Umxholo
- Ukubaluleka konxibelelwano
- Ukusetyenziswa kwemisebenzi yonxibelelwano esebenzayo kunyango
- Usapho
- Umtshato kunye nobudlelwane
- Abazali ekujonganeni nabantwana babo
- Izinto ezibalulekileyo zonxibelelwano olusebenzayo
Yintoni ebangela ubudlelwane obuphilileyo? Singaqinisekisa njani ukuba sinesiseko esomeleleyo esingagungqiyo xa kufikwa kumba wokwakha ubudlelwane?
Nokuba ngumtshato, usapho okanye naluphi na uhlobo lobudlelwane, imisebenzi yonxibelelwano esebenzayo ithathwa njengeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ekugcineni ulwalamano olusempilweni nolonwabisayo.
Ukubaluleka konxibelelwano
Sinxibelelana mihla le yiyo loo nto singakuxabisi ukubaluleka konxibelelwano.
Uninzi lwethu luyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye yemihla ngemihla. Isakhono sonxibelelwano esifanelekileyo kunye nesisebenzayo sisisixhobo esibalulekileyo ekufumaneni imveliso ngomsebenzi kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kubalulekile ekugcineni ubudlelwane obomeleleyo obuhlala buhleli. Umntu owenza imisebenzi yonxibelelwano esebenzayo uya kuba nakho ukugcina ubudlelwane obuhle kunye novulekileyo nomnye umntu.
Ngaphandle konxibelelwano oluvulekileyo, akukho buhlobo buhlala buhleli kwaye buya kuzaliswa kuphela kukungaqondani kunye neengcinga ezimbi.
Ngaba ucinga ukuba umtshato uza kuhlala uhleli ukuba abawenzi unxibelelwano olusebenzayo? Ngaba ingabakho intsapho eyonwabileyo ngaphandle komzamo wokunxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo nabanye? Ucinga ukuba abazali banokufikelela njani ebantwaneni babo ngaphandle kwezakhono ezifanelekileyo zonxibelelwano?
Namhlanje, ngokusetyenziswa kwezixhobo kunye nokusetyenziswa kobuchwephetsha ukwenza unxibelelwano kube lula kwaye kube negalelo ekunciphiseni kwamathuba okuba umntu afune iindlela zokufikelela nokunxibelelana.
Iintetho ezinzulwini zobusuku, ukwabelana ngamabali kunye nokuvula ngoku kuye kwaba zizithuba, amabali am, kunye nezinye iindlela zokuncokola. Esi sisizathu sokuba imisebenzi yonxibelelwano efanelekileyo ibandakanywe kunyango olwahlukeneyo namhlanje, nokuba kungangumtshato, usapho, okanye kwanonyango lomntu. Zisebenza njani izinto zonxibelelwano ekuncedeni umntu abe nobudlelwane obungcono nobomeleleyo?
Ukusetyenziswa kwemisebenzi yonxibelelwano esebenzayo kunyango
Ukusetyenziswa kwemisebenzi yokuphucula izakhono zonxibelelwano yenye yezona ndlela zisebenzayo ingcali inokucebisa phantse lonke uhlobo lonyango. Ngaba uyazi ukuba ezona zinto zisisiseko zonxibelelwano zinokwenza imimangaliso kunyango?
Isizathu soku silula ngokulula kwaye sele siyazi-unxibelelwano sisitshixo sokwakha imbeko, ukuqonda, kunye nokukwazi ukulalanisa ukuphucula ubudlelwane. Ukuba umthanda ngokwenyani umntu uya kukulungela ukuziqhelanisa nezakhono zonxibelelwano ukuze uliqonde ngokupheleleyo iqabane lakho, umntwana okanye iqabane lakho.
Ngapha koko, nokuba ingxabano inkulu kangakanani, ngaxa lithile, abantu baya kulalanisa kwaye bahlangane nesiqingatha sendlela ukuba kuqhutywa unxibelelwano olufanelekileyo.
Ukuqonda ngcono ukuba inceda njani ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zonyango, nantsi eminye imizekelo yemisebenzi yonxibelelwano ebandakanyiweyo kunyango.
Usapho
Unyango losapho lwenzeka xa kukho isidingo sokujongana nemicimbi yosapho, isidingo sokwamkela ilahleko ebuhlungu, ukupholisa amanxeba, kunye nokwenza ulwalamano ngokubanzi lube ngcono. Imisebenzi yonyango yosapho ukuphucula unxibelelwano yindlela apho ugqirha oza kuchaza ukubaluleka kwale misebenzi ukuvumela ilungu ngalinye losapho ukuba livule.
Ukuphilisa kuqala xa unokuvula indlela oziva ngayo. Ngemisebenzi yonxibelelwano enje ngokudlala imidlalo apho ilungu ngalinye losapho kufuneka lijoyine, ugqirha unokubandakanya imithambo kunye nokudlala kunye nokonwaba kungoko kuxinzelelo kumalungu osapho.
Le ikwayindlela entle yokuvula kwaye oku kuya kuqhubeka kulo lonke unyango luqinisekisa ukuba unxibelelwano ngoku luza kuba yinxalenye yendlela yokuphila yosapho.
Umtshato kunye nobudlelwane
Imisebenzi yonxibelelwano kwizibini ezitshatileyo yenye yeendlela eziqinisekisiweyo zonyango ezinokunceda izibini ezitshatileyo zisebenze kumahluko wazo.
Le mithambo okanye le misebenzi ijolise ekuphuculeni indlela amaqabane athetha ngayo omnye komnye. Esi sibini sithatha imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo yokunxibelelana eya kuthi ibancede bazi indlela yokuthetha ngokufanelekileyo namaqabane abo kodwa iya kubanceda ukuba baqonde indlela yokunxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo.
Imisebenzi enjengokwabelana ngeemvakalelo, ukusebenzisa amabinzana kunye nolwimi oluqinisekileyo kunye nokuthetha omnye komnye, okanye ngokulula njengokukhumbuza uthando kunye neenkumbulo ezintle zinokutshintsha indlela abantu abathandanayo ababonana ngayo. Imisebenzi yonxibelelwano kubantu abatshatileyo akufuneki ibe nzima, kufanelekile ukuba ibe yinyani kwaye bobabini kufuneka babonise umzamo ofanayo.
Abazali ekujonganeni nabantwana babo
Imisebenzi yoNxibelelwano kunyango losapho inokubandakanya imisebenzi yonyango apho abazali baya kuba nemithambo ejolise ekwenzeni abantwana babo bamamele.
Namhlanje, abazali nabantwana abanazo izinto zonxibelelwano ezazifana nezethu ngaphambili, eneneni, ukusetyenziswa kwegajethi kuye kwathatha ixesha elininzi kunencoko phakathi komzali nomntwana.
Ngokufikelela kumntwana wakho, awakheli kuphela ukusondela kodwa kunye nendlela yokuba bamhlonele kwaye bamamele. Elinye inqaku elibalulekileyo ekufuneka lithathelwe ingqalelo kukusebenza kwemisebenzi yokunxibelelana ngaphandle kokuthetha njengokujonga emehlweni ngelixa umamele.
Eyona ndlela yokufundisa umntwana wakho ukumamela kukumisela umzekelo.
Izinto ezibalulekileyo zonxibelelwano olusebenzayo
Injongo yemisebenzi yokunxibelelana kunyango kukufundisa isigulana ngasinye ukuba sikuqonde ukubaluleka konxibelelwano, indlela yokunxibelelana ngokuchanekileyo kwaye ekugqibeleni ukuziqhelanisa nezakhono zonxibelelwano ezilungileyo nasemva konyango.
Unxibelelwano alupheli xa ukhululekile ukuthetha neqabane lakho okanye ilungu losapho. Ngapha koko, ukuthetha kunye nokwabelana yinto nje yincam yomkhenkce. Unxibelelwano lufuna ukuziqhelanisa nabantu ababini apho uthetha khona kwaye omnye umamele okanye kungenjalo.
Ukuze ukwazi ukunxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo, umntu kufuneka eyazi nendlela yokumamela ngenyameko kwaye akwazi ukubonisa uvelwano kwaye anike uncedo.
Nawuphi na ubudlelwane, ingangumtshato, ubuhlakani, umzali nomntwana okanye nosapho luphela - imisebenzi yonxibelelwano iya kunceda umntu ngamnye ukuba azi ukuba unxibelelwano lokwenyani apho uthando, imbeko kunye nokuqonda kukhona.
Nabani na onokuziqhelanisa nezakhono zonxibelelwano ezifanelekileyo kwaye angazifaka kubomi babo bemihla ngemihla. Nokuba yeyiphi imiceli mngeni eza kuza kuwe, okoko nje kukho unxibelelwano oluvulekileyo- kuyakuhlala kukho ithuba lokulungisa nawuphi na umzabalazo okanye ingxaki.