Umxholo
- 1. Fumana umgaqo esivumelana ngawo ngonxibelelwano olucacileyo
- 2. Yenza imida echaziweyo
- 3. Khusela amajelo akho onxibelelwano
- 4. Hlala unxibelelana negqwetha losapho lwakho
- 5. Thatha uxanduva ngeqabane lakho elitsha
- Iimpawu zokukhuseleka, ukusebenza ngokubambisana kwabazali
- Beka isicwangciso kwisenzo
Akukho mntu kufuneka alwe neqabane lakhe langoku okanye elalikade likho ngenxa yothando lwabantwana babo. Kwaye okwangoku, oku kunjalo kumawakawaka eentsapho mihla le. Ukuba iqabane lakho okanye iqabane lakho langaphambili lixhonyiwe, banokuthatha inyathelo elinye ukonakalisa ubudlelwane bomzali nomntwana wakho ngokuxoka okanye ngolunye uhlobo.
Iimpawu ezinokwenza umntu onomdla ukuthandana aziguquli kakuhle ukuba ngumzali. Kwaye abantu bayatshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha, ayisoloko ingcono.
Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba iqabane lakho langaphambili lizama ukonakalisa ubudlelwane bakho phakathi komzali nomntwana nabantwana bakho, nanga amanyathelo ambalwa onokuwathatha.
Iindlela abazali abalonakalisa ngazo ikamva labantwana babo kunye nendlela yokuziyeka ukuze ugcine ubudlelwane bakho bomzali nomntwana-
1. Fumana umgaqo esivumelana ngawo ngonxibelelwano olucacileyo
Inyathelo lokuqala kukubuza ukuba ungenza ntoni ngokwahlukileyo kunye neqabane lakho langaphambili ukukhuthaza unxibelelwano olungcono phakathi kwamakhaya. Zama kwaye ubuze umntu wakho wakudala ukuba ninokwenza ntoni ukudala indawo enempilo yabantwana.
Ngokufanelekileyo, bavumele ukuba bavume ukuba ubudlelwane bomzali nomntwana macala omabini ekugqibeleni buyabenzakalisa abantwana. Kunokuba yimfuneko ukufuna uncedo kwingcali yosapho ukuze ulamle.
2. Yenza imida echaziweyo
Ukuba umntu wakho wangaphambili uyala ukuza ebhodini ukuze asebenze njengeqela, lixesha lokuba wenze imida ethile ethintela ulwalamano kubazali nomntwana. Musa ukuba lixhoba leziphumo zemikhwa yabo eyonakalisa umanyano lomzali nomntwana.
Imizekelo ibandakanya utyelelo lokuthatha kunye nokulahla kwiindawo zikawonke-wonke kuphela, kunye nokuthintela ubudlelwane bomzali nomntwana ukonakalisa ukufikelela komzali ekhayeni lakho.
Kuba iimvakalelo ziphezulu, kungangcono ukuba unxibelelane ngokungqongqo ngesicatshulwa okanye nge-imeyile (ungasathethi ke ukuba unamaxwebhu amagqabaza amabi kwimeko apho uya kugqibela enkundleni).
3. Khusela amajelo akho onxibelelwano
Itekhnoloji ibolekisa uncedo, kwaye kukho iiapps ezininzi ezilungileyo phaya ukukunceda ukuvala umsantsa wonxibelelwano kwaye ngokungqongqo malunga nokucwangciswa kunye nentlalontle yabantwana bakho.
4. Hlala unxibelelana negqwetha losapho lwakho
Umzali wakho wakudala okanye umntwana wakho angazama ukusebenzisa gadalala inkqubo yenkundla ngexa nasemva koqhawulo-mtshato ukuze bohlwaye. Oku kunokwenzakalisa imali, ngokweemvakalelo, kwaye ube ngumsele omkhulu ngexesha lakho lasimahla. Kule meko, uzakufuna igqwetha losapho. Banokuxoxa phambi kwenkundla bachaze amaqhinga omthetho angenangqiqo abanokuwasebenzisa kwaye bayiphelise, okanye bafune imbuyekezo kwinkundla.
5. Thatha uxanduva ngeqabane lakho elitsha
Kwimeko apho umntu wakudala enempindezelo ngakumbi kwiqabane lakho elitsha, luxanduva lwakho ukubakhusela ngokusemandleni akho, nkqu nokubandakanya ukuthotyelwa komthetho ukuba kukho imfuneko, kunye nokukhusela ubudlelwane bakho bomzali nomntwana.
Ukuba umntu wakho wangaphambili uyaqhubeka nokunyelisa iqabane lakho elitsha, liphelise. Kuya kufuneka uvimbe imidiya yoluntu, ii-imeyile, kunye neenombolo zefowuni egameni leqabane lakho. Wena, njengomzali we-bio, kuya kufuneka uthathe indima yokuphatha lonke unxibelelwano ngokubhekisele kubantwana kunye nomntu wakho wakudala. Oku kuya kukunceda ukuba unqande umntu wakho wakudala ekuonakaliseni ubudlelwane bakho bomzali nomntwana.
Iimpawu zokukhuseleka, ukusebenza ngokubambisana kwabazali
Wazi njani ukuba unemeko ezandleni zakho efuna ingqwalaselo ekhawulezileyo? Cinga ngolu luhlu lulandelayo olwahlula phakathi kobudlelwane bokusebenza kunye nokungasebenzi kakuhle kobudlelwane bobuzali.
- Flexible
- Yimbeko
- Kulungile
- Gxila kwimpilo-ntle yabantwana
- Inkxaso
- Kukhuselekile
- Uhlonipha imida
- Isitayile sonxibelelwano esifanelekileyo kunye nengqiqo
- Ukuhlonipha amaqabane amatsha kunye nomzali womtshato wesibini
Iziphumo zokubonisa ezi mpawu kubomi bakho bobuzali? Ukuba nabantwana abaluphethe kakuhle utshintsho, bomelele ngokweemvakalelo kwaye banesibindi sokuthatha umngcipheko. Abanayo, kodwa abantu abadala abaninzi ebomini babo ababakhathaleleyo kwaye babonelele ngezixhobo eziphambili: imali, ixesha, isikhokelo, kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, UTHANDO.
Oku kunempembelelo ethe ngqo kubo bobabini ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo impilo: abantwana abasebenza kolu hlobo lwendalo bakhulisa amajoni omzimba aqinileyo kunye neendlela zokuncamathisela ezikhuselekileyo. Oku kudala ubudlelwane obunempilo phakathi komzali nomntwana phakathi kwakho nomntwana wakho.
Iimpawu zomsebenzi ophantsi, oxhalabileyo kunye nokonakalisa abazali
- Imbambano
- Ukuhlisa okanye ukuhambisa
- Iimpompo zabantwana ngolwazi malunga ne-ex kunye neqabane labo
- Ukuhlala uziva ungazinzanga kwaye ubungozi (izoyikiso ezibonakalayo)
- Umzi "uhamba phezu kwamaqokobhe amaqanda" ukunqanda ukungqubana
- Ukungabi bhetyebhetye
- Ayiyihlawuli inkxaso yomntwana / isondlo ngexesha (okanye kwaphela)
- Ukungangqinelani notyelelo
- Igcina iithoyi zomntwana, iimpahla, njl.
- Ukuxhaphaza inkqubo yenkundla
- Sebenzisa abantwana ukunxibelelana
- Vents inzondo kunye nomsindo ngokubhekisele kwi-ex nabantwana
Iziphumo ezinokubakho zabantwana abahlala nabazali abanetyhefu? Banokuphathwa zizilonda ezinzulu ngokweemvakalelo bonke ubomi babo kwaye bathambekele ekubeni noxinzelelo olungapheliyo.
Ngapha koko, uphononongo lubonakalisile ukuba aba bantwana batyekele ekubeni likhoboka kwaye banokuhlangabezana nobunzima ekufezekiseni ubomi babathandana. Amajoni abo omzimba aya kuncitshiswa kukukhathazeka rhoqo kunye nokungazinzi.
Okokugqibela, esinye seziphumo ezibini zinokwenzeka: banokuba bangakhuselekanga kakhulu ukuba bathathe umngcipheko ofanelekileyo, okanye banokukhetha ukuthatha umngcipheko ongafanelekanga onokuthi ube neziphumo ezibi.
Beka isicwangciso kwisenzo
Khumbula: unokulawula kuphela okwenzekayo ekhayeni lakho. Ukwenza okusemandleni akho kuthetha ukudala nokugcina indawo ekhuselekileyo nenenkxaso yabaselula bakho kwimeko enzima. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba abantwana bakho baya kuthi ekugqibeleni bakhule kwaye baqonde ukuba ubalungele. Ngelixa ungeke ukwazi ukutshintsha okwenzekayo kwindlu yakho yangaphambili, UNGAKHO ukugxila kwimizamo yakho yokudala imeko esempilweni.
Ukuba utata womntwana wakho wenza konke okusemandleni ukukuhleba aze akuhlukanise nabantwana bakho, musa ukulwa nomlilo, mlisa umlilo ngamanzi.
Fundisa abantwana bakho ukubaluleka kokunyaniseka, kunye nendlela yokujonga ubungqina ukuze baqonde ukuba yinyani na bubuxoki. Xa behla, uya phezulu.
Beka umzamo olinganayo ekugcineni ubukho obungaguquguqukiyo nobukho kubomi babantwana bakho. Umgca wokugqibela NGOKUNGANIKEZELWA. Unetyala lakho kubantwana bakho ukuba ubazise kwaye bazive ukuba ulwile idarndest yakho ukuba ube nolwalamano oluhle, kwaye wenza konke okusemandleni akho ukwenza eyona meko imbi.