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Ukucwangcisa usapho kunokuba yenye yezona ndawo zintle zokuba sisibini esitshatileyo kwaye ke ngoko ufuna ukubeka ingcinga enkulu kuyo.
Nangona nobabini ninokuninzi kokuthetha ngako, niyakufumanisa ukuba kukho indlela ethile ofuna ukuyithatha ukucinga malunga nendlela yokuqalisa usapho okanye indlela yokucwangcisa usapho.
Ukuqala usapho akunakuza ngokwendalo njengoko ucinga, kwaye ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba wena ugcine unxibelelwano luphila kwaye lonke ixesha. Eli lixesha elinomdla, kodwa kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba uneencoko ezibalulekileyo apha endleleni.
Ezinye zeengcebiso ezilungileyo ekucwangciseni usapho kukuzama ukuphumla kwaye uyonwabele inkqubo. Cinga ukuba ngaba ukulungele abantwana kwaye bangaphi abantwana ongathanda ukuba nabo.
Zibuze ukuba uqale nini usapho? Zithini izinto ezilungileyo nezingeloncedo zokuba namawele? Ngaba uzinzile ngokwezezimali ukuze ube nabantwana? Le yimibuzo onokuzibuza yona ngaphambi kokuba ube nosana okanye xa uziva ukuba ukulungele ukuqala usapho.
Thetha ngekamva ngokubhekisele kwinto oyifunayo kubantwana bakho okanye indlela oza kubakhulisa ngayo. Ngaphaya koko, kunjalo Qiniseka ukuba ucinga ukuba inyani yokuba nomntwana kuzisa uluhlu lweemvakalelo.
Ufuna ukungena uvule amehlo kwaye uyazi ukuba ukuba liqela okanye usapho oluyinyani luyakunceda ngokumangalisayo.
Thatha uxinzelelo kwaye uzame ukonwabela inkqubo
Xa ucinga ngendlela onokuqala ngayo ukucwangcisa usapho, yazi xa ixesha lilungile. Yazi nawe lonto ayizizo zonke izinto ezizokulungela ngokugqibeleleyo, kodwa kuyakubakho okuqwalaselwayo ekufuneka ukuxoxa ngako omnye nomnye.
Ukuba ucwangcisa usapho, cinga ngendawo onayo, ixesha, ukuba ikamva lakho liza kujongeka kanjani, kwaye ufuna ukuba luhlobo luni lwabazali. Thatha uxinzelelo kwi-equation kwaye uzame ukuthatha izigqibo ucinga ukuba ukuba nomntwana yinto enomdla kwaye izele lulonwabo.
Ukuba ungabeka ecaleni iimvakalelo ezimbi kwaye ufike kwinqanaba apho ungonwabela khona inkqubo, emva koko ukucwangcisa usapho kunokuba yenye yezona zinto zinomvuzo ebomini bakho kunye njengesibini esitshatileyo.
Ngamaxesha athile elona cebiso lililo lokucwangcisa usapho kukonwabela uhambo kanye njengendawo esiya kuyo, Kwaye niyazi ukuba konke kuya kuwela emgceni ukuba nisebenza kunye njengeqela lokwenyani.
Gcina ingqondo nomzimba usempilweni
Nazi izinto ezithile onokuzenza ukugcina impilo nomzimba usempilweni xa uceba usapho kwaye.
- Nje ukuba wena kunye neqabane lakho niqale ukuzama ukuba nomntwana, qiniseka ukuba Nika ingqalelo umjikelo wakho we-ovulation. Ukuchonga elona xesha le-ovulation okanye usuku kunika isibini ithuba eliphezulu lokukhulelwa umntwana.
- Enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ekufuneka zenziwe sisibini ngaphambi kokuqalisa usapho kukwenza lahla imikhwa ethile emibi.
Ukulindela oomama okanye abayeni kufanele yeka ukutshaya njengoko kunokuba yingozi kakhulu kubo bobabini umama nosana. Kwangokunjalo, ukusela utywala kuyingozi kakhulu kumama nakusana ngexesha nasemva kokukhulelwa.
- Bobabini abangaphantsi kunye nabasetyhini abagqithisileyo basemngciphekweni wokubonakalisa iingxaki ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Zama ukufumana ubunzima obunempilo ngaphambi kokukhulelwa kodwa ungagqithisi ngombono wobunzima obunempilo, obunokuba neziphumo ezinobungozi ngokunjalo.
- Yenza uhlolo lwakho lwezonyango lwenziwe rhoqo ukuhlala phambi kwazo naziphi na iingxaki ezinokuvela ngexesha okanye emva kokukhulelwa.
Ngelixa ukhoyo, nxibelelana nengcali kubuzali ukuze uzilungiselele oko kuza kwenzeka ngexesha nasemva kokukhulelwa.
- Amaqabane adlala indima ebalulekileyo ekwenzeni imeko esempilweni yeqabane elinomntwana. Ayisiyiyo kuphela ukuba kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba umama uhlala omelele ngokwasemzimbeni, kodwa Indlela yokuphila esempilweni kude neengcinga ezingalunganga kunye nemibono kubo bobabini amaqabane kubaluleke kakhulu.
- Cinga ngokuthatha uvavanyo lokuvavanywa kwemfuza ukuze uchonge ukuba ngaba unazo na iinguqulelo zemfuza lonto ingafunyanwa lilusana. Ukuphazamiseka kwemfuza okunje nge-Autism, i-Down syndrome njl.njl. Kunokufunyanwa kuvavanyo lokuvavanywa kwemvelo.
Kwimeko apho uthwala olo tshintsho unokuzilungiselela kwaye yenza amalungiselelo okwenza obakho kunye nobomi bomntwana wakho bube lula ngakumbi.
Crunch amanani
Ukucwangcisa usapho kunzima kwaye kuyabiza kwaye njengesibini, kuya kufuneka niqwalasele imeko yenu yezemali kwaye niqiniseke ukuba niza kuqhuba njani. Ngokwengxelo epapashwe ngu-USDA ngo-2015, i Iindleko eziqikelelweyo zokukhulisa umntwana ukusuka ekuzalweni ukuya kwiminyaka eyi-17 zii-233,610 zamaRandi.
Ngaphandle kweendleko zenyanga emva kokuba umntwana ezelwe, kuya kubakho Ixabiso elininzi elibandakanyekayo ngaphambi kokubeleka. Izihlalo zeemoto, ii-cradles, ii-stroller, iimpahla, i-diapers, kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi zinokukuxabisa imali eninzi.
Kungafuneka yandisa ipolisi ye-inshurensi yakho yezempilo neyokuphila ukuze ulungiselele usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa. Imigaqo-nkqubo ethile inokutshintshwa phakathi enyakeni kodwa iya kuphinda ifune ukuqwalaselwa okuninzi wakube ujonge imali yakho.
Abantwana bakhula ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngaphambi kokuba wazi ukuba baya esikolweni nakwiikholeji. Ukuba ufuna ukukhusela ikamva labantwana bakho, kufuneka uqale ukonga kwanangaphambi kokuba bazalwe. Imfundo ephakamileyo, ixabiso liphezulu.
Ufuna ukuqala usapho okanye Ukucwangcisa usapho kufuna iingxoxo ezininzi kukhetho lwakho lobomi kunye nolwangokuAyisiyiyo yonke eyokuba ayizukuxabiseka ekugqibeleni kodwa ungayenza inkqubo ibe nzima kakhulu kuwe nakwiqabane lakho.