Umxholo
'Ukuya kwiChapel kwaye Siza kutshata' yingoma eyaziwayo erekhodwe ngabaculi abaninzi kubandakanya neBeach Boys.
Eminye imigca ithi, 'Kwaye asisayi kuba nesizungu kwakhona.' Kungenxa yokuba 'siya ecaweni siyokutshata'. Iqhubeka ithi 'Ndizakuba ngowakhe kwaye uyakuba ngowam ... kude kube sekupheleni kwexesha. I-chorus ithi, 'Gee, ndiyakuthanda kwaye siza kutshata'.
Intsingiselo kwingoma kukuba ukuba unesizungu-ke tshata
Kananjalo, uya kuba ngowakho kude kube sekupheleni kwexesha kwaye konke ngenxa yothando. Ke ndiyazibuza ukuba kutheni kukho uqhawulo mtshato oluninzi kangaka? I-50% yemitshato yokuqala yinto endagqibela ukuyiva. Amaqabane andixelela ukuba awazange abenesithukuthezi njengakwimitshato yawo. Ibuhlungu le nto!
Le ditty, yinto sonke esithanda ukuyiva. Isinika imvakalelo elungileyo. Kuyinyani ngokwaneleyo, umtshato ungaba ngowobomi kwaye kufanele ukuba ubekho ngenxa yothando kodwa, enyanisweni njengoko besinokulindela, kuninzi kakhulu ebomini obulahlekileyo kule ngoma.
Ubudlelwane kufuneka bunezinto zokukhula ukuze zihlale. Bobabini abantu emtshatweni kufuneka bonwabe kwaye bazithande, emva koko banokunikezela kwaye bongeze kulonwabo lomnye umntu nothando ngokupheleleyo. Asinako ukwenza omnye umntu onwabe, kwaye awunako ukumenza akuthande.
Uthando lusisiseko somtshato
Indawo eza nokuzibophelela kuhlala uhlala naloo mntu. Kulapho uya khona ukukhumbula amaxesha amnandi kunye nendawo oya kuyo ukomelela xa izinto zingalunganga kangako. Nangona kunjalo, kuninzi kakhulu emtshatweni kunothando. Uthando alwanele. Umntu ngamnye kufuneka avunyelwe ukuba akhule ngokuzimela kwaye emva koko kufuneka basebenze nzima kunye ukuze bakhule kubudlelwane.
Kuhlala kulungile ukuba siyamthanda omnye umntu kwaye nabo bayakuthanda! Kunye noku kuza nembeko, ukuthembela kunye nomntu esinokuthi sixelele nantoni na kuye. Izakhono zokuphulaphula kufuneka ziphuculwe ngokupheleleyo njengoko unxibelelwano kuhlala kuyinto enditshelwa zizibini ezitshatileyo ukuba yeyona ngxaki yazo. Ukumamela kunye nokuva ngokwenyani komnye umntu kuya kukunceda ukuba ukuvumele ukuba utshintshe, ukhule, wenze izigqibo, kwaye wenze iimpazamo ngaphandle kokuziva ugwetyiwe okanye ugxekwa. Singazichaza iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ngokukhululekileyo.
Kufuneka sikwazi ukucela iingcebiso kwaye sinikwe iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo. Kufuneka sisebenzisane ukuze sazi ukuba masithini emva koko kwiimeko ezinzima.
Ngamnye wethu uyakwamkela omnye umntu njengoko enjalo. Umntu unokutshintsha kuphela.
Ndizifundile izifundo ezithi ezemali, abantwana kunye nokwabelana ngesondo zezona zizathu zintathu zoqhawulo mtshato. Kufuneka sizilungiselele. Abantu ababini abasempilweni abaqolileyo abanezakhono zonxibelelwano ezinkulu banokuphatha nantoni na eza ngendlela kwaye ngokudibeneyo 'bayayithatha inkunzi yenkomo ngeempondo' kwaye bayathandana. Yiyo le nto eyenza ubudlelwane buhlale.