kwaye ucele uncedo; Ukutyholwa ngokuxoka okanye ukolula inyani kunokubeka ukubuyela kwimeko entle. Ukongeza, qiniseka ukuba uyazi ukuba yintoni ekhoyo eluntwini ngaphambi kokufikelela. Kuhlala kungumbono olungileyo ukwazi ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwenkxaso uluntu lwakho olunokuyinika abo banesidingo; ukuba uncedo lomntu oyingcali yile nto umntu ayifunayo kwaye ayifunayo, ukuzilungiselela ngolwazi ngaphambi kwexesha kunokusindisa ubomi. Nika ulwazi, kodwa qiniseka ukuba awuthathi sigqibo. Xhasa ngaphandle kokunyanzelwa. Kwaye ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, kukulungele ukuthatha inyathelo emva kwaye uvumele ixhoba ukuba liphathe. Xa ixhoba likulungele ukufumana uncedo, yiba lapho ukulixhasa.