Umxholo
- 1. Nqamula uqhagamshelo
- 2. Ukungabikho kwenza intliziyo ikhule ithanda
- 3. Thumela kwizincedisi
- 4. Yitya
- 5. Thetha ulwimi lwabo
- 6. Yiba Nomdla
Uninzi lwezibini ezitshatileyo ngaxa lithile ngexesha lomtshato wazo zifumana amava 'omileyo,' kwaye xa usenza njalo, uya kuzifumana ujonge kwaye uzibuze ukuba ungenza ntoni ukuze ufumane isenzo esithile kwigumbi lokulala.
Ke, ukukunceda nawe, sabelana ngeemfihlelo ezisixhenxe ezintle zokuba usebenze ngakumbi ngesondo
1. Nqamula uqhagamshelo
Sonke sinetyala lokubeka ngakumbi iifowuni zethu kunye nezixhobo zethu kangangokuba ngandlela ithile silibale ukuba unxibelelwano lokwenyani lolukho ngaphandle kwetekhnoloji.
Kule mihla kulula ukuthumela 'ndiyakuthanda' kudonga lweqabane lakho ku-facebook - ukubiza indlela enithandana ngayo kwimidiya yoluntu kodwa ngandlela thile ezi zibhengezo zothando zoluntu azinakukufumana 'ewe' kwigumbi lokulala.
Nalu uluvo.
Zama ukwamkela iqabane lakho ekhaya ngokwanga nangokuwola ngokufudumeleyo. Babuze ukuba luhambe njani usuku lwabo. Yiba neeyure ezimbalwa apho ujongene nje, niyathetha nje. Libala umhlaba kwiifowuni zakho kwaye ubone umhlaba ophambi kwakho.
Esi sisenzo esinye esilula esiya kuthi ngokungathandabuzekiyo sincede ukuba ubenokwabelana ngesondo ngakumbi.
2. Ukungabikho kwenza intliziyo ikhule ithanda
Xa uchithe iintsuku zakho kunye neqabane lakho iminyaka emininzi, akunakuphepheka ukuba ngamanye amaxesha, wena neqabane lakho nibe kunye.
Unokuqonda ukuba sele uhleli kakuhle egumbini lakho elibalulekileyo. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba nichithe ixesha elininzi kunye, kubandakanya nexesha lenu lasimahla, mhlawumbi nithatha omnye nomnye kwaye nobomi benu kunye.
Kutheni ungachithi kancinci kuyo? Funda umdlalo omtsha, bhalisela iiklasi, ujoyine imibutho, uchithe ixesha nabahlobo bakho. Ixesha enilichithe ningekho kunye liya kuninceda nobabini nijonge phambili kwixesha eniza kulichitha kunye.
Ukuba wenza umva nangona ungachithi ixesha elininzi neqabane lakho, yenza ixesha leqabane lakho.
Cwangcisa kwaye uzibophelele ukuya kubusuku bomhla (nokuba kwenzeka ntoni ebomini bakho, okanye ungaziva uphuma kangakanani). Bona imovie, yipikniki epakini, yitya isidlo sangokuhlwa ngaphandle kwendlu okanye wenze izinto eziyimillennials okwangoku ezenza 'iNetflix kwaye ubande,' oko kuthetha, hlala ekhaya ubukele imovie ngaphakathi ngelixa nina nobabini nizipholele kwaye niyonwabile!
Ayinamsebenzi ukuba yintoni umsebenzi, ukuba nje uchitha ixesha kunye neqabane lakho-akukho ziphazamiso zivunyelwe kwaye uqiniseke ukuba ujolise kwinto oyifumana inomtsalane kwiqabane lakho. Ngaphandle kwexesha konke konke, uya kuqala ukuqaphela ezo mvakalelo zikhula zibe kukutsala ngokwesondo kwaye ngaphambi kokuba wazi, uya kuba usabelana ngesondo ngakumbi.
3. Thumela kwizincedisi
Ngaba ukhe wazama ukwazisa okanye ukuphinda uvelise izixhobo zokuzonwabisa kwigumbi lokulala, ezinjengeethoyi?
Mhlawumbi ukhe wajikeleza ngombono wokusebenzisa izixhobo ezinjalo ngaphambili okanye sele uzamile kwaye waqonda ukuba ikuncede kangakanani wena neqabane lakho ukuba ningene kuloo meko inomdla kakhulu.
Ukuzonwabisa kwigumbi lokulala kunokukunceda ubonakale unomtsalane ngokwesondo kwaye uvuleke malunga nokuveza iminqweno yakho yesini kunokukhuthaza iqabane lakho ukuba livuleke nangakumbi malunga nelabo, kwaye liya kukhuthaza ukuthembana nokusondelelana emtshatweni wakho.
4. Yitya
Imfihlo yesine yokuba ungabelana njani ngesondo ngakumbi emtshatweni wakho ilele kukutya! Konwabele ukutya kunye neqabane lakho - isidlo esinee-aphrodisiacs.
I-Aphrodisiacs kuko nakuphi na ukutya okanye izinto ezonyusa iminqweno yesini. Phakathi kwezona zidume ngokufikeleleka ngokulula kwezi aphrodisiacs yitshokholethi emnyama kunye newayini.
Ubusuku bomhla kwaye ubeke ezi kwimenyu. Oku kutya akuyi kukwenza uzive ulungile kuphela, kodwa kulungile ukuba kukwenze ube nomtsalane ngakumbi ngokwesondo.
5. Thetha ulwimi lwabo
Vula iqabane lakho ngokuzama ukuthetha ulwimi lwabo.
UGary Chapman, umbhali wodumo lweeLwimi ezi-5 zothando, uthi ukuthetha nomnye wakho obalulekileyo akubandakanyi amagama kodwa endaweni yoko, iindlela ezahlukeneyo zithumela imiyalezo ephezulu kwiqabane lakho.
Xa uyiqonda indlela axoxa ngayo umntu otshate naye, nawe unokwenza okufanayo kubo, nto leyo eya kuthi inisondeze kunye kwaye incedise ukusondelelana.
Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba iqabane lakho linxibelelana njani nawe.
Nazi iindlela eziqhelekileyo nezihlala zityeshelwa iqabane lakho elinokuthetha nawe:
- Amagama okuvuma
- Izenzo zenkonzo
- Ukunika izipho
- Ukuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni nawe
- Ukubamba ngokomzimba.
Iqabane lakho liya kunxibelelana nawe ngokwesondo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo - ukuba ufunda indlela abanxibelelana ngayo kwigumbi lokulala kuya kukunceda ukuba ubenomtsalane ngakumbi ngokwesondo emtshatweni wakho.
6. Yiba Nomdla
Ukuzivocavoca kunokunceda ukwandisa i-libido, ukonwaba ngokwesondo kunye nokwoneliseka.
Inzululwazi esemva kwayo kukuba ukusebenzisa kunceda ekwandiseni ukuhamba kwegazi kuwo wonke umzimba. Ngapha koko, ukwenza umthambo kwandisa amanqanaba ehomoni anje nge testosterone, ihomoni enoxanduva lokunyusa ukuqhuba kwakho ngokwesondo okanye kwi-libido.
Kuyinyani engenakuphikwa ukuba xa sele uvune izibonelelo zokusebenzisa iqabane lakho uyakufumana unomtsalane ngakumbi ngokwesondo kwaye ngaloo ndlela unyusa amathuba okuba usebenze ngakumbi ngokwesondo.
Kukho isizathu sokuba bathi 'izibini ezenza umthambo kunye, hlala kunye.'