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Nantsi inyani yengozi yakho (ungandibulela kamva ...)
Ngokuhamba kwexesha nangaphantsi kobushushu obukhulu kunye nezixa ezinzulu zoxinzelelo, into elula efana nekhabhoni inokukhula kwaye iguquke ibe yidayimani engenakuqhekeka. Wamkelekile. NdinguBill Nye oqhelekileyo, uyazi?
Idayimani, ke, yenziwa ngoxinzelelo olukhulu kunye nokunyanzelwa, ngokwaneleyo ukwenza ibhondi engenakonakala.
Ungandikholelwa ukuba bendinokuthi umtshato wam wamajoni uye waba yintoni?
IPHEPHA LOKUPHANGELA.
Kuthatha ixesha, uxinzelelo, namandla ukomeleza imitshato. Kuthatha izilingo, iimvavanyo, kunye nemithwalo yamandla amakhulu asinceda ukuba sikhule. Kwaye ndithetha ukuba iintsuku, iiveki, iinyanga, kunye neminyaka yezinto ezinokuba ziingqondo ezingenangqondo okanye ezinzima kakhulu zobomi bethu.
Abo batshatile kwilungu lenkonzo njengam, abangaqhelani nezahluko ezinzima. Amaxesha amaninzi, siziva sinoxinzelelo olongezelelekileyo lokungabikho okanye ukulimala kwamaqabane. Kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, ngayo yonke inkululeko esizuze kuyo ngenxa yexesha elininzi esilichitha sodwa, umtshato nelungu lenkonzo aliziva ngathi ngumtshato kodwa, kunoko, sisivumelwano nomntu ohamba naye.
Bobabini iqabane lam kunye nam siluvile uxinzelelo kunye nokunyuka kobushushu njengoko imisebenzi yasemkhosini isishiye siziva sinzima, sisebenza nzima kwaye sinciphisa isantya.Umtshato wethu wasemkhosini wenziwe nge-webs edibeneyo yokudana kunye noloyiko, ukungazinzi kunye nomsindo. Ityala kunye nelahleko.
Okwangoku, la mava awakulungelanga inkunkuma, asetwe kwithintelo lokuthabatha kwangoko. Azixabisekanga. Zixabisekile.
Njengamadayimane amahle angafezekanga, amaqabane omkhosi awacinezelwa bubunzima bobu bunzima Ezi ziyinto engakholelekiyo yokwakha kunye nokwenza amava asibumba asenza nathi. Sitshintshe singenakuqhekeka. Sivavanywa kwaye sityhalwa ukuze sikhule kwaye sifunde, ukuze sibe ngabantu abangcono. Sinikwa nje ubunzima obunzima, obuya kunceda ukwandisa amandla ethu kunye namandla ethu okuhlala.
Nazi iindlela ezine zokuba ubomi bam basemkhosini kunye nomtshato bandenze mna nosapho lwam bangcono abantu:
Siyayazi ngemfesane
Usapho lwam lufuna uncedo, ngokwenyani.
Rhoqo, usapho lwam oluncinci luxhomekeke kwinkonzo yabanye. Umtshato wethu kunye nosapho buhlaselwa mihla le kukuphazamiseka ngokweemvakalelo kwaye sifuna ubabalo nothando lwabanye. Eyona (un) ngethamsanqa eyona nto imnandi yokutshata emkhosini kukufudukela kwihlabathi lonke kwizikhululo zomsebenzi, amaxesha amaninzi ngaphandle kokufuna okanye ukugunyazisa, ngeenyanga okanye iiveki zokucwangcisa, ukuzilungiselela kunye nokubhida. Ngezo (zininzi, zininzi) ezihambayo zifika kwesona sidingo sinzulu sabahlobo- kwaye, ngokunyanisekileyo, andithethi ukuba abantu endibaziyo bazenza abahlobo bemozulu elungileyo. Ndithetha abantu bakowenu. Isizwe sakho. Abahlobo bakho-bajika-yintsapho abakubonayo kwaye bayakwazi kwaye bazive uziva njani.
Sibuxabisa kakhulu ubuhlobo. Kwabanye abatshatileyo emkhosini njengam, kuko konke esinako. Abamelwane kunye namalungu oluntu aqwalasele konke okusemandleni abo ukuze baqonde ubunzima bethu, ababonisa izidlo kunye nokuphatha (soloko wamkelekile, wamkelekile njalo), ababonelela ngenkxaso ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo njengoko sizama ukuhamba kwiindlela zethu ezibethekileyo. Sifuna ubuqabane, uthando noncedo.
Kwaye sifuna abanye abantu basemkhosini.
Kukho uluvo lokuba semkhosini. Unxibelelwano nabanye abatshatileyo, ubuhlobo obenziwe kukuqonda kunye nesidingo sobudlelwane bosapho, ucinezelwe kunye phantsi kobunzima kunye noxinzelelo. Le ndibanisela yoxinzelelo iyasiguqula, kanye njengokuba ezo dayimani zingenakuqhekeka zisenziwa kwezona nzulu nezona zinamandla kwizinto zomhlaba, kwaye siye sikhathalelwe endaweni yokuba sikhathalelwe, sinethemba endaweni yokwenzakalisa, sithandwa endaweni yokuba nesithukuthezi.
Siyabonana. Siye omnye komnye. Amaqabane anamajoni athunyelweyo alila kunye xa kuvaleliswa. Abalilayo kunye ekhaya. Ngubani olilayo, ixesha. Abantwana basemkhosini abadibana kunye namaqhina angabonakaliyo obuqabane, ukuthembeka kunye nenkxaso. Sineentsana (ezibizwa ngokufanelekileyo ngokuba "ziintsana zemfazwe") ezikhula kunye, ixesha zilwa eyazo imfazwe njengabazali abasasaziweyo ababukele bekhula ukusuka kwinqanaba lekhompyuter.
Sabelana ngamava neeholide, ulonwabo kunye nosizi oluphazamisayo. Sabelana ngokutya, ngokucacileyo, kwaye ezininzi, ezininzi iziselo zazo zonke iifom kunye nobukhulu. Sabelana ngokugqitha kweengcebiso kwaye, rhoqo, sinolwazi oluninzi. Siphosa imvula yabantwana kunye neminyaka yokukhumbula. Sisonke sichitha ubusuku kunye nobusuku bemidlalo kwi, imihla yokupaka, imihla ye-Oreo, kunye nemihla ye-ER.
Aba ngabantu abaziyo malunga nokungabikho okungamampunge kunye nokubuyiswa kwakhona okungaphumelelanga. Ngubani owaziyo ngoxinzelelo olukhulu lwabantu abatshatileyo abanxibe idabi, malunga neentlungu kunye nokudakumba komtshato wasemkhosini.
Ngubani nje yazi.
Kwaye uthwale ubunzima bezantyalantyala zemvula kunye nefuthe lenkanyamba.
Sidinge imfesane kwaye sibonisiwe, ngakumbi xa iqabane lam belingekho ngenxa yokuthunyelwa kunye noqeqesho. Iiyadi zethu zithathelwe ingqalelo, iindlela zethu ziqhutywa ngomhlakulo. Abamelwane basihlangule ngoncedo lwemibhobho (kuba bekusoloko kukho ukuvuza kwenye indawo), izixeko zethu zisixhasa ngezincedisi zokufumana izinto, amanqaku ombulelo, iileta kunye neephakheji, ekhaya naxa zithunyelwe. Izidlo ezingenakubalwa ziye zangaphezulu etafileni yam, ngoncedo loluntu olubona isidingo luze luzizalise. Ndikhuthazekile ngamanqaku acingisisiweyo, ukuphatha, kunye nobuso obunobungane bokungena.
Asikaze sizive sisodwa.
Nantsi into: Siyazi kwaye siyibonile indlela imfesane eyakha ngayo uluntu. Siyawazi umsebenzi oya ekukhanyeni kwimithwalo kwabanye. Iyabasindisa abo basezinkathazweni. Iphakamisa otyhafileyo kunye nomthwalo. Iphula izithintelo kwaye ivula iingcango kwaye igcwalise iintliziyo. Siyazi kuba sizifumene ngokwethu, ezo zenzo zobubele zenkonzo kunye nothando lwenene kunye nenkxalabo.
Siyazi. Siluvile uthando. Kwaye ngokungathandabuzekiyo sinombulelo.
Kwaye siyakhonza. Intsapho yethu encinci ifumene okuninzi, kwaye sinethemba lokwenza okuninzi. Ukubonisa uthando lokwenene kunye nobubele bokwenene kunye nobuhlobo. Sinomsebenzi omninzi ekufuneka siwenzile, kodwa ndiyathemba ukuba iintsana zam ezincinci ziyayibona impembelelo eye yenziwa yimfesane kusapho lwethu, umbono oshiyekileyo kubomi bethu. Ndiyathemba ukuba baziva ukulunga okuvela kuwo wonke umsebenzi wenkonzo, ukuba bayaluqonda ulonwabo kuko konke ukubonakaliswa kobubele bokwenyani.
Itshintsha abantu babe ngcono.
Yimpembelelo yothando ekuhlaleni. Isasazeka njengelangatye, ivutha abanye ngomnqweno wokusasaza okuhle, ukuba inguquko. Ehlabathini jikelele, umhlaba ufuna ngakumbi kuwe: wena otshisa ngomnqweno wokuphumeza utshintsho lwenene nolunamandla. Kodwa uluntu lwakho luyakufuna nawe, amaqabane omkhosi kunye nabantu ngokufanayo. Bayakudinga ukufikelela ngaphakathi kwaye uvavanye amava akho adlulileyo, awokulungileyo kunye nokubi. Thatha, ulungelelanise, kwaye usebenzise.
Sonke sidinga uthando kunye nemfesane ngakumbi ebomini bethu.
Sikulungele ukuphoxeka
Kulungile, eh?
Ngelishwa, iphelele kwaye ichanekile kwaye ichanekile (kwaye njl.) Zonke iintlobo zenyaniso. Andizange ndikholelwe de, ewe, ndatshata emkhosini kwaye (melodrama uqaphele!) Ndaphazamiseka phantsi kwenyani yayo.
Amaqabane omkhosi aphila (ubuncinci) ngeemantra ezimbini: "Ndiyakukholelwa xa ndiyibona" kwaye "Ndiyathemba okona kulungileyo, lindela okubi." Kuyamangalisa ukuba ezi zezona zinethemba kakhulu kwiqela.
Sineminyaka elishumi sitshatile emkhosini kwaye ezo mantras zisenziwa umvambo kwi-ahem yam, kwaye mna, ndikhalaza ngamagama afungelweyo (hleze abantwana bam beve kwaye baphinda ootitshala babo), ndinyanzelekile ukuba ndisebenzise ii-mantras kuyo yonke into enokwenziwa, ukuthunyelwa , umhla wesikolo, umvuzo, isicwangciso seeholide, kunye nexesha lokuphumla. Owu, nawo onke amaphepha. Nkqu nobusuku neempelaveki zikwinceba, ewe, hayi thina. Ngamafutshane, ubukho bethu bonke bunokuxhomekeka kutshintsho kwipini ebonelelwe ngumkhosi.
Kodwa nantsi inyani enzima, ipilisi enedosi yemihla ngemihla esiyiyo (kulungile, ndihlala ndiyiginya).
Siyazi kuba besilapho ...
Siyazi malunga nokuhanjiswa ngesaziso seentsuku ezisibhozo. Siyazi ngokuba neentsana zodwa, ukuxhomekeka koonesi abanovelwano kunye noogqirha. Siyazi malunga neempelaveki ezilahlekileyo kunye nomsebenzi wasebusuku ongenakunyuswa kunye nezicwangciso ezirhoxisiweyo. Siyazi malunga neengxaki zokuhlawula, malunga nokupheliswa kweendawo zethu zokuphila ngenxa yokunciphisa uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali. Siyazi malunga nezikhumbuzo ezikhunjulweyo kunye nemihla yokuzalwa kunye netikiti zeenqwelo-moya ezirhoxisiweyo ukuya kwiholide yaseHawaii.
Siyazi ngezithembiso ezaphukileyo kunye neentliziyo ezaphukileyo kunye namazwi aphukileyo. Malunga nokuhamba kakuhle, ezo ndlela zingcwele zingonwabisiyo. Sivile ukuthula okungacacanga, uhlobo olukhoyo kwiibhedi ezingenanto, izitulo ezingenanto kwitafile yesidlo sangokuhlwa. Ikho ngokusingqongileyo, idumbile kwaye iyabetha kwaye ibuhlungu ekuchukumiseni ...
Nangona kunjalo, nangona sizilungiselele, ngamanye amaxesha asikaze silunge. Asinangqondo; Siyazi ukuba kunokwenzeka, amanani. Siyazi ukuba soze sikulungele ukuzincama ekugqibeleni. Ngenxa yentlungu yabalahlekileyo neyaphukileyo. Ngenxa yosizi olungenakuthelekiswa nanto oluthwala umthwalo wamagxa abafelweyo.
Asisokuze sikulungele oko kulahleka.
Kodwa siyazi ngezinye iintlobo zelahleko, kwaye loo mava ayasilungiselela. Basilungiselela ukuba siqhubeke nokudana kunye nosizi lokufumana indawo ephezulu. Asiyi kuhlala simile. Asinako. Asinakubakho kwezo moya zingezantsi.
Kungenxa yokuba nakwimpoxo yethu, siyalwazi uvuyo lwenene, olungenakudlulela.
Siyaluqonda uvuyo
Inkcaso: Kubalulekile ukuba uyiqonde ngokuchanekileyo. Kunokuba nzima ukuhamba, ukubona ukuba kutheni kubaluleke kakhulu.
Siyalwazi uvuyo kuba siyalwazi usizi.
Kuba siyayazi intlungu, siyazi ukuba uvuyo luza ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ngobukhulu obahlukeneyo. Njengeepeni ezifumaneka ezipokothweni, uvuyo lunokuvela kwelona xesha lincinci, elibonakala lingabalulekanga.
Ewe ndithetha ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba siyalwazi kwaye siyalwazi uvuyo, olusulungekileyo nolungangxengwanga. Uhlobo oluza emva kovavanyo olunzima kunye neenyikima, emva kwenyikima yeemvakalelo kunye neenyikima zosizi. Uvuyo lokuphuma kwelanga encotsheni yentaba, lubonwa kuphela emva kokukhwela emiphethweni engqindilili nasekuqhubeni iindawo ezinamaqhinga, emva kokulahleka nokufumana indlela yakho kwakhona.
Olo vuyo luza kuvavanyo. Uvuyo lunokubangelwa lusizi, ulonwabo ekuphelelweni lithemba.
Kwaye ke siyifumana ngokulula.
Uvuyo ngamajoni afika ekhaya kwiiyure ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana. Ukuphumelela. Imihla yokuzalwa. Kuyamangalisa abantwana kumagumbi okufundela, kwiiholo, kumagumbi okuhlala kwilizwe lonke.
Uvuyo kukubuyela ekhaya kwisikhululo seenqwelomoya. Ubuso obuncinci obukhangela ngokungakhathali, bulinde ukubona oomama nootata, belindele ukufumana iileta, iifowuni zevidiyo.
Uvuyo lubona ootata abasasaziweyo baphinde babamba iintsana okokuqala, benombulelo wokuphefumla umkhondo wobuntwana ngaphambi kokuba uphume.
Uvuyo liliza lokuthanda ilizwe elindigqibayo ngokubukela umyeni wam ethatha umhlala phantsi. Ekuchitheni iiyure, nokuba yimizuzu kunye.
Siyaqonda ukuba uvuyo lufumaneka nje ngemizuzwana.
Olu vuyo, le mveliso yobunzima kunye novavanyo olukhulu, ngumvuzo wemizabalazo. Ubuhle bosapho. Yobuhlobo. Imitshato. Singayinyusa imitshato yethu ngothuli, kwaye siyibone ukuba iyintoni na: ayinakuthelekiswa nanto kwaye ayinakuqhekeka. Kufanelekile.
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