Umxholo
- 1. Cwangcisa into eyahlukileyo
- 2. Zisa ibhalansi ekuthetheni
- 3. Akukho ntetho yakudala
- 4. Cofa ukhuko lwakho
- 5. Kuphephe ukuba satin
- 6. Sukujonga kwifowuni yakho
- 7. Ukuzithemba kubalulekile
- 8. Yazi iiflegi zakho ezibomvu
Ukuthandana akukho lula njengokuba kwakukade kunjalo.
Ngeeapps, iiwebhusayithi kunye neekholamu zeengcali, amaxesha okuhlangana amnandi athandanayo awayekhe anqwenelwa ngoku sele enqabile. Nangona kunjalo, imithetho yokuthandana isekhona, ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi, iyafana. Iimpawu ebezikade zichaza umnumzana zisasebenza.
Kukho imibuzo eyahlukeneyo evelayo nangona kunjalo, ngemeko yokuthandana yanamhlanje? Ngubani ohlawula lo mhla? Ngaba uyamvulela? Unxiba ntoni? Ukucinga ngendlela onokuyithanda ngayo intombazana ngomhla wokuqala?
Apha, siqhekeza iingcebiso ezilula zokuthandana ezibophelelwe yintliziyo yakhe.
1. Cwangcisa into eyahlukileyo
Ngaba ujonge iindlela ezithandekayo zokumchukumisa ngomhla wokuqala?
Khumbula ukubonakala kokuqala kubalulekile! Ayisiyiyo kuphela into oyinxibayo okanye indlela okhangeleka ngayo, kodwa nento oyicwangcisileyo. Asikuceli ukuba ucwangcise isidlo esi-3-sokutya kwindawo yokutyela ephezulu kwindawo elungileyo yedolophu.
Kodwa, yiya ngaphaya kwendawo yebar. Ungcono kunoko! Zininzi iziganeko ezinomdla mihla le ezenza usuku lokuqala oluhle.
Ubusuku bokuma, ubusuku be-mic evulekileyo, umdlalo, intengiso yomfama, igumbi lokubaleka, i-skating skating okanye umdyarho. Izinketho ezingaphaya kwesiqhelo azinasiphelo.
Ukuba akukho nto, yenza ibali elinomdla kumhla olandelayo.
2. Zisa ibhalansi ekuthetheni
Akukho nto imbi ngaphezu komntu ozimeleyo ngomhla.
Khumbula, ngumhla, hayi iseshoni yonyango.
Enye yezinto ekufuneka uyenzile ngomhla wokuqala kukwenza umbono olungileyo. Makhe athethe kwaye ukuba uneentloni, mbuze imibuzo ukuze avule kancinci. Incoko elungileyo imalunga nokunikwa kwaye uthathe.
Akukho sidingo sokuba neendawo zokuthetha ngaphambi komhla kwaye kungcono ukuvumela incoko ukuba ikuhambise.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uxhalabile ekuhlaleni, ayikukhathazi ukuba neendawo zokuthetha ezimbalwa epokothweni yakho yangasemva ukuze ubethe ngexesha likaxakeka.
3. Akukho ntetho yakudala
Ewe uza nempahla, kodwa eso ayisosizathu sokuchitha umhla olungileyo.
Enye yeengcebiso ukuthandana ukuba ukhumbule kukuba nokuba mkhulu kangakanani okanye indlela eyoyikekayo ex yakho, shiya elidlulileyo ngasemva.
Ngelixa ukukhankanywa kunokuba kulunge ngokugqibeleleyo ukuba uxoxa ngamava onawo, zama ukungagungqi kwimbali yakho.
Enye yeengcebiso zokuthandana kukuziphatha ngesidima. Ungakhali okanye ungxolise amehlo akho malunga nalowo ubalekileyo.
Enye yeengcebiso eziphezulu zokuthandana kwamadoda kukujonga okwangoku kwaye unike ingqalelo kumfazi ophambi kwakho.
4. Cofa ukhuko lwakho
Ukuba usuku luhamba kakuhle kwaye uyakwamkela ukubuyela ekhayeni lakho ngenjongo yokulala ebusuku, qiniseka ukuba uza kwikhaya elicocekileyo nelicocekileyo. Ikhaya elimemeyo luphawu olukhulu lokukhula kwakho ngokweemvakalelo.
Umatrasi ogcwele amabala kunye nemithombo evulekileyo ayisiyonto ilungileyo.
Ngezinto zokunethezeka ezinje ngecashmere esetyenziswa koomatrasi, iimveliso ezinjengeDreamcloud ziqinisekisile ukuba ubomi bakho bokuthandana nguA-Kulungile. Awusoze ukujongele phantsi ukuxabiseka okwenziwa ngumfazi ngendoda engaphiliyo ngendlela ebeya kwenza ngayo kumnyhadala womculo. Ukungathethi, umatrasi olungileyo ngokuqinisekileyo unokukunceda ngenxalenye 'yasemva komhla' yako konke.
5. Kuphephe ukuba satin
Ngelixa amashiti e-red satin ebenokubonakala emhle kwii-80s, mhlawumbi ayisiyiyo le nto afuna ukuyibona kwigumbi lakho lokulala ngoku. Ufumana amashiti amnandi aphathwayo avela kwi-Nectar athambileyo kwaye athambile ngakumbi.
Ngelixa umgangatho ulungile, ezi brand ziye zaqinisekisa ukuba awunyanzelekanga ukuba ukhuphe imali eninzi. Ubuhle abuzami nzima kakhulu; kungenxa yokungazami.
6. Sukujonga kwifowuni yakho
Enye yeengcebiso eziphezulu zokuthandana kukuba ukhumbule ukungaphuphi (ukutsala umnxeba) umhla wakho.
Ngelixa kunokuba kukuhenda ukujonga into eyenziwa ngumlingani wakho kwi-Instagram, unokufuna ukubeka ifowuni yakho phantsi kwaye ugxile kumfazi ohleli phambi kwakho.
Kuyavunywa, siphila kwiminyaka yemithombo yeendaba zentlalo, kodwa ukuhlangana komntu ngamnye kusabalulekile ekwakheni ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nonxibelelwano olomeleleyo.
Unokufuna ukubeka ifowuni yakho cwaka kwaye uyibeke kude ngeentsuku zakho kwaye umamele le nto akuxelela yona. Unokufumana into encinci kwaye ikrwada ukuba awenzi njalo.
7. Ukuzithemba kubalulekile
Ukuba sesichengeni yenye into, ukuzithoba yenye into. Ukuzithemba okuphuma yenye yezona ngcebiso zibalulekileyo zokuthandana zamadoda ukuba azilandele.
Ukuzithemba kukutsha okutsha okanye bekusoloko kunjalo. Kutheni abafana 'abalungileyo' becinga ukuba abafazi bayaya kwabanzima? Ayisiyiyo ngenxa yexesha abalichitha ejimini kodwa ngenxa yokuzithemba kwabo.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba unengxaki yokuzithemba, kuya kufuneka ubethe icandelo lokuzinceda kuqala kunokuba uthandane nesicelo.
8. Yazi iiflegi zakho ezibomvu
Asinguye wonke umntu odibana naye oza kuba egqibeleleyo.
Abanye banokude baphume bengengabo-bonwabile. Kubalulekile ukuba uchonge iiflegi ezibomvu ngokuqinisekileyo ezinokukhulisa intloko xa uncokola. Ukuba umfazi ukuxelela ukuba unento enkulu kakhulu, uba nomona ngendlela engathethekiyo kwaye uyakufuna ngalo lonke ixesha, thatha nje igama lakhe uqhubeke.
Isitshixo sobomi obunempumelelo bokuthandana kukuzama, uzame kwaye uzame ezinye. Leyo yenye yeengcebiso zokuthandana eziza kukusindisa ngokungafunekiyo.
Ukulandela uthando okanye nokuba ngumlingane kufuna umgudu, kodwa kuyenza ibaluleke ngakumbi. Ngelixa kunokuba kulinga ukuphosa itawuli, cinga ukuba ngubani oza kuba secaleni kwakho iminyaka eli-10 ezantsi komgca, ngelixa ulungiselela ukuzinkcinkca-ngokubukela umboniso omtsha kwiNetflix. Ke, swiping kwaye ulungele!