Umxholo
- Inyathelo 1: Kuphephe inkxaso-mali ngokupheleleyo
- Inyathelo 2: Phelisa isondlo ngoku sele uhlawula
- Inyathelo lesi-3: Nciphisa inani lesondlo ohlawula lona
Ewe kunjalo, eyona ndlela ilula yokuphepha ukuthatha omnye umntu omdala njengokuxhomekeka kwakho ebomini kukungatshati. Nangona kunjalo, kwabo bathambekele ekungeneni kulwalamano olusemthethweni lomtshato, ithuba lokufumana inkxaso-mali liya kuhlala lihleli ngasemva.
Kwimeko nganye, xa abantu ababini betshata, bangena kubudlelwane obusemthethweni. Obu budlelwane bubeka kwiqabane ngalinye uxanduva lokuxhasana ngexesha lomtshato. Inokuza noxanduva lokubonelela ngenkxaso yemali eqhubayo emva kokuphela komtshato.
Nokuba i-alimony ihlawulwe kwaye, yeyiphi imali, ilawulwa ngumthetho welizwe. Ngenxa yoko, siza kuthetha ngemigaqo ngokubanzi enokukuvumela ukuba uphume ngokuhlawula isondlo.
Eli nqaku liza kuxubusha indlela onokuyithatha ukuze uphume ngokuhlawula isondlo, ukuqala ngokukuphepha ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba oko akunakwenzeka, unokuqwalasela ezinye iziphakamiso ezichazwe apha, ezinxulumene nendlela yokuyeka ukuhlawula i-alimony okanye ubuncinane ukunciphisa inani layo.
Inyathelo 1: Kuphephe inkxaso-mali ngokupheleleyo
Eyona ndlela ilula yokuphepha ukuhlawula i-alimony konke konke kukungatshati. Ngaphandle komtshato, akukho buhlobo apho kubeka uxanduva lokuxhasana. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwamazwe, izibini zihlala zinokuphepha ukuhlawula isondlo ngokuvuma ukuba isondlo asizukuhlawulwa. Oku kunokwenziwa ngesivumelwano sangaphambi komtshato, isivumelwano sasemva komtshato, okanye isivumelwano sokuhlawula.
Ithuba lokuqala elinokubakho lokuphuma ekuhlawuleni isondlo sisivumelwano sangaphambi komtshato, esisivumelwano esenziwe ngaphambi komtshato apho abatshatileyo benza izigqibo malunga nokuba imicimbi efana ne-alimony iyakuphathwa njani ukuba bayaqhawula umtshato kamva. Izivumelwano zangaphambi komtshato zivumeleka kuphela xa omabini amaqabane esenza ukuxela okupheleleyo komnye nomnye malunga nezinto anazo kunye nemali ayenzayo. Wonke urhulumente ubeka iimfuno ezongezelelweyo kwizivumelwano zangaphambi komtshato ngaphambi kokuba zithathwe njengezisemthethweni. Umzekelo, iimfuno eziqhelekileyo zibandakanya ukuba izivumelwano zangaphambi komtshato kufuneka zibhalwe kwaye kufuneka zisayinwe. Ukongeza, esi sibini kufuneka ukuba sibe nethuba lokubonisana negqwetha elizimeleyo ngaphambi kokwenza isivumelwano. Kananjalo, kuninzi lwamazwe, isivumelwano bekufanele ukuba sasilungile ngexesha ekwaxoxwa ngalo. Ngokucacileyo, lo ngumba ekufuneka ijaji iwugqibe ngokubanzi ngexesha loqhawulo-mtshato.
Ukuba sele utshatile, usenokuba nethuba lokuthintela isonymonyi kwaphela. Amazwe amaninzi akwazisa izivumelwano zasemva komtshato, ezihlala zifana kakhulu nezivumelwano zangaphambi komtshato. Umahluko ophambili kukuba bayenziwa emva kokuba umtshato sele wenzekile.
Kwaye okokugqibela, ukuba uqhawulo-mtshato lukufuphi, unokukwazi ukuthethathethana ngokungahlawuli isondlo kwisivumelwano neqabane lakho. Umzekelo, unokuthatha isigqibo sokunika iqabane lakho ipesenti enkulu yepropathi, enje ngezindlu, iimoto, kunye neebhalansi zebhanki, endaweni yokuba kungahlawulwa mali. Unokuzama nokuthetha-thethana ngesixa semali sokuhlawula, apho uhlawula isixa esinye kwiqabane lakho kwaye ungahlawuli kwakhona. Izivumelwano zokuhlala kwabantu kufuneka zivunywe yinkundla ngaphambi kokuba zisebenze.
Nokuba ukhetha isivumelwano sangaphambi komtshato, isivumelwano sasemva komtshato, okanye isivumelwano sentlawulo, kubalulekile ukuba ubonane negqwetha elinamava losapho kwilizwe lakho. La magqwetha anamava anzulu kumthetho woqhawulo mtshato kwaye ayakwazi ukukunceda uthethathethane ngesivumelwano esiza kusebenza ngokukuko ekufezekiseni iinjongo zakho.
Inyathelo 2: Phelisa isondlo ngoku sele uhlawula
Ukuba sele uhlawula i-alimony, ukhetho lwakho lukhawulelwe. Zimbini iindlela onokufumana ngazo ngaphandle kokuhlawula isondlo oye wayalelwa ukuba uhlawule: (1) iimeko zokuhlangana kumyalelo wenkundla okanye (2) iimeko zokuhlangana kumthetho welizwe.
Umyalelo wenkundla ofuna ukuba uhlawule isibonelelo kufuneka uchaze iimeko eziza kuphela phantsi kwesondlo. Umzekelo, unokucelwa ukuba uhlawule inkxaso-mali yesondlo ixesha elithile elimiselweyo, okwenzekayo nge-alimony yexeshana okanye kwi-alimony yokubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo. Zombini, ngendalo yazo, zilinganiselwe kwixesha elithile. Ngeso sizathu, kubalulekile ukuba uyazi ukuba uthini umyalelo wenkundla malunga nokuphela kwesondlo. Kwimeko yesondlo esisigxina, umzekelo, inokuphela kuphela xa iqabane elifumana isondlo lisweleka okanye liphinde litshate okanye xa iqabane elihlawula isondlo lisweleka.
Ukuba awukwazi ukuhlangabezana nemiqathango ebekwe kumyalelo wenkundla, kuya kufuneka ubonane negqwetha malunga nokuba unganakho na ukuhlangabezana nomgangatho wezomthetho wokupheliswa kwesondlo kwilizwe lakho. Kwindawo ezininzi, kuya kufuneka ubonise utshintsho lwezinto okanye utshintsho olukhulu kwiimeko. Imizekelo yezinto ezinokuhlangabezana nalo mgangatho zibandakanya ukuyekiswa okanye ukugula kakhulu okanye ukukhubazeka. Inye into ebalulekileyo ekufuneka uyazi kukuba awunakucutha ngabom umvuzo wakho ukuzama ukuphuma kwintlawulo yesondlo. Ukuba uyakwenza oko, inkundla inegunya "lokunyanzela" ingeniso kuwe. Oku kuthetha ukuba kuya kufuneka uhlawule imali yesondlo ngokusekwe kwinani lejaji ekufuneka ukwazi ukuyifumana nokuba awenzi mali ingako. Ngokucacileyo, oku kungakhokelela kusilelo olukhulu kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali kwaye kufuneka luthintelwe kuzo zonke iindleko. Unokubanjelwa ukungayihloniphi inkundla, enokukhokelela ekuvalelweni ixesha, kwaye kungafuneka uhlawule isohlwayo.
Inyathelo lesi-3: Nciphisa inani lesondlo ohlawula lona
Ukuba awukwazi ukuphuma ekuhlawuleni i-alimony ngokupheleleyo, unokukwazi ukunciphisa isixa semali ohlawula umlingane wakho wangaphambili. Umgangatho osemthethweni woku uhlala udla ngokuba iimeko zitshintshe kakhulu okanye ngokubonakalayo. Umzekelo, mhlawumbi awungekhe usebenze iiyure ezininzi ngenxa yokuba kufuneka uthathe unyango oluqhubekayo. Okanye umlingane wakho wangaphambili ufumene unyuselo olubalulekileyo, ngelixa wehlisiwe ngenxa yesiphoso sakho. Kwiimeko ezinje ngezi, ijaji inokufumanisa ukuba iimeko zitshintshe ngokwaneleyo ukuze ungabinakho ukuhlawula imali eninzi.
Ukuba ujonge ukuphuma kwintlawulo yesondlo, ukubheja kwakho okungcono kukuqesha igqwetha losapho elinamava kwilizwe lakho. La magqwetha ayayazi indlela efanelekileyo yokuyibeka kakuhle imicimbi yenkundla ukuze ufumane eyona nto ifanelekileyo ekuphumeni ngokuhlawula isondlo okanye ukunciphisa imali.