Umxholo
- Amandla okuhlawula kubalulekile
- Utshintsho olukhulu kwiimeko
- Unokulinda uphononongo olulandelayo lwamaxesha
Iintlawulo zenkxaso yomntwana zibalwa ikakhulu kusetyenziswa imivuzo ehambelana nomzali ngamnye. Okukhona umzali ohlawula inkxaso esenza, kokukhona kuya kufuneka ahlawule ngakumbi. Nangaliphi na ixesha umzali obandakanyeka kwinkxaso yomntwana enotshintsho olukhulu kumvuzo kuyavakala ukuba inkxaso-mali yomntwana ihlengahlengiswe.
Amandla okuhlawula kubalulekile
Umthetho waseburhulumenteni ufuna ukuba izikhokelo zenkxaso yomntwana emiselweyo kurhulumente kufuneka zithathe umvuzo wabazali kunye nokukwazi ukuhlawula. Oko kuthetha ukuba umzali akufuneki abhengezwe njengongenamali ngenxa yokuzama ukuhlawula inkxaso yomntwana. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba umzali ebehlala nomntwana kwikhaya elinabazali ababini umzali usenokubonelela abanako kuphela.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba umzali usisityebi kuya kufuneka ngokubanzi anikeze uhlobo lwenkxaso umzali osisityebi anganikezela ngayo phantsi kweemeko eziqhelekileyo. Ngenxa yoko, amabhaso enkxaso yomntwana abotshwe ngokusondeleyo emsebenzini womzali nakwigunya lokuzuza eliza nalo.
Ingeniso kulula ukuyilinganisela uninzi lwabantu, njengoko unokujonga nje kumvuzo kwimbuyekezo yerhafu. Abanye abantu, njengabanini bamashishini okanye abathengisi, banokuba nengeniso eguquguqukayo, nangona kunjalo. Kwimeko apho, amaqela aya kuthi axabane malunga nokuba ijaji kufuneka ithathele ingqalelo inqanaba elifanelekileyo lomvuzo kwaye ijaji iya kuthatha isigqibo. Iziphumo zihlala zisetyenziselwa ukuvelisa izikhokelo zenkxaso, ezinokuthi zamkelwe okanye ziguqulwe ziijaji.
Utshintsho olukhulu kwiimeko
Imiyalelo yenkxaso yomntwana iya kuhlala isuka kumhla ijaji iyisayinayo kude kube ngumhla wokujika kweminyaka eyi-18. Ukuphinda ujonge loo mivuzo amaxesha ngamaxesha.
Ngokwesiqhelo, umzali unokufumana iodolo ehlaziyiweyo nangaliphi na ixesha kuphela ukuba unokubonisa utshintsho olukhulu kwiimeko.
Umsebenzi omtsha uhlala utshintsha kakhulu kwimeko, kodwa kuyaxhomekeka. Ukuhamba ngokuthe ngcembe ukusuka komnye umsebenzi uye kolunye kungangabi lutshintsho lubalulekileyo. Ukuba umsebenzi ufuna intshukumo okanye uza kuphazamisana nelungiselelo lomzali lokugcina, kunokuba lukhulu. Utshintsho olukhulu lomvuzo luya kuba luncedo kwiimeko ezininzi, kodwa unyuselo oluncinci aluyi kuba njalo.
Unokulinda uphononongo olulandelayo lwamaxesha
Urhulumente ngamnye kufuneka anike abazali ithuba lokuphinda baqwalasele i-odolo yenkxaso yomntwana ngamaxesha athile, ngesiqhelo rhoqo kwiminyaka emithathu. Ke, ukuba unotshintsho lomsebenzi kodwa awuqinisekanga ukuba ijaji ingaluthatha njengotshintsho olukhulu, unokufuna ukulinda kude kube kuphononongwa rhoqo kwamaxesha. Emva koko unokucela uhlengahlengiso ngelo xesha. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba omnye umzali naye ebenokutshintsha.
Umzekelo, ukuba uhlawula inkxaso kwaye ufuna ukuthoba imali ngenxa yokuba umvuzo wakho wehlile, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba omnye umzali ulahlekelwe ngumvuzo iintlawulo zakho zenkxaso zinokunyuka.