Umxholo
- Nika izinto eziza kuqala
- Yamkelanani
- Ungazikhathazi ngokulindelwe ngabanye
- Ungalibali ukonwabela
- Nxibelelana
- Yithi hayi kwimigangatho ebhakwe ngesiqingatha
- Musa ukuhlala kude omnye nomnye ixesha elide
- Sukuhlekisa ngomntu oza kutshata naye (e) phambi kwabanye
Ixesha eliphakathi kokubandakanyeka kwesibini kunye nomtshato kubaluleke kakhulu.
Kuya kufuneka uye kwiimeko ezimbini. Nokuba uyazi kakuhle malunga nomntu oza kutshata naye (e), okanye uphela sele unobudlelwane obudidekileyo. Kuya kufuneka usebenzise ixesha elinobuchule ukunciphisa ukudideka.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zobudlelwane eziluncedo kwizibini ezisandul 'ukutshata
Nika izinto eziza kuqala
Ixesha eliphakathi kokuzibandakanya nomtshato kuxa uthatha isigqibo ngekamva lakho. Ingcebiso ebalulekileyo kubantu abatshatileyo kukuxoxa ngezinto eziza kuqala kunye nomntu oza kutshata naye (e), baxelele ngesicwangciso sakho kunye nokuba ufuna ixesha elingakanani.
Izinto eziza kuqala kuwe zinokubandakanya ukuthenga indlu, ukufumana imoto, okanye ukonga imali eyaneleyo nokukhangela umsebenzi ofanelekileyo. Funa uncedo lwabo kwaye ugcine ukwabelana ngezicwangciso zakho neqabane lakho elizayo.
Yamkelanani
Ngeli xesha xa ulungiselela umtshato wakho, uya kufuna ukuba iqabane lakho liphelele.
Ungaze uzame ukunyanzela into oyifunayo kulowo uza kutshata naye (e). Bamkele ukuba banjani kwaye bonwabele ukunxibelelana nomntu okuthandayo. Kucace gca ukuba iimpawu zobuntu azinakutshintshwa ngenxa yoko musa ukunyanzela iqabane lakho elizayo ukuba litshintshe into abangafuni ukuyenza.
Ungazikhathazi ngokulindelwe ngabanye
Kuqala gcina lento engqondweni yakho ukuba nguwe nomntu oza kutshata naye (e) niyatshata.
Ungaze uzame ukuvumelanisa nokulindelwe ngamanye amalungu osapho; ngumtshato wakho, ayingowabo.
Njengoko bekutshiwo ngaphambili, thetha ngezinto eziza kuqala kwiqabane lakho elizayo. Nobabini kufuneka nizenzele owenu umbono womtshato kwaye nizame ukuqonda ukuba nobabini nifuna ntoni kubudlelwane bomtshato. Ungathatha iingcebiso kunye nemibono kwamanye amalungu osapho kodwa ungafiki kwinqanaba apho ulibale okulindeleyo njengesibini.
Ungalibali ukonwabela
Xa ulungiselela ukutshata kwaye ubeka izizathu zoko, unokufumana uxinzelelo olukhulu.
Kunokuza indawo apho unokuziva unzima kwaye uya kutyiwa. Ukuphepha oko, zama ukuchitha ixesha kunye. Cwangcisa ukuphuma kunye.
Umzekelo, nobabini ninokuya ezivenkileni, yiya kwi-cinema okanye naphina apho uthanda khona. Sukuvumela uxinzelelo ukuba lulawule; hlalani phantsi kwaye nizonwabise kunye kunye.
Nxibelelana
Le ngcebiso ibaluleke kakhulu kubantu abatshatileyo.
Ungaze ushiye iqabane lakho lijinga kwiingxaki. Soloko unxibelelana.
Phumani kunye kangangoko. Thetha ngeemvakalelo zakho. Yiba nelizwi; sukufihla kwanto, nokuba intandabuzo. Sukuthatha izigqibo okanye uthathe izinto; Thetha intliziyo yakho nanini na uhleli nesithandwa sakho.
Yithi hayi kwimigangatho ebhakwe ngesiqingatha
Iya kuba sisidenge kakhulu ukuba ungabeka imigangatho ephezulu ukuze iqabane lakho liphumelele.
Umzekelo, ufuna ukuba iqabane lakho lomelele ngokwasemalini ngaphambi komtshato, kwaye ufuna yonke into; Indlu enefenitshala epheleleyo, imoto, njl.njl. Kuyiqondakala into yokuba le migangatho ayinakufezekiseka kwelo xesha lifutshane kakhulu.
Kuya kufuneka ulinde ngomonde kwaye uzame ukunika inkxaso kubathandekayo bakho endaweni yokubeka imigangatho ephezulu eya kubenza bazive bengakhuselekanga.
Musa ukuhlala kude omnye nomnye ixesha elide
Uninzi lokudideka kunye nokungazithembi kuvela xa nina nobabini ungekho kwaye ungaqhakamshelani ixesha elide.
Elinye lamaqhekeza aluncedo kwizibini ezitshatileyo kukucwangcisa iintlanganiso zeveki nganye okanye zaphakathi evekini. Ngeli xesha, ungaze uzame ukubeka iindlebe zakho kwinto ethethwa ngumntu ngomlingane wakho (e) kwaye unxibelelane naye ngemiyalezo ebhaliweyo okanye ngokufowuna.
Sukuhlekisa ngomntu oza kutshata naye (e) phambi kwabanye
Qiniseka ukuba awuqhuli malunga neqabane lakho elizayo phambi kwabanye.
Ibonisa indlela onzulu ngayo ngokunxibelelana nomntu omthandayo. Yiba nethemba kwaye uzive usikelelekile ngokuba nomntu omthandayo ebomini bakho.