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Xa abazali abaqhawula umtshato bevuma ukuba babelane ngokugcina abantwana babo, ijaji iya kuthi ivume okoko inomdla wabantwana. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba abazali abavumelani ngendlela abaza kwabelana ngayo ngokugcina abantwana babo, ijaji kufuneka ithathe isigqibo kwaye iya kuthi inike ilungelo lokugcina ngokomzimba komnye umzali okanye omnye.
Kukho intsomi yokuba iijaji azinikeli ilungelo lokugcina ootata. Oku kusekwe kwinto yokuba ngokwesiko, oomama yayingabona bantu babekhathalela abantwana kwaye ootata babengabondli.
Ke, kwakusengqiqweni ngaphambili ukunikezela ngelungelo lokugcina umama, kuba yayingoyena mntu ujonga abantwana. Namhlanje, nangona kunjalo, oomama nootata bathatha inxaxheba kukhathalelo kunye nasekufumaneni umvuzo kusapho. Ngenxa yoko, iinkundla zithambekele ngakumbi ekugunyaziseni ukugcinwa kwabantu 50-50.
Ukuba omnye wabazali ufuna ilungelo lokugcina abantwana, kufuneka baqinisekise ukuba oko kuya kuba kokona kulungileyo ebantwaneni. Impikiswano eqinileyo malunga noku iya kubandakanya ukubonisa ukuba ngokwesiko ebengumlondolozi ophambili wabantwana kwaye uyaqhubeka ukuba nguye onikezela ngononophelo olufunekayo kwaye lufanelwe ngabantwana.
Ke ngubani oyena mgcini uphambili womntwana?
Ukufumanisa ukuba ngubani omele athathwe njengomlondolozi oyintloko womntwana, kukho imibuzo eliqela umntu anokuyibuza:
- Ngubani ovusa umntwana kusasa?
- Ngubani ohambisa umntwana esikolweni?
- Ngubani obalandayo esikolweni?
- Ngubani oqinisekisa ukuba bayawenza umsebenzi wesikolo?
- Ngubani oqinisekisa ukuba banxityisiwe kwaye bayondla?
- Ngubani oqinisekisa ukuba umntwana uyahlamba?
- Ngubani obalungiselela ukulala?
- Ngubani ohambisa umntwana kugqirha wabantwana?
- Ukhalela bani umntwana xa esoyika okanye esezintlungwini?
Umntu owenza isabelo sengonyama kule misebenzi ngaphambili wayejongwa njengomlondolozi ophambili womntwana.
Xa abazali bengavumelani malunga nokuba ngumzali ekwabelwana ngaye, ijaji ihlala inika ilungelo lokugcina umzali oye wachitha elona xesha lizininzi ekhathalela umntwana mihla le, okt, umgcini oyintloko womntwana. Omnye umzali uya kunikwa ilungelo lokugcina umntwana.
Isicwangciso esiqhelekileyo sokuba ngumzali sinokubandakanya ukutshintshana kweempelaveki kunye neeholide phakathi komzali onelungelo lokugcina umzimba kunye nomzali onelungelo lokugcina umntwana. Nangona kunjalo, ngeveki yesikolo, umzali onelungelo lokugcina umntwana unokufumana ubusuku obunye kuphela nomntwana.
Amalungiselelo anika umdla wabantwana
Ukushwankathela, ukuba abazali abaqhawula umtshato banokufikelela kwisivumelwano kwilungiselelo lokugcina nelisebenza ngeyona mfuno ibalaseleyo yabantwana babo, inkundla iya kuvuma. Kodwa, xa bengakwazi ukuvumelana, ijaji iya kuthi ibamisele malunga nelungelo lokugcina abantwana. Abagwebi banikezela ngokugcina abantwana ngokusisiseko kumlondolozi oyintloko wabantwana, onokuthi achazwe njengomzali okhathalela iimfuno zabantwana mihla le kwaye uchithe elona xesha lininzi nabantwana kubo bonke ubomi babo.