Umxholo
- Kutheni le nto ufuna iindawo ezininzi?
- Izizathu zeendawo ezininzi
- Izizathu ngokuchasene neendawo ezininzi
- Ungazenza njani lula izithuthi zakho kwiindwendwe zakho
Xa kuziwa ekucwangciseni usuku lwakho olukhethekileyo, akukho siphelo kwizinto onokukhetha kuzo, ukusuka kwindawo yokutya, ilokhwe, uluhlu luyaqhubeka.
Ukucwangcisa umtshato kunokuba ngamava oxinzelelo oluninzi, kunye noxinzelelo oluninzi ukuze ulunge ngokuchanekileyo. Engqondweni yakho unawo umfanekiso ocacileyo malunga nomtshato wamaphupha, kodwa ukwenza iphupha libe yinyani lithemba elinzima kakhulu.
Enye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu kumtshato wakho zithi ziqwalaselwe yindawo.
Xa ujonga iindawo, zingaphi ezininzi kakhulu? Iindawo ezininzi zizisa uninzi lwezinto ezintle kunye nezinto ezimbi, ukusuka ekongeni iindleko ukuya kumalungiselelo anzima okuhamba kweendwendwe. Abaqeqeshi bakaMaghull balapha ukuze bachaze izinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga zeendawo ezahlukeneyo zomtshato.
Kutheni le nto ufuna iindawo ezininzi?
Kukho izizathu zokuba kutheni ungaziva esona sisombululo sosuku lwakho olufanelekileyo kukubhukisha ubuncinci iindawo ezimbini.
Into omele uyazi ngaphambi kokukhetha indawo yakho yomtshato kukuba ekugqibeleni, oku kuhlala kubila kumsitho womtshato nakwitheko lomtshato.
Usuku lwakho olukhulu luzoqala ngokwesiqhelo ngomsitho womtshato, inyathelo lokuqala lalo naluphi na usuku lomtshato apho umtshakazi nomyeni baya kuthi batshixe amehlo okokuqala phambi kweendwendwe zabo.
Umsitho kulapho kuzakwenziwa khona izithethe zesintu, ezinjengomngcelele, ukufundwa kwanokutshintshiselana ngezifungo.Iya kugqitywa ngokwanga phakathi komtshakazi nomyeni, ngokusesikweni bemele imeko yabo entsha njengesibini esitshatileyo.
Kuqhelekile ukuba umsitho wesiko lomtshato wenkolo wenziwe ecaweni phambi kwentsapho nabahlobo.
Ukulandela umsitho womtshato kuya kuba ngumbhiyozo omkhulu kwindawo yetheko, ekubhekiswa kuyo njengesiqhelo somtshato.
Oku kunokwenzeka kwangoko emva koko okanye ngorhatya. Ulwamkelo luhlala luthethathethwano olungekho sikweni xa kuthelekiswa neenkqubo zesiko zomsitho. Lithuba lokubhiyozela ukuqala kobomi obutsha besi sibini kunye.
Ukwamkelwa kuya kuhlala kubandakanya intetho, ukuzonwabisa, umculo, ukutya neziselo. Ungayichazanga indawo yokuba ngumdaniso wokuqala wendoda nomfazi kunye!
Kwezinye iimeko, indawo yesithathu inokudibaniswa kumxube.
Inokuba kunjalo imeko xa isibini sithatha isigqibo sokubamba ngasese okanye ukubandakanyeka kwisidlo sangokuhlwa nabahlobo abasondeleyo kunye nosapho ngaphambi kokuqala kwemibhiyozo emikhulu.
Izizathu zeendawo ezininzi
Ke, ukuba oko kuthetha iindawo ezimbini okanye ezintathu, ngaba kufanelekile?
Isibonelelo esicace gca soku kukuba ufumana amava eendawo ngeendlela ezininzi kwaye usuku lwakho lomtshato lunokuba yinto enkulu enomdla!
Enye yezinto ekufuneka uyiqwalasele xa ukhetha indawo yomtshato kukungcamla kunye nobushushu bakho.
Ukuba uluhlobo oluthandayo kunokuba yinto ekruqulayo eseleyo kwindawo enye ngexesha losuku lwakho.
Uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo bakhetha ukuba umsitho wabo womtshato ubanjelwe kwindawo entle apho banokuphuma khona ngeminyango kwiindwendwe zabo eziqhwabayo, bangene kwisithuthi somtshato, kwaye bachithe ixesha kunye ngaphambi kokujoyina imibhiyozo yepati.
Khumbula, kwakhona, ukuba ukhetha umsitho wecawa, akunakulindeleka ukuba babenazo izinto ukulungiselela ipati enkulu emva koko.
Iicawa zisesikweni kwaye isenokungabi yeyona ndawo ifanelekileyo yokwamkela kwakho. Kule meko, kulindeleke ukuba ubhukishe indawo yesibini yokubamba ulwamkelo lwakho.
Ukuba ukhetha indawo enye yosuku lonke, unokufuna kwakhona ukuba ingaba abasebenzi banendawo kunye nexesha lokuseta indawo yokwamkela ngelixa umsitho uqhubeka.
Inokususa umlingo kunye nokukhohlisa kosuku lwakho olukhethekileyo ukuba ungayibona yonke imisebenzi yasemva kwemiboniso eyenzekayo.
Iyacetyiswa Ikhosi yangaphambi komtshato ekhompyutheni
Izizathu ngokuchasene neendawo ezininzi
Into elungileyo yokukhetha indawo enye yomnyhadala kunye nombhiyozo wakho yindleko oza kuyenza.
Awuyi kucelwa ukuba ubhukishe iindawo ezininzi, ulungiselele imihlobiso eyahlukileyo okanye uqeshe abacwangcisi ukulungiselela amagumbi amaninzi. Akusayi kubakho zimvo zenzelwe ukuhamba phakathi kweendawo. Ukuhamba kungongeza ixesha elibalulekileyo kwishedyuli yakho, ngakumbi ukuba iindawo zakho azisondelelananga. Eli xesha linokuchithelwa ngcono ukuphumla kunye nokuchitha ixesha kunye nabantu obathandayo.
Kukho iindwendwe zakho ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe. Abanye banokuba ngabantu basekuhlaleni, kodwa amaxesha amaninzi izalamane kunye nabantu obathandayo baya kuhamba bade baye emtshatweni, kwaye kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba bayakuchaphazeleka njani- bayayazi indawo, okanye bangalahleka?
Ukuba abaziwa kubo, iindawo ezininzi zinokongeza uxinzelelo kunye nokudideka kucwangciso lwabo. Kwiimeko ezinje ngoku banokuthatha isigqibo sokuzimasa umsitho okanye ulwamkelo kunokuba bobabini.
Ungazenza njani lula izithuthi zakho kwiindwendwe zakho
Ukuba ukhetha ukuba nendawo engaphezulu kwesinye ngosuku lwakho lomtshato, njengoko abaninzi besenza, kububulumko ukuqaphela iingcebiso malunga nokukhetha indawo yakho yomtshato egqibeleleyo. Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ungayenza njani imeko yezothutho icace kwaye kulula ukuba iindwendwe zakho zilandele.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ulungiselele izithuthi zakho zabucala - oku kuyabiza kwaye akuyomfuneko- kodwa kuluncedo ukunika isikhokelo kwiindwendwe zakho - ngapha koko, ufuna ukuba zize!
Ngaphandle kweendwendwe ekufuneka zenze eyazo indlela ukusuka kumsitho ukuya kolwamkelo, kukho inkonzo eyongezelelekileyo onokujonga kuyo ukubhukisha ukunceda ukunciphisa inkxalabo yabo yokuhamba.
Enye yeendlela ezithandwayo zothutho lomtshato kwiindwendwe ngumqeshi womqeqeshi. Ukuqesha umqeqeshi womtshato yindlela efanelekileyo, ekhuselekileyo neyonwabisayo yeendwendwe zakho zokuhamba phakathi kweendawo kunye, zisuse ukubakho komntu oza kulahleka okanye afike emva kwexesha.