Umxholo
- 1. Ukudibana nosana lwakho
- 2. Dlala kunye
- 3. Bachazele ngemisetyenzana yabo
- 4. Bafundele
- 5. Yazisa umntwana wakho ngoonobumba kunye namanani
Uyenza njani intsana yakho ikrelekrele? Lo ngomnye wemibuzo emininzi ebakhathaza kakhulu abazali abancinci. Ngapha koko, uya kuba nokuninzi okwenza kunye nendlela umntwana wakho ajika ngayo abe yingqondi kwaye akrelekrele.
Ukuqala kukutya okutyayo kunye neyeza olithathayo ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwakho nayo yonke indlela oya kuyo kwimidlalo oyidlalayo xa bebadala ngokwaneleyo ukuba bangahlala kwaye bakhase, ifuthe lakho ekukhuleni kwengqondo yomntwana wakho liya kubaluleka.
Ngapha koko, zikho iindlela zokuphucula amandla engqondo omntwana wakho. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba ubonakale njengomzali onothando nothatha inxaxheba oya kuthi ngovuyo azibandakanye kwimisebenzi eya kukhuthaza ukukhula kwengqondo yomntwana wakho kwaye abavumele ukuba bakhule babe ngabantu abakrelekrele nangaphambi kokuba babhalise kwisikolo samabanga aphantsi.
Nazi ezinye zeendlela ezinomdla zokukhulisa abantwana abakhaliphileyo-
1. Ukudibana nosana lwakho
NgokukaTracy Cutchlow, umhleli wencwadi ethi Brain Rules for Baby, ubuchopho bunentambo yokukhangela ukhuseleko, kwaye ukuba ingqondo ayiziva ikhuselekile, amandla ayo okufunda ayancipha.
Esi sesona sizathu sokubonelela umntwana wakho ngengqondo yokhuseleko kwasekuqaleni ekukhuleni kwakhe. Ukunxibelelana nolusu nolusu yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokwakha uvakalelo lokhuseleko, kodwa ixesha lokujongana ubuso nobuso, ukuphulula umntwana, ukuthetha nosana lwakho, nokunxiba usana lwakho nako kuya kukunceda kakhulu.
Ulwalamano olomeleleyo kunye neqabane lakho luya kubaluleka kakhulu ekudibaneni nomntwana wakho, kuba uyakufuna inkxaso kunye noncedo lokondla, ukutshintsha, kunye nokulwa nokungalali xa uzama ukubakhona emncinci.
Bhala phantsi imisebenzi yasekhaya, kwaye wenze isivumelwano kunye neqabane lakho ukuze nenze imeko ezolileyo nenothando ukuze umntwana akhule.
Gwema ukuba ne-spats phambi komntwana wakho, ukuze ungalimazi loo nto yokhuseleko. Nangona iintsana zingawaqondi amagama, ziya kuchaphazeleka ziimvakalelo phakathi kwakho nobabini kwaye uzive unxunguphalo olunokubangela ukukhala nokuxambulisana.
2. Dlala kunye
Nanini na xa kunokwenzeka, yenza umdlalo okhokelwayo kunye nomntwana wakho.
Oku kuya kujolisa ingqalelo yabo kwaye kubabonelele ngeendlela ezintsha zokuphonononga nokuqonda. Fumana ixesha lokudlala nomncinci wakho yonke imihla okwethutyana ukomeleza ubudlelwane bakho kunye nokuphucula izakhono zabo zokuqonda.
Yazisa ngeemvakalelo, izinto ezikhuthazayo ngexesha lakho lokudlala, kwaye ubenze baphonononge iibhokisi zobuncwane ezizaliswe ziintsiba, okanye ubavumele bajonge kumgqomo wamabhamuza. Zive ukhululekile ukugcwalisa ityhubhu yeplastiki ngamanzi kunye nesepha yokuhlamba ukuvumela umqulu wakho wovuyo uphume amaqamza kunye nawe.
Ukusebenzisana komntu nomntu yeyona ndlela ifundisayo yeentsana, ngokweengcali.
Ngapha koko, le yenye yeendlela zemihla ngemihla zokukhulisa ukukhula kwengqondo yomntwana wakho.
3. Bachazele ngemisetyenzana yabo
Ungamenza njani umntwana wakho abe smart kwaye akrelekrele? Iingcali zithi ukuthetha nosana lwakho kunokuba luncedo kakhulu ekukhuleni kwengqondo. Ngokufanelekileyo, iingcinga zokuthetha ezihamba ngengqondo yakho yonke imihla ziya kukhulisa amandla engqondo omntwana wakho kuba ingqondo imalunga nokufunda iipateni ezinje ngamagama.
Ngoku, kokuphindaphinda kubo, kokukhona baya kufunda ngcono, ke ungoyiki ukubalisa yonke imini yakho kunye nayo yonke imisebenzi oyenzayo kubo.
Xa uza kuwafaka kwenye yeepilisi zeentsana zeemoto zabo kwaye uhambe ngenqwelo-mafutha uye evenkileni, chaza isenzo ngasinye kubo. Baxelele ukuba ubabeka esihlalweni, ubakhuphele phezulu kwaye uzakukhwela.
Yalatha kubantu abaqhelekileyo nakwizinto ngexesha lokukhwela, cula iingoma ezineevesi eziphindaphindayo kwaye uzigcine ubandakanyeka kwinto oyenzayo endleleni. Zonke ezo zinto ziya komeleza ukufunda kwabo, upelo, kunye nezakhono zokubhala, ngokweengcali.
Zive ukhululekile ukusebenzisa amagama antsonkothileyo kunye alula, ukuze isigama somntwana wakho sibe sisityebi kwasekuqaleni.
4. Bafundele
Ukunceda umntwana wakho ukuba akhule isigama esivakalayo kunye nokwakha uvelwano kunye nobuninzi bezinye izakhono, qala ukuzifundela esemncinci kakhulu.
Ukufunda kunye kuya kukunceda uzimanye ngakumbi nomncinci, ngelixa kunciphisa ubundlongondlongo kunye noxinzelelo.
Ngapha koko, akukho nto iya kukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba acinge kunye namandla okucinga ngaphezu kweencwadi ezilungileyo. Yiyo kanye le nto kufuneka ufundele usana lwakho yonke imihla nokuba liphi ixesha losuku.
Amabali ngexesha lokulala ayindlela entle yokubabeka ebuthongweni, kodwa ukubafundela emini kuya kubenza bacinge ngakumbi ngelixa begxile ngokupheleleyo kwinto obabafundela yona. Iincwadi ezinemibala eqaqambileyo enemibala eyahlukeneyo kunye nemifanekiso elula iya kubamba umdla womntwana wakho.
Ngelixa abantwana bathanda ukuba bafundelwe incwadi ngalo lonke ixesha, ekugqibeleni baya kuba nomdla ekuphononongeni eminye imisebenzi.
5. Yazisa umntwana wakho ngoonobumba kunye namanani
Ngelixa unokonwaba ukufundela umntwana wakho, ukuvumela ukuba bazenzele ngokwabo kukwaluluvo olulungileyo nolucetyiswayo.
Bacele ukuba bazame ukufunda incwadi yabo abayithandayo kwangaphambi kokuba baqale ukuya esikolweni kwaye baqale ukubala ekhaya ngexesha lokudlala. Bafundise iileta abanokuzikhomba kwiibhodi nakwimiqondiso njengoko uhamba kwisitrato. Yenza amava abo esikolo abe lula ngokubabonisa igama elibhaliweyo kwangethuba.
Bayakuyiqonda kwaye bayifunde ngokulula ngakumbi xa ilixesha lokuba bebeqhelene nalo mbandela ngaphambili.