Umxholo
Sonke siyayazi ukuba yeyiphi na imisebenzi: zizinto eziyimfuneko ekufuneka zenziwe ukuze sincede ubomi bethu buhambe ngokutyibilikayo. Okanye zizinto ezo oomama bethu abasixelele ukuba sizenze kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, sithobela. Uninzi lwethu lwaxelelwa ngelixa lwalukhula ukuba isini yinto ekufuneka siyibekile kude kube ngumtshato, ngolindelo lokuba kanye xa sithe "ndiyayenza" yayilolokwabelana ngesondo kangangoko sinakho ubomi bethu bonke. Oku kunokuba njalo kweminye imitshato, nangona ingeyiyo yonke, kwaye kwezinye iimeko ezithile, isini sinokuziva ngathi singumsebenzi kwelinye okanye kuwo omabini amaqabane.
Imeko 1
Xa elinye iqabane liqhuba ngesondo eliphezulu kunelinye, isini sinokuziva ngathi singumsebenzi kwiqabane eline-libido esezantsi. Kule meko, isini sinokuziva ngathi ngumzabalazo wamandla kuloo nto iqabane eline drive esezantsi liziva linyanzelekile ukuba libelane ngesondo Ukuze ugcine iqabane lakhe linomdla kwaye likhuthazekile emtshatweni. Umlingane oqhuba phezulu unokuziva ngathi unyanzela iqabane lakhe ukuba lenze into engafunekiyo okanye linokuzama ukusombulula ingxaki ngokuhlutha iimfuno zabo zesini kwenye indawo (nokuba ngamanye amaqabane, ngokusebenzisa iphonografi, njl. Ukulawula i-libido eyahlukileyo kuqhelekile kwindawo ethile kwimitshato emininzi njengamanqanaba ehomoni kunye nomnqweno oguqukayo ngokuhamba kwexesha. Ukwazi ezinye iindlela zokufezekisa ubudlelwane obungagxili kuphela kwisondo kunokuba luncedo olukhulu.
Imeko 2
Xa isibini silingana ngesondo kunye nokwakha usapho, i-mystique kunye nokuziphatha kwesenzo kuyanyamalala. Kuyinyani ukuba isibini esabelana ngesondo yonke imihla ukuze sikhulelwe, silawula imiceli mngeni yokuzala, okanye sizama ukukhulelwa kwakhona emva kokuphulukana nokukhulelwa. Inye yezi zinto zinemiceli mngeni yazo, kodwa babelana ngomxholo wokuba isini sibonwa njengomsebenzi kunokuba ibe yinto eyonwabisayo okanye isenzo sobudlelwane. Kwimeko enjalo, kunokuba nzima ukuba elinye iqabane libe "kuyo" okanye ukuba neqabane livakale ngathi kukho izinto ezilindelekileyo malunga nokusebenza.
Kukho inyani kwezi zinto zixhalabisayo: xa isini singumsebenzi, kunzima ukonwaba ngako kwaye kukho ulindelo oluthile malunga ne-ejaculation. Ukuzama ukwenza ngathi ezi meko azikho kunokubenza baqhubeke, ke kubalulekile ukuba amaqabane athethe ngendlela abaziva ngayo malunga nezi ntlobo zeemvakalelo ezichaphazela isondo. Xa uphantsi konyango lokuchuma, ugqirha unokwenza uthintelo lokwabelana ngesondo njengoko inokuba nefuthe kwinkqubo yokubuyisa kunye nokudala ukukhulelwa kokuphindaphinda. Kwimeko yokulahleka kokukhulelwa, isondo sinokubopha ngokusondeleyo kumbono wokukhulelwa, oya kuthi emva koko ubonakalise uloyiko lwenye ilahleko. Le patheni yokucinga inokuba sisithintelo ngokwesondo.
Ukwabelana ngesondo (okanye hayi) phantsi kweemeko zokuba umntu-njengogqirha- (okanye into-efana ne-ovulation) enye into eyalelayo ayifane ibenomtsalane. Abanye abatshatileyo bayakwazi ukuzisa uburharha emfanekisweni onokunceda. Abanye banokudlula ngesondo lokungena ngokuthanda ezinye iintlobo zesini okanye ubudlelwane obusondeleyo. Ngaphezu kwako konke, unxibelelwano oluqhubekayo ngundoqo.