Umxholo
- Thandanani nangona nisokola ukuthandana
- Unxibelelwano ngundoqo
- Sebenzisa iimpawu ezingezizo zomlomo
- Ukuhloniphana kubalulekile ukuze umtshato wenu uphumelele
- Gxila ekuhlekeni njengengoma yakho yomtshato
- Khumbula ukuba akuyi kubakho “uphumeleleyo” kunye no “mphumeleli”
Ngokukhawuleza xa uslayida isangqa kwiminwe yomnye nomnye, khumbula ukuba ingcebiso yomtshato iya kuqala ukuthulula ngaphakathi ukuba ufuna ukuva okanye hayi. Amaxesha amaninzi ezi zingcebiso zosapho kunye neengcebiso zosapho kunokuba yinto ongafuniyo ukuyiva (inokuba njalo ngalo lonke ixesha), banokuhlekisa ngawe kwaye banokwenza neenyawo zakho ezibandayo. Nangona kunjalo, amanye ala macandelo eengcebiso abalulekile kwikamva; inokukunceda ukuba wakheke kwaye uqinise ubudlelwane onabo neqabane lakho,
Iingcebiso zomtshato zihlala ziqala ngoburharha obuquka isiqhulo esixhaphakileyo, "Kusoloko kukho amaqela amabini emtshatweni- elinye lihlala lilungile, elinye lindoda," kodwa ukuzibophelela okunzulu kunye nesiqalo sobomi obutsha azisoloko malunga nokuqhula kunye nemvula kunye nee-unicorn.
Kufuneka umamele ngononophelo kwiingcebiso ozinikwa ngabantu abebetshatile kwaye beyazi ukuba ingantoni na.
Thandanani nangona nisokola ukuthandana
Eli lelona xabiso liqhelekileyo losapho kunye neyona ibalulekileyo. Ngeentsuku xa nixabana, kwaye kuye kube nzima kuwe ukuba ulale nebhedi kunye neqabane lakho, yima kanye apho kwaye ukhumbule nokuba impikiswano yayimbi kangakanani kwaye ngubani owayengalunganga; Gcina ukhumbula ukuba uphikisana noyena mntu ubalulekileyo ebomini bakho.
Uyamthanda loo mntu ulwe nje naye endaweni yokuba ungakwazi ukujonga loo mntu xa uxabana, vala amehlo akho kwaye uqale ukudwelisa izinto ozithandayo ngabo. Eli qhinga liyakunyanzela ukuba uthandane.
Unxibelelwano ngundoqo
Le ngcebiso ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye iluncedo kakhulu. Akufanele ujolise kuphela kwinto ethethwa liqabane lakho, kodwa kuya kufuneka uphinde uzithethele xa ucinga ukuba ixesha lilungile. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuveza izimvo zakho, kodwa indlela ozivakalisa ngayo kufuneka zibe kwindlela 'engaphikisiyo'.
Kananjalo, khumbula ukumamela into ethethwayo kwaye ukuba uyayiva into engeyiyo cela ukucaciselwa kunokuba uzame ukucinga malunga nento onokuba ungayiva. Ezi ngqikelelo ziya kukwenza uxabane
Sebenzisa iimpawu ezingezizo zomlomo
Izifundo zengqondo zithi uninzi lwencoko phakathi kwabantu abatshatileyo ayithethi. Xa uthetha nenye yakho ebalulekileyo, zama ukubonisa iimpawu zomzimba ukuze iqabane lakho lazi ukuba umamele. Eminye imiqondiso engenamlomo inokuba, kukucinezela isandla, ukujonga xa bethetha okanye beme kancinci ngaphambili.
Ukuhloniphana kubalulekile ukuze umtshato wenu uphumelele
Into eyi-1 emva konxibelelwano yintlonipho. Uninzi lweengcebiso zosapho ezizama ukuvakala ngathi ziyahlekisa konke malunga nokwenza ube nesandi njenge-pany yokuhlonipha umfazi wakho, kodwa akunjalo.
Intlonipho yeyona nto ibalulekileyo emtshatweni, kwaye ingaphezulu kweembonakalo ezintle, umtsalane kunye neenjongo ekwabelwana ngazo. Kuya kubakho amaxesha apho ungalithandiyo iqabane lakho kangako, kodwa awusoze ufune ukuphulukana nembeko ngomnye wakho obalulekileyo.
Xa imbeko ilahlekile ngekhe uphinde uyifumane kwaye uzame ukwenza umtshato usebenze ngaphandle kwembeko uzama ukusebenzisa iselfowuni ngaphandle kwe-SIM engenanto kwaye engenamsebenzi.
Gxila ekuhlekeni njengengoma yakho yomtshato
Kuza kubakho amahla ndinyuka emtshatweni wakho, kwaye niyakudibana namaxesha anzima kakhulu kodwa nantoni na eyenzekayo, zama ukufumana izizathu ezincinci zokuhleka kunye nokwabelana ngamaxesha olonwabo omnye komnye.
Khumbula ukuba akuyi kubakho “uphumeleleyo” kunye no “mphumeleli”
Njengoko kukhankanyiwe ekuqaleni malunga nomtshato wokuba namaqela amabini- ngelishwa oku akunjalo. Akukho mntu uphumeleleyo okanye uphumeleleyo kwimpikiswano kuba ningamaqabane kuyo yonke into ke nokuba niyaphumelela okanye niyaphulukana kuya kufuneka nisebenzisane ukufumana isisombululo. Sukuvumela ukuphumelela kunye nokulahleka kufike entlokweni yakho kwaye endaweni yoko uzenze ngathi niyinxalenye yomzimba omnye onemiphefumlo emibini.
Okokugqibela kususwe
Umtshato awungu 50/50; li-100 elipheleleyo. Ngelinye ixesha kuyakufuneka unike ama-30, kwaye umyeni wakho uza kunika ama-70, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uza kunika ama-80, kwaye umyeni wakho uza kunika ama-20. Kuya kufuneka uyenze isebenze, kwaye omabini amaqabane kuya kufuneka anikezele ngeepesenti zabo ezilikhulu, yonke imihla.