Umxholo
- Yintoni uthando olungenathemba?
- Banethemba
- Ifilimu yabo abayikhethileyo? Ukuthandana kwesappy
- Iintyatyambo azikho nje ngoSuku lweValentine
- Yibhola yeemvakalelo ye-mush
- Babona ubuhle kuyo yonke into
- Umsebenzi wabo abawuthandayo kunye neqabane labo
- Umhla wokuqala? Bangaphezu kwe-phezulu bonwabile
- Nokuba uthando alusebenzi, bahlala benethemba
- Batyale amandla ukugcina ubudlelwane babo busempilweni
Ngaba wakha waliva ibinzana elithi “ukuthandana ungenathemba?”
Mhlawumbi omnye umntu uthe ungomnye. Mhlawumbi ukhe wacinga ukuba iqabane lakho linokuwela kolo luhlu. Mhlawumbi awuqinisekanga malunga nentsingiselo yothando engenathemba.
Yintoni uthando olungenathemba?
Nanku umzamo kwinkcazo yothando olungenathemba kwaye lithetha ntoni uthando olungenathemba.
Umntu ochazwa njengomntu ongenathemba ngokuthandana ngumntu odla ngokuba nentliziyo entle. Okumangalisa kukuba, malunga ne-13% yabemi belizwe elikhulu banokuhlelwa njengabathandana abangenathemba.
Bahlala bebona okuhle ebantwini, ngakumbi amaqabane abo, okanye abo banethemba lokuthandana nabo.
Ukuchaza uthando olungenathemba ngakumbi,
- Bavame ukubeka amaqabane abo abaza kuba phezulu
- Ababoni naziphi na iimpazamo zabo
- Bazalisa izikhewu okanye ibali labo, becinga ngeempawu ezintle kunye nezenzo
Ngenxa yoku, uthando olungenathemba luyenzakala ngaphezu komndilili, abantu abalumke ngakumbi abangaziphosiyo kuqala kulwalamano.
Ezinye zeempawu zothando ezingenathemba ezibachazayo:
Banethemba
Ngokubanzi, kuthetha ukuthini ukuba nothando olungenathemba? I-romantics engenathemba inethemba kuzo zonke iindawo zobomi babo, hayi ngokubhekisele kuthando kuphela.
Olu luphawu oluthandekayo kubuntu kwaye luyinto entle ukuba phakathi kwayo.
Babona yonke into ecaleni kwelanga kwaye kunqabile ukuba baphose iliso elibukhali ngeenxa zonke kubo.
Omnye umsebenzi / indawo yokuhlala / ibali lothando "likufutshane nekona" ngoko ke bahlala bonwabile, benethemba.
Ifilimu yabo abayikhethileyo? Ukuthandana kwesappy
I-romantics engenathemba iyalithanda ibali elifanelekileyo lothando kwiscreen kwaye bayavuma ukuthandana okungenathemba kuye nakubani na nakubo bonke abantu ababangqongileyo.
Bangabathengi ababalaseleyo beHollywoodmark. Ngaba bathande ntoni? Nantoni na ebhalwe nguNicholas Sparks, okanye iifilimu ezinje ngo "Uthando, Ngokwenyani", "Iholide", okanye "Usuku lweValentine."
Banokhethekileyo, indawo ethambileyo yabalinganiswa abathandanayo abangenathemba, abakholelwa kwiingcinga zika "Lowo", "ooSoulmate", kunye "noNaphakade uthando"
Njengothando olungenathemba, bayabajonga kaninzi kwaye banokuphinda incoko ngentloko. Kuhle ukuba kude kube yinto ecaphukisayo kwii-romantics ezingenathemba ezibangqongileyo!
Bukela le vidiyo kwizinto ezi-5 ezingenathemba zothando ekufuneka uzivile:
Iintyatyambo azikho nje ngoSuku lweValentine
Uthando olungenathemba lubona umfana ohambisa iintyatyambo engena eofisini ephethe isipha esikhulu seentyatyambo ezibomvu kunye nenqanaba lentliziyo elikhawulezayo.
Olunye lweempawu zokuba awunathemba lokuthandana yipe yakhonchant yeentyatyambo. Ukuba unomdla weentyatyambo, kwaye zonke izinto zineentyatyambo, ke unolunye lweempawu zeklasi yothando olungenathemba.
Ayilulo usuku lokuzalwa kwabo kwaye ayisosiganeko sikhethekileyo, kodwa basenethemba lokuba elo lungiselelo linomtsalane leentyatyambo ezinde ezenzelwe bona.
Ngoba kutheni?
Oko kuchaza ukuba kutheni ukuthandana nomntu ongathandaniyo ongenathemba kuthetha ukuba awusoze uphelelwe ngamathuba apho babonisa khona izimbo zomzimba ezinje ngokunika iintyatyambo ezintle nezintle kuwe ukuzisa uncumo oluqaqambileyo ebusweni bakho.
Yibhola yeemvakalelo ye-mush
Bafumana ingozi encinci yebhayisekile kwaye bacele uxolo kwibhayisikile yabo, bayiphulula kwaye bathatha unonophelo olongezelelekileyo njengoko beyiqhubela ivili kwindawo yokulungisa.
Benzela abanini bezinja abadinisayo, bahlala bekhathazeka malunga nokuba ngaba inja ifumana uthando olwaneleyo kwaye ngaba iyodwa xa isiya emsebenzini? (Banokufaka ikham yesilwanyana ukuze bajonge uFido wabo omncinci.)
Xa umhlobo wabo osenyongweni ekhalaza ngazo zonke izinto ezimbi ezenziwa yinkwenkwe yakhe kuye (imphakamisa, imkhohlise, uboleka imali angaze ayibuyise), kunokuba amxelele ukuba amlahle, ukuthandana okungenathemba kuhlala ubona ulayini wesilivere kwaye uhlala eqinisekile ukuba ngenye imini, isoka liyakutshintsha kwaye izinto ziyakubalungela.
- Bayakuthanda ukujonga iifoto zomtshato, nkqu neealbham zabantu ababaziyo.
- Baze baqhekeze nakwizifungo zevidiyo.
- Oko kuzala kubonisa kumabonwakude, abanakubukela bengakhalanga.
Xa ezinye izibini ezingazaziyo zibandakanyeka kwindawo kawonke-wonke, njengendawo yokutyela, bangaphezu kwenyanga-bonwabile kubo kwaye abasifumani esi senzo sitshisayo nakancinci.
- Bayala ukufunda amanqaku malunga nendlela ephelelwe lixesha yonkosikazi
- Bukela iinkqubo zeTV ezincoma ubuhle be-polyamory
- Yala ukukholelwa ibango lokuba yimeko yendalo yabantu yokuthanda abantu abaninzi ngexesha elinye.
Kwizithandani ezingenathemba, ukutshata nomntu omnye kuphela kwemodeli yothando ekufuneka ilandelwe.
Bakhala xa uChanning Tatum ebhengeza ukuba umtshato wakhe uphelile.
Ngomhla wesibini, sele becinga ngomtshato wabo kwaye luhlobo luni lweepilowases ezilungiselelwe.
Babona ubuhle kuyo yonke into
Kuba konke kunxibelelene nabo.
Usenokucinga ukuba olo lukhula olukhula ngaphandle kwendlela esecaleni kwendlela; Ukuthandana okungenathemba kuyintyatyambo.
Uthando olungenathemba luhlala lunethemba ukuba, nokuba umntu ebekhe wanobudlelwane obubi obathandathu ngasemva kwabo, owesixhenxe uyakuba "ngoyena"
Umsebenzi wabo abawuthandayo kunye neqabane labo
Ukuphosa phakathi kohambo olude, okanye ibhafu yokuhlambela ekwabelwana ngayo.
Lonke ixesha bethetha ngeemvakalelo zabo ezinzulu kunye neemvakalelo. Bacinga ukuba uthando luyinxalenye yesiphelo kunye nokumiselwa, kwaye ayisekelwanga kakhulu kusukelo lokuqonda okanye injongo. Banokuthi, "Iyenzeka nje," basenokuthi.
Bakholelwa ngokuqinileyo kuthando xa beqala ukubona.
Bakholelwa ukuba kukho umphefumlo womntu wonke ngaphandle, umntu oliphupha lakhe kwasekuzalweni.
Xa besebudlelwaneni, abagcini nje ukubhiyozela isikhumbuzo sabo sonyaka kodwa senyanga. Kwaye banengoma ekhethekileyo.
Umhla wokuqala? Bangaphezu kwe-phezulu bonwabile
Baza kuchitha ixesha elininzi ngokungaqhelekanga becinga ngempahla yabo, ukwenza kwabo iziqholo, iziqholo zabo kunye nokuzilungiselela malunga nezinto abazokuzithetha nabazokuxoxa ngazo.
Banenqanaba elithandekayo lehlombe elenza ukuba abahlobo babo bancume.
Nokuba uthando alusebenzi, bahlala benethemba
Into emnandi malunga nothando olungenathemba kukuba kunjalo ungaze uphazanyiswe kukusilela kolwalamano. "Ndilinye inyathelo elisondeleyo ekufumaneni isiqingatha sam esingcono" baya kuthi emva kokwahlukana.
Batyale amandla ukugcina ubudlelwane babo busempilweni
Kuba uthando olungenathemba lukulindelwe ngokuthe ngqo malunga nezinto abazifunayo kubudlelwane, abahlali kubudlelwane obubi.
Kwaye xa befumana umdlalo olungileyo kubo, baqinisekisa ukugcina izinto zonwabile kwaye zishushu.
Bazimisele ukubeka umgudu oyimfuneko ukudala ubudlelwane obuhle obuya kuhlala buhle kwixesha elide.