Umxholo
- Jonga ukuba ngubani ovakalisa iimvakalelo
- Iimvakalelo zethu zifana nabantwana
- Ukusingatha iimvakalelo
- Ukunika ingqalelo iimvakalelo zakho
Abantu zizipili zethu. Ububi bethu kunye nobuhle bethu bubonakaliswa kuthi ngabo. Xa ukunye nabantwana bakho (okanye obathandayo) kwaye uziva unothando olunzulu, utyekelo lwakho isenokuba kukubonisa loo mvakalelo komnye umntu esithi, "Ndiyaluva uthando lwakho." Oku akuyonyaniso.
Into esiyivayo LUTHANDO LWETHU, phambi komnye umntu. Banokubangela okanye babonakalise iimvakalelo zethu kodwa, abasiniki zona.
Nantsi indlela yokuqinisekisa ukuba iingcinga zakho, iimvakalelo zakho kunye nokuziphatha kwakho kuvela kuwe okanye kubo.
Jonga ukuba ngubani ovakalisa iimvakalelo
Jonga ubone ukuba baphuma kubani intloko okanye umlomo. Ukuba baphuma kweyakho, ngabakho. Akukho mntu unokubeka iimvakalelo kuwe, banako, nangona kunjalo, ukubabiza baphume kuwe.
Xa uziva ukhathazekile kwaye ungalawuleki nabantwana bakho khumbula, ezi mvakalelo zihlala ngaphakathi kuwe kwaye xa zibizwa ungalingeka ukuba ubabeke ityala komnye umntu. Ukuba ubunezo mvakalelo, ngekhe zivuswe.
Ayindim otshintshe umhlaba ukuze amaqhosha am angatyhaleki, yeyam ukuba ndilahle amaqhosha am ukuze, wonke umntu abe yile nto ayiyo. Ukuba andivisisani nabo bangobani ndingahamba ngobumnene ndithande kude.
Akubi "kubi" xa iqhosha lakho lityhalwa. Isenokungaziva ilungile kodwa, lithuba lokuphilisa kunye nokulahla eli qhosha.
Ukuba awukwazi ukuziva, awukwazi ukuyiphilisa. Eli lithuba lokuphilisa imiba yobuntwana yakudala, uloyiko lokuphulukana nolawulo kunye neminye imiba, ekuqhubileyo ungazi kwaye yabangela iintlungu ebomini bakho.
Ukuba unokuthula nje ngeli xesha kwaye uzikhumbule ngobuhle bakho, yiba nentlungu, uloyiko kunye nomsindo ngendlela yangoku, iya kuba nethuba lokujika ubumnandi. Ndiyazi ukuba izandi zilula kakhulu kodwa, zama kwaye ungothuka.
Iimvakalelo zethu zifana nabantwana
Wakhe wambona umntwana kwivenkile yokutya, ngokuhambelana nomama wakhe oxineneyo kwi-tabloid? Umntwana utsala umbhinqo wakhe kwaye uthi, "Mama, mama, mama, mama ..." ngapha nangapha. Banokuthi, "Mama" amaxesha angamakhulu amabini, uyazi?
Ekugqibeleni, umama ujonge phantsi athi, "Intoni?" kwaye umntwana uthi, "Jonga, ndibophe isihlangu sam." "Oh ndiyabona." Utsho umama nomntwana wanelisekile. Iimvakalelo zethu ziyafana. Bafuna nje ukuvuma kwethu, "Oo, ndiyabona."
Ukusingatha iimvakalelo
Abantu banotyekelo lokuphatha iimvakalelo zabo ezingathandekiyo kwezi ndlela zimbini, banokubaleka kubo okanye bakhubazeke kuzo.
Ukuba ubaleka iimvakalelo zakho baya kukuleqa kwaye unoxinzelelo olusezantsi kunye noloyiko ngalo lonke ixesha.
Ukuba ukhubazekile kuzo unamathela kwinto enokuthi ikhule ibe kukudakumba. Iimvakalelo zinamandla okuhamba ngaphakathi komzimba wakho. Imeko yabo yendalo kukuhamba kwaye bacoceke kwaye bakwazise ukuba kufuneka uzikhathalele. Nje ukuba ufunde ukwazisa iimvakalelo zakho banokunyuka baphume.
Okukhona uzinika imvume yokuba uzive iimvakalelo zakho kokukhona uya kuphinda usebenzise kwakhona "izinto ezindala" kunye nabantu obathandayo kwaye kokuncinci uya kulindela ukuba (kunye nehlabathi) litshintshe ukuze uzive ulungile. Uya kuba namandla ngakumbi kwaye ube nothando ngakumbi.
Ukunika ingqalelo iimvakalelo zakho
Eyona nto intle malunga nokujonga ngaphakathi kuqala kukuba, nanini na kukho into evelayo, uya kuqala ukuziva uthandwa ngakumbi. Xa sijonga ngaphakathi sizinika ingqalelo.
Xa sijonga ngaphandle kwaye sizama ukwenza choreograph indalo ukuze ilingane nesicwangciso sethu siyazishiya.
Akumangalisi ukuba abantu bazive bebodwa kwaye bekhathazekile xa bezama ukulawula umhlaba wangaphandle - balibale ngomntu obaluleke kakhulu - ngokwabo!
Ibhonasi apha uya kuba ngumzekelo wobukhosi kunye nokuzilawula ngokwakho kubantwana bakho. Kukangaphi kufuneka ujongane nomsila? Umsila ngumntu oxakekileyo ezama ukhula engadini yomnye umntu (lawula ubomi bomnye). Ukuba wonke umntu kwesi sijikelezi-langa angalukhula nje yedwa isitiya sakhe, umhlaba ubuya kuba mhle! Ngethamsanqa kunye negadi eyonwabileyo.