Umxholo
- Phathanani ngendlela enifuna ukuphathwa ngayo
- Gcina umthandazo entliziyweni yomtshato wakho
- Ziqhelise ukuxolela
- Thatha ixesha lokuphulaphula
Unxibelelwano olufanelekileyo ngundoqo kuwo nawuphi na umtshato. Unxibelelwano olulungileyo luqinisekisa ukuba wena neqabane lakho niziva nihlonitshwa, niqinisekisiwe kwaye niqondwa. Unxibelelwano ngoyena ndoqo wokuphepha kunye nokulungisa nakuphi na ukungaqondani, kunye nokusebenza ngeengxaki kwikamva elonwabisayo kunye.
Kwabo bakwimitshato yamaKristu, ukholo lunokuba ngumthombo owongezelelekileyo wenkxaso kumahla-ndinyuka obomi.
Inokukunceda yomeleze intliziyo yakho kwaye iphucule indlela onxibelelana ngayo neqabane lakho. Ibhayibhile ngumthombo wokhuthazo, ukomelela kunye nokukhuthaza iintsapho zamaKristu kuyo yonke indawo. Ikwangumthombo wamacebiso anamandla anokuphilisa, atshintshe kwaye abumbe umtshato wakho.
Uyintoni umtshato wamaKristu? Kutheni yahlukile kwezinye iintlobo zemitshato?
Into eyahlula umtshato wamaKristu kwabanye kukuba ayixhomekekanga kuphela kuthando kunye nonxibelelwano. Umtshato wamaKristu ufana nomnqophiso, ukuzibophelela okungenakunqunyulwa.
Amaqabane angamaKristu awaphumi emtshatweni wawo, hayi ngokulula kakhulu, kuba ayasebenza ekusombululeni imicimbi yawo ngokuthatha ingcebiso yobuhlobo bobuKristu endaweni yokulahla ubudlelwane babo.
Zininzi iingcebiso zomtshato ezifumanekayo ezinokunceda ukoyisa uninzi lweendlela ezithwaxwa zizibini ezitshatileyo.
Yintoni unxibelelwano lomtshato wamaKristu?
Kumtshato wamaKristu nakubudlelwane, kukho iikhowudi ezithile ekufuneka zilandelwe kunxibelelwano.
Unxibelelwano lobuKristu kufuneka luzaliswe bububele, iimvakalelo ezisuka entliziyweni kwaye kufuneka lube loluntu. Imigaqo yebhayibhile yomtshato ithi malunga nokunxibelelana kumtshato wamaKristu ezi khowudi kufuneka zilandelwe.
Unxibelelwano lomtshato wamaKristu lunesisombululo kwiingxaki ezininzi zonxibelelwano kumtshato wamaKristu. Ineempendulo kwimibuzo enjengokuba ungajongana njani nenkosikazi ekhathazayo, ngokwebhayibhile nangokuziphatha.
Iingcebiso zebhayibhile ngomtshato zithi ukuba uqala ukuthetha neqabane lakho ngobubele, baya kuthi baphinde benze okufanayo kwaye bakhuthaze unxibelelwano oluhle kumtshato wamaKristu.
Nayi imigaqo yebhayibhile yonxibelelwano oluhle kumtshato wamaKristu.
Phathanani ngendlela enifuna ukuphathwa ngayo
UMateyu 7: 12 usixelela ukuba "Ke ngoko, nantoni na enifuna abanye bayenze kuni, yenzani ngokunjalo nani ..."
Lo ngumgaqo onamandla wokusebenza kuwo nawuphi na umtshato. Khawuyicinge nje loo nto- uphendula uthini xa ungcungcuthekisa, ukhwaza, okanye uthethwe ngendlela engafanelekanga?
Uninzi lwabantu aluphenduli ngolonwabo okanye ngokuzola kunxibelelwano olunomsindo, olubuhlungu- kwaye oko kubandakanya wena neqabane lakho.
Funda ukuphathana ngendlela ongathanda ukuphathwa ngayo. Ukuba ufuna iqabane lakho liphulaphule xa uthetha, akuncede kwimisebenzi, okanye ubonise uthando ngakumbi okanye ububele kuwe, qala ngokubenzela ezo zinto. Lo ngumgaqo obalulekileyo kunxibelelwano lomtshato wamaKristu.
Xa niphathana kakuhle, nivula umnyango wokunxibelelana ngokunyanisekileyo, nothando lweBhayibhile emtshatweni olondla omabini amaqela.
Gcina umthandazo entliziyweni yomtshato wakho
Eyoku-1 kwabaseTesalonika 5:17 isixelela ukuba "sithandaze ngokuqhubekayo." Ukholo lusentliziyweni yobomi bobuKristu, kwaye oko lubeka entliziyweni yemitshato yamaKristu. Umthandazo ulungelelanisa nathi noThixo kwaye ukhumbuza ngothando lwaKhe, inkathalo, imfesane kunye nokuthembeka kuthi, kunye nokwethu kuye.
Umthandazo uthetha ukuthatha iingxaki phambi koThixo, simazise ngokwenyani okusezintliziyweni zethu. Ukuba unezinto onomdla kuzo malunga nokunxibelelana kumtshato wamaKristu, zinike uThixo ngomthandazo umazise iingxaki zakho. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, sele eyazi intliziyo yakho.
Ilizwi elithuleyo nelincinci ngaphakathi liya kukuqhubela kwindlela yokunxibelelana neqabane lakho ngendlela esempilweni.
Ukuthandaza kunye yindlela entle yokuqinisa umtshato wakho. Hlalani kunye emthandazweni nize nicele amandla kunye nokuqonda kunxibelelwano olulungileyo kumtshato wamaKristu.
Ziqhelise ukuxolela
Kwabase-Efese 4:32 basixelela ukuba "Yibani nobubele nemfesane omnye komnye, nixolelane, njengokuba naye uKristu wanixolelayo."
Kunzima ukunxibelelana kakuhle xa omnye okanye nobabini benomsindo, benomsindo, okanye benesiva esibuhlungu esivela kwixesha elidlulileyo. Xa ubambe umsindo kwaye ungaxoleli kwiqabane lakho entliziyweni yakho, kwenza kubenzima ukubona imeko yangoku ngokucacileyo.
Usondela ngenjongo yokukwenzakalisa, ukukhawulezisa, okanye ukuveza umsindo kunye nokudana, kwaye ngokwenza njalo, ungaphoswa yintliziyo yento abazama ukuyithetha kuwe. Ukuba umshiye ongalawulekiyo uya kukhula kwaye wenze ukuba kube nzima ukunxibelelana.
Ukuvumela iimvakalelo zakho ezingathandekiyo ukuba zikongamele ngokuchasene nemigaqo yonxibelelwano yeBhayibhile. Kuya kufuneka uyeke kubo ukuqinisekisa unxibelelwano ngoxolo kumtshato wamaKristu.
Ixesha elidlulileyo lidlulileyo. Eyona nto isempilweni emtshatweni wakho kukuba uhlale apho. Ewe kubalulekile ukujongana nemicimbi njengoko ivela, kwaye uyisombulule ngendlela eninokuhlala nobabini.
Nangona kunjalo, xa umba sele uphethwe, yiyeke ihambe. Sukuyirhuqa kwiimpikiswano ezizayo.
Kukwabalulekile ukuba ungabambeli kwingqumbo. Inzondo yenza imibala yokunxibelelana neqabane lakho kwaye ikunqande ekuboneni okuhle kwaye kufanelekile ukuxabisa umtshato wakho. Iqabane lakho lingumntu kuphela, kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba ngamanye amaxesha bayakwenza iimpazamo, njengawe.
Funda ukuziqhelanisa noxolelo njengoko kubonisiwe nguKrestu, ukuze ube nokuya omnye komnye ngentliziyo evulekileyo nethembekileyo. Ukuxolela kubalulekile kunxibelelwano olusempilweni kumtshato wamaKristu.
Thatha ixesha lokuphulaphula
UJames 1: 19-20 usixelela ukuba "Wonke umntu makakhawuleze ukuva, acothe ukuthetha, acothe ukuqumba."
Esi sisiluleko esihle somtshato, ukuba sakuba siphunyeziwe, siyakutshintsha indlela onxibelelana ngayo ngonaphakade. Kukangaphi ulinde umonde kwiqabane lakho ukugqiba ukuthetha ukuze wenze eyakho inqaku? Sukuziva ungonwabanga ukuba unayo - yinto yethuku yendalo, kwaye kulula ukuyenza.
Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, ungafunda ukumamela ngaphandle kokugweba okanye ukulinda ukungenelela, unxibelelwano kumtshato wamaKristu lunokuphucuka kakhulu. Uya kufunda okuninzi malunga neqabane lakho, kunye nethemba labo, uloyiko, kunye neemvakalelo.
Ukuphulaphulwa ngenyameko ngamava aqinisekisayo. Ngokubonelela ngesi sipho kwiqabane lakho, nisondeza nina nobabini.
Ngamanye amaxesha iqabane lakho liyakuthetha izinto ekunzima ukuzithwala. Endaweni yokuba ungxame uze uphendule ngomsindo, zinike ixesha lokucinga ngaphambi kokuba uthethe. Khangela intliziyo yamazwi abo - ngaba banomsindo okanye bayoyika? Ngaba bakhathazekile?
Khangela into onokuyenza ukuze ubaxhase, kunokuba uye kwimowudi yokuzikhusela. Oku kubalulekile kunxibelelwano oluhle kumtshato wamaKristu.
Inkolo yobuKristu ikunika wena kunye neqabane lakho into enivumelana ngayo, isiseko esihle nesothando onokwakha kuso umtshato onondla nina nobabini nosondeza omnye komnye, nakuThixo ngokunjalo.