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- Abasetyhini banqwenela ukuba amadoda angonqeni
- Amadoda anqwenela ukuba abafazi babenothando ngakumbi
- Amadoda anokutshintsha izinto ngakumbi kunabafazi
- Amadoda anomdla kangako kwinkangeleko kunokuba abafazi becinga
- Yintoni enye abantu abanokuyitshintsha?
- Ngaba kukho ulungelelwaniso olufanelekileyo?
Masinyaniseke umzuzu apha. Uninzi lwabantu lungathanda ukutshintsha into ngamaqabane abo, ukuba banako. Mhlawumbi unqwenela ukuba bayeke ukushiya iikawusi zabo emgangathweni, okanye bamamele ngcono xa uthetha. Mhlawumbi yindlela abahlala ngayo beneselfowuni ezandleni zabo, nkqu nangexesha lesidlo sangokuhlwa.
Kuyindalo ukuba ucaphuke kumaqabane ethu ngamanye amaxesha. Singabantu nje emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kwaye nabo banjalo. Ngapha koko kukho izinto ezimbalwa kwiqabane lakho onqwenela ukuba nazo zingatshintsha!
Kodwa yintoni enokuthi itshintshe abantu ukuba banako? Inkampani yophando iGinger Research kutsha nje yenze i-poll kwizibini ezitshatileyo ezili-1500 zababuza ukuba banqwenela ntoni ngokwahluka ngamaqabane abo. Yintoni abantu abangathanda ukuyitshintsha malunga namaqabane abo? Masifumanise.
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Abasetyhini banqwenela ukuba amadoda angonqeni
Uluhlu oluphezulu lweminqweno yabasetyhini yayikukuba amadoda angonqeni. I-whopping 35% yabaphenduli baphawule ukukrokra kwamaqabane abo njengenani labo lokuqala.
Yindima enomdla yokuguqula imeko yesiNtu (kwaye inyaniwe lixesha) yamadoda angaqondiyo iimvakalelo zabasetyhini.
Ngaphezulu kwekota yabasetyhini, umtshato wabo ungonwaba ngakumbi ukuba amaqabane abo onwabile, okanye ubuncinci, akonwabanga.
Amadoda anqwenela ukuba abafazi babenothando ngakumbi
Mhlawumbi enye yezona zinto zimangalisayo ezifunyenweyo kuvavanyo kukuba esona sikhalazo siphambili kumadoda kukuba banqwenela ukuba abafazi babo babenothando. Phantse ikota yamadoda (23%) bathi banqwenela ukuba amaqabane abo abonakalise uthando kubo.
Umntu ngekhe acinge ngokuzenzekelayo ngamadoda anqwenela uthando kodwa enyanisweni, eyona nto inqwenelekayo kumadoda kolu phando yayikukuthanda ngakumbi kwabafazi babo.
Amadoda anokutshintsha izinto ngakumbi kunabafazi
Ngokubanzi, amadoda afuna ukutshintsha izinto ngakumbi kunamanenekazi abo! Amadoda kwi-avareji anoluhlu lwezinto ezintandathu abanqwenela ukuzitshintsha malunga neqabane labo, ngelixa abasetyhini bedwelisa ezine kuphela.
Amadoda anomdla kangako kwinkangeleko kunokuba abafazi becinga
Abasetyhini bahlala becinga ukuba amadoda atyale imali ngendlela ajongeka ngayo okanye ukuba anesisindo esingakanani- kwaye kula manenekazi, olu phando beluneendaba ezimnandi! Nangona i-16% yamadoda yayinqwenela ukuba abafazi bayo banxibe ngokwesini kodwa ngokubanzi, inkangeleko yayingakhankanywa rhoqo. Ngapha koko, iipesenti ezili-12 zamadoda zinqwenela ukuba abafazi babo bayeke ukutyeba ngaphezulu kokutya nokuzilolonga.
Abasetyhini kwelinye icala, babenomdla wokutshintsha inkangeleko yabo babalingane babo, bekhankanya ukuba banqwenela ukuba amaqabane abo banxibe isini, balahlekelwe sisisu sebhiya, babe neenwele ezingcono, kwaye bade bade!
Yintoni enye abantu abanokuyitshintsha?
Ngaphandle kokulindela ukungonwabi okungakumbi kunye nothando olukhulu, le poll yafumana uluhlu lwezinto ezifunwa ngamadoda nabafazi.
Iminqweno yamadoda ibandakanya ukuba abafazi babo bangonwaba ngakumbi, baqoqoke indlu, babe nesibindi ebhedini, kwaye baya kubaxabisa ngakumbi. Ngaphaya kolu luhlu, amadoda anqwenela ukuba abafazi bawo bachithe imali encinci, bangabikho kolawulo olunqabileyo, kwaye bayeke ukubukela iinkqubo ezimbi zeTV. Bafanele ukuthatha indawo yabo ngantoni? Amajelo ezemidlalo, ewe! I-10% yamadoda inqwenela ukuba abafazi bawo babe ngaphezulu kwezemidlalo, ngelixa i-8% ifuna amaqabane abo ukuba abelane ngokuthanda kwabo kwiifilimu.
Iminqweno yabasetyhini ephezulu ibandakanya ukuba abayeni babo babaphulaphule ngakumbi, bayeke imikhwa yabo emibi, babaxabise ngakumbi kwaye bancede ngakumbi ekhaya. Ukuqhubeka kolu luhlu, abafazi banqwenela ukuba abayeni babo benze okungakumbi nabantwana, njengemidlalo yeTV efanayo njengabafazi babo, bazithembe ngakumbi kwigumbi lokulala kwaye babe nobukrelekrele ngokwasemphefumlweni.
Ngaba kukho ulungelelwaniso olufanelekileyo?
Olu phando lincinci lubonisa ukuba nangona amadoda nabafazi befuna izinto ezahlukeneyo, iminqweno efanayo sisiseko seempendulo kuzo zonke: ukuxabiswa ngakumbi, ukonwaba ngakumbi kubudlelwane, kunye nokuziva uthandwa, uqondwa kwaye uxhaswa.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, mhlawumbi amadoda angangonwabisi xa benokufumana uthando abalifunayo, kwaye mhlawumbi amadoda aya kufumana uthando ukuba ebengonwabanga! Kubonakala ngathi eyona mpendulo kukusebenza kuthando, unxibelelwano, imbeko, kunye nokuthatha ixesha lokuba kunye.
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