Umxholo
- Unxibelelwano neqabane lakho
- Akukho sidingo sokuba neentloni malunga nokunxibelelana ngesondo
- Unokufuna uncedo olongezelelekileyo okokuqala
- Ngaba ukhathazekile malunga nolwakhiwo lwakho?
- Kuthekani ukuba awukwazi ukufumana ulwakhiwo, okanye ugcine enye?
- Thatha ixesha lakho
Ukuba uyindoda eyintombi etshatayo, ayisiyiyo kuphela ukuba uxinzelelo malunga nazo zonke iinkcukacha zomtshato, kodwa nangokwesondo ngokwawo.
Ngaba ndiza kuba nakho ukwenza? Ngaba ndiya kulonwabisa iqabane lam? Yintoni ayilindeleyo? Yintoni eyam? Unemibuzo emininzi ejikelezayo engqondweni yakho.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zobusuku bomtshato ezinyulu eziza kunceda ukwenza le ndinyana ingabi luxinzelelo kwaye ngethemba lokuba ngumnyhadala owonwabisayo.
Unxibelelwano neqabane lakho
Wena neqabane lakho anikaze nithandane kwaye ninoloyiko malunga nobusuku bomtshato.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba unovalo, naye. Funani ixesha eninobabini ngalo, nibe nencoko malunga nendlela enivakalelwa ngayo nobabini. Zama uchonge uhlobo lokoyika kwakho.
Ngaba uyoyika kuba unamava kwaye awunalo?
Ukuba uyindoda eyintombi, kwaye uyintombi enyulu, enye yeengcebiso zobusuku bomtshato iya kuba kukumbuza ukuba woyika nayiphi na intlungu enokubakho ngesenzo sokuqala sokulala. (Mqinisekise ukuba uyakuba mnene kwaye umphulaphule rhoqo ukuba uyakucela ukuba ume okanye unciphise isantya.) Chaza ukuba ulindele ukuba unganakho ukwenza, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukufikelela kwi-orgasm ngokukhawuleza okukhulu ukumanelisa.
Kumadoda angazani nandoda, ukubeka lonke uloyiko lwakho phaya kuya kunceda ukusasaza kwaye kuvumele umfazi wakho wexesha elizayo ukuba aphendule ngamazwi athuthuzelayo (kwaye abelane naye ngeengxaki zakhe).
Olu hlobo lonxibelelwano lubalulekile kumadoda angazani nandoda, kunye nokuzilolonga okuhle onokudlulisela kwamanye amaxesha ebomini bakho bomtshato xa kuya kufuneka unxibelelane ngezimvo ezibuthathaka kunye nomnye.
Akukho sidingo sokuba neentloni malunga nokunxibelelana ngesondo
Oku kuya kuba liqabane lakho lobomi.
Kuqhelekile ukuba nobabini nibe neengxoxo ezininzi malunga nalo mbandela ngexesha lomtshato. Yinto entle leyo! Ukwabelana ngesondo yinxalenye entle yomtshato kwaye uya kufuna ukuhlala ukhululekile ukujongana nesi sihloko kunye.
Unokufuna uncedo olongezelelekileyo okokuqala
Ukuba nobabini ninyulu, kungafuneka nibe nethumbu okanye ibhotile yesithambisi ebusuku, okanye “lube” njengoko izibini zibiza njalo, ke ncedani nisinciphise isenzo kwaye nisenze singabi buhlungu kakhulu emfazini wakho.
Kumadoda angazani nandoda, kubalulekile ukuba wazi ukuba ayingabo bonke abantu basetyhini abaya kuba neentlungu okanye bophe ngesenzo sokuqala sokulalana, ngakumbi ukuba ebeyimbaleki esebenzayo okanye esebenzisa iitamponi okanye iithoyi zesini kuye. Ezi ziyakwaphula i-hymen, eyimbumba egubungela ngokuyingene ukungena kusisi kwintombi ezinyulu.
Njengendoda engazani nandoda, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba i-hymen yaphulwe ngokulula yi-tampon okanye i-toy toy xa isopha xa iqala ukulala kunye, ayibonisi ukuba ayiyontombi.
Ukusebenzisa into yokuthambisa kuya kuqinisekisa ukuba izinto zihamba kakuhle kwaye kuya kukhulisa ukonwaba kwakho. Unganqikazi ukufaka isicelo kwakhona ukuba kukho imfuneko.
Ngaba ukhathazekile malunga nolwakhiwo lwakho?
Kuqhelekile ukuba amadoda angazani nandoda akhathazeke ngokwakhiwa kwawo kunye ne-orgasm. Ukuziqhelanisa ngaphambi kosuku olubalulekileyo yenye yeengcebiso ezibalulekileyo zasebusuku bokuqala ukonwabela uthando lomtshato ebusuku.
Eyona nkxalabo ixhaphakileyo phakathi kwamadoda angazani nanto incopho kungekudala, kwaye ungabinakho ukuhlala ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo ukuzisa iqabane lakho kuvuthondaba. Ukuba uqhele ukuzonwabisa, unokufuna ukuziqhelanisa nokusondela kumhla womtshato ukuze uhlale ixesha elide kunokuba ungakhange ufikelele esiphelweni okwexeshana.
Kwaye ukuba wenza i-orgasm ngokukhawuleza okukhulu, akukho nto inkulu. Eli lixesha lakho lokuqala ukulala nomntu obhinqileyo, kwaye kuyonwabisa. Mxelele kanye loo nto, ukuze aqonde ukuba uyifumana intle kwaye inomdla. Emva koko linda kancinci, kwaye uzame kwakhona. Uyakumangaliswa yindlela oza kubuyela ngayo ngokukhawuleza ekwenzeni uthando emva kwe-orgasm yokuqala.
Enye yeengcebiso ezibalulekileyo zeentombi ezingamadoda kukukhumbula ukuba ixesha lesibini liya kuba ngcono; uya kuhlala ixesha elide kwaye unokuzithemba ngakumbi kuba sele uyenzile le nto ngaphambili!
Kuthekani ukuba awukwazi ukufumana ulwakhiwo, okanye ugcine enye?
Ungabulungiselela njani ubusuku bomtshato ukuba uziva uxhalabile ngokungafumani lwakhiwo okanye ukuxhasa? Ngaba uyazi ukuba oku kunokwenzeka ngexesha lakho lokuqala.
Inkqubo ye-nerry iyakhohlisa, kwaye ukuba uxhalabile malunga neli xesha lokuqala, ipeni yakho inokuba umamele olo loyiko kwaye ikuyeke.
Ingcebiso yeentombi? Khumbula, akukho nto inkulu. Ayisiyiyo eyamadoda kuphela, kodwa nakwinqanaba elinamava.
Susani uxinzelelo nobabini, nenze enye into.
Ingcebiso epholileyo yamadoda aziintombi? Ungawuhlola umzimba womfazi wakho omtsha ngamehlo, izandla, iminwe kunye nomlomo.
Ubusondeleyo abukho malunga nepenisi kunye nokungena.
Zininzi iindlela zokumnceda ukuba aphumle kwaye afikelele kwi-orgasm engabandakanyi ilungu lakho lobudoda.
Eyona nto ithuthuzelayo yokuba amadoda angazani nantombi kufuneka ayazi ukuba emva kweeseshoni ezimbalwa zokumazi ngoluhlobo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ilungu lakho lobudoda liya kusebenzisana. Xa oko kusenzeka, phambili ngokupheleleyo!
Thatha ixesha lakho
Nangona ingqondo yakho inokukuxelela ukuba "uhambe, ekugqibeleni ungabelana ngesondo!", Uya kufuna ukunandipha lo mzuzu ubaluleke kangaka. Ekugqibeleni unokwabelana ngesondo njengendoda nomfazi, kunye nabo bonke ubungcwele, eso senzo sithetha.
Enye yeengcebiso zobusuku bomtshato emadodeni ukwenza obu busuku bomtshato ukuba bukhunjulwe kukuba xa ufika kubusuku bakho bomtshato obulindelwe kudala, thatha ixesha lakho.
Ubenosuku olukhulu nje, ngoku ke nini nobabini. Mhlawumbi ukuhlamba kunye, okanye umyalezo ukuze uncede uphumle. Yolula phezu kwebhedi kwaye nibambe nje kwaye nincamisane, ngokucothayo nangokuthambileyo. Ukwazisa ngobusuku bomtshato iithoyi zesini yenye yeengcebiso ezimnandi zobusuku bomtshato ukonyusa i-quotient yolonwabo lokulala ngesondo ngobusuku bomtshato.
Xa ujonga iingcebiso zesondo ezinyulu, elona cebiso libaluleke kakhulu kumadoda angazani nandoda asethelwe ukubopha ukwazi ukuba bathethe omnye nomnye kwaye babuze omnye ukuba uziva elungile, kwaye yintoni engavakaliyo. Lo ngumzuzu omhle kwaye uya kuhlala ukhumbula, ke musa ukungxama izinto.