Umxholo
- Yiba nesicwangciso sokuphuma
- Lumkisa iqabane lakho
- Yila uxwebhu olusemthethweni kubambiswano lokuba ngumzali
- Xoxa ngokwabelana ngobutyebi
- Sula naziphi na iinkumbulo
- Thatha ixesha lokuphola
- Iiseshoni zokucebisa
Esi sisigqibo esinzima ukusithatha. Uzamile zonke iindlela zokugcina umtshato wakho, kuyacaca ukuba awuzange wenzelwe ukuba kunye. Nonwabile ngokwahlukana kunasemtshatweni. Kuthatha ixesha ukuba iqabane elizimisele ukushiya umtshato. Kukutyalomali ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo, ngaphandle kwako konke, lixesha lokuba uyeke. Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa
Yiba nesicwangciso sokuphuma
Sukwenza esi sicwangciso sivela kwiimvakalelo zovakalelo. Vumela ingcinga kunye nokuqiqa ukuba kuthathe inqanaba eliphambili ukuze kuninike ithuba lokuba sesona sigqibo sobabini. Ngaba uya kuzondla ngokwasemalini ngaphandle koncedo lweqabane lakho? Uza kumelana njani nobulolo? Ungathini ukuba iqabane lakho lihamba phambili, uya kuba ngunobangela wedrama ebomini babo? Kuya kufuneka ucinge ngazo zonke iziphumo zokwahlukana. Ukuba ngaphakathi uyamkela ukujongana nabo ke qhubeka. Kulula ukutsho kunokuba ukwenzile. Ithiyori, zilula kodwa xa kufikwa ekusebenzeni yenye yezona meko zinzima ukujongana nazo; nangona woyisa ngokuhamba kwexesha.
Lumkisa iqabane lakho
Ukubaleka emtshatweni kwakha amadabi asenkundleni amade kunye neentetho zoxolelwaniso ezinokukongamela, ukanti udinga ixesha lokuphola. Yazisa iqabane lakho malunga nesigqibo sakho, njengoko kunjalo, yiba nentetho esondeleyo malunga nokubeka izinto ngokucacileyo kwezinye zezizathu zakho zokuba kutheni uthathe isigqibo esinje. Ukuba ukunika indlebe yokumamela, yalatha kwiinzame ozenzileyo ukutshintsha imeko kodwa khange ivelise ziqhamo. Oku akuniki gumbi kwiqabane lokuzichaza ngeenjongo zokwenza ukuba utshintshe. Uphando lubonisa ukuba bambalwa kula maqabane anyanisekileyo kwisicelo sabo. Gcina umhlaba wakho.
Yila uxwebhu olusemthethweni kubambiswano lokuba ngumzali
Kwimeko apho abantwana bakulo mfanekiso, thetha neenkonzo zegqwetha lokukunceda ubhale isivumelwano esibophelelayo malunga nendlela onomdla wokubakhathalela ngayo abantwana ngelixa uhlala wedwa. Oku kukuvumela ukuba uphilise ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwiqabane lakho egameni lokubona abantwana.
Okwangoku, anithethi kakuhle, vumela inkundla yabantwana ikukhokele ngokuhambelana nemithetho yelizwe elawula abantwana.
Xoxa ngokwabelana ngobutyebi
Ukuba ufumene ubutyebi kunye, kuya kufuneka uze neendlela zokwahlula ubutyebi. Ukuba ukhulile, xoxa ngayo neqabane lakho ngokwenqanaba legalelo okanye ngokusekwe kulowo ugcina abantwana abanoxanduva lokufumana imali ngaphezulu komnye. Phepha naziphi na izivumelwano zomlomo, ubopheleleke kulwaphulo-mthetho ungazibopheleli ekushiyeleni amadabi asenkundleni amade awaphumelelanga.
Sula naziphi na iinkumbulo
Nantoni na ekukhumbuza ngeqabane lakho okanye amaxesha amnandi enibe kunye nawo ayikuvumeli ukuba uphilise. Cima lonke unxibelelwano kwizalamane zeqabane lakho kunye nabahlobo. Njengoko ushiya umtshato wakho, inyani ebuhlungu yeyokuba uqala ubomi ngokutsha. Kunqande ukutyelela iindawo azithandayo hleze ungqubane omnye komnye zikunike iinkumbulo ezimbi zokuphazamisa inkqubo yokuphilisa.
Thatha ixesha lokuphola
Ubudlelwane obubuyayo buyingozi ukuba awukapholi ngokupheleleyo ekwahlukaneni. Zinike ixesha; Ewe kunjalo, ubunendima oyidlalayo emtshatweni ongaphumelelanga. Eli lixesha lokuba uzivavanye kwaye wenze umnqophiso kunye nawe kwinto ofuna ukuyenza ngobomi bakho basekuhlaleni. Ngenkqubo efanelekileyo yokukuxhasa, inkqubo yokuphilisa ikhawuleza kwaye isempilweni.
Ubulolo buyeyona nto iphambili, eli lixesha lokuba ufunde incwadi ekhuthazayo, okanye ubandakanyeke kwezinye izinto ozimisileyo ngenxa yexesha. Ayizukukunika kuphela inzaliseko yeemvakalelo kodwa yakha nobomi bakho ekuhlaleni njengesixhobo sophuhliso lomntu.
Iiseshoni zokucebisa
Ukwenza isigqibo esinje kuthetha ukuba udlule kwizinto ezininzi ebomini bakho ezinokukhokelela kuxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo. Iinyani zobomi ziyasa kuwe, usenokungakwazi ukujongana nesizungu kunye nokuthotywa ngamanye amacandelo oluntu. Yiba neeseshoni zokucebisa ukuze ungene kumzuzu wokuzama ngaphandle kweengcinga ezimbi. Kwiiseshoni, ungakhala ngentliziyo yakho- lunyango.
Ukushiya umtshato akubonisi ukuba usilele. Awutyali mntu kwingcaciso ngesigqibo sakho. Logama nje usazi ukuba sesona sigqibo sihle kwaye isazela sakho sicocekile ngaso kwaye ungaze uyikhathalele intetho engakhiyo ejikeleze wena.