Umxholo
- 1. Cinga ngendawo yakho
- 2. Umxholo
- 3. Umculo
- 4. Iindwendwe
- 5. Ikhowudi yokunxiba
- 6. Ukutya
- 7. Yayilitheko
- 8. Amasiko
- 9. Inkcitho
- Konke kungothando nokuhloniphana
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Ubukrakra bam buvela kwinto yokuba ndiwuthiyile umtshato. Zonke zihlala zijongeka kwaye zisebenza ngokufanayo-ilokhwe emhlophe yehla ezantsi, iindawo zonqulo, indawo ebizayo, iwayini enexabiso eliphantsi, kunye ne-bar enexabiso eliphezulu.
Uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo babonakala bethe phithi yibhodi yabo yePinterest kunomtshato uqobo, kwaye ukuba utata uyanyanzelisa "ukundinika", ndihlala naye phantsi ukuze ndifundise iyure malunga nobufazi.
Kodwa ndaya emtshatweni ngeempelaveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ezazinyanisile kwaye zazingonwabanga kwaye kungekuphela ngenxa yokuba intetho yayiyimizuzu nje embalwa nganye.
Unokukuthanda ukuva oyena mntu wakho ulungileyo ekhwaza amahlaya kangangemizuzu engama-30, kodwa iindwendwe zakho zinokudikwa kwaye zijonge ibha.
Owona mtshato wakutsha nje wawumnandi kuba wawuchasa zonke izithethe kunye neengqungquthela, kodwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo yayingumtshato. Phakathi kwabafazi babini, bajonge amasiko, indlela abasebenza ngayo kubo, kunye nokuba bafuna ukuba umtshato wabo ubonakalise.
Umtshato wabo waziva wahlukile kwaye ubushushu bentliziyo, nangona uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali lwaluncinci.
Ke, izinto ezimbalwa onokuzenza ukwenza umtshato wakho ungahambelani kwaye ungowakho-
1. Cinga ngendawo yakho
Oomolokazana bathathe isigqibo ngokuchasene necawa kuba bengengabo abenkolo.
Oku kunokubonakala kucacile, kodwa bangaphi abantu obaziyo abatshatileyo ecaweni kuba iifoto ziya kujongeka zilungile?
Olu lusuku lwakho lomtshato, usuku lokubhiyozela uthando lwakho nabantu obathandayo. Ngaba awunabunzulu ukhathalele kuphela iifoto emva?
2. Umxholo
Imitshato emihlanu kwemithandathu endiye kuyo, yonke ibonakala inemixholo efanayo. Kwakhala nje, "Ndinebhodi ye-Pinterest ye-shabby chic". Ukuba yile nto uyifunayo, konke kulungile kwaye kulungile, kodwa umtshato wesithandathu uhambe nomxholo woncwadi kuba bobabini abatshakazi babeqale babophelela uthando lwabo lweencwadi.
Ayisiyiyo kuphela undwendwe ngalunye olunesandla esisesibini sokususa (esibetha ingqayi yobusi nangaluphi na usuku!), Kodwa umtshato waziva ungafani ngokungakholelekiyo.
Incede yafumana inkanuko yabo kunye neenkanuko ezabiwe lusapho kunye nabahlobo. Oko kunye nokutya okunoncwadi lokutya kundenze ndayihleka!
3. Umculo
Bobabini abatshakazi babelana ngomculo ofanayo, kwaye le yinto ababelana ngayo neentsapho zabo. Umculo ubusoloko ubalulekile kubo. Kwaye ndithetha "rhoqo kumnyhadala womculo wasekhaya" ubalulekile.
Bakhethe ukuhamba ezantsi (okanye bangena kwiofisi yobhaliso!) Bastille. Le bhanti bayayithanda kwaye yahluke kakhulu kwimatshi yesiqhelo yomtshato.
Ngelixa yayingengokhetho lwesiko lwengoma, oko kwakuthetha lukhulu kubo bobabini.
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4. Iindwendwe
Ndiyathandabuza ukuba bekukho ngaphezulu kweendwendwe ezingama-30 zosuku lonke. Zonke iindwendwe zazize kumsitho wokuqala kwaye zahlala zaya ethekweni. Kunye nokuthintela umba wokuba ngubani na omenyelwe kulo msitho kwaye ngubani na omenyelwe kuphela ethekweni, oku kuye kwanika usuku lonke uvakalelo olusenyongweni.
Kwakukho usapho olulinganiselweyo olwalukho emtshatweni. Endaweni yoko, bamema abona bantu babebaluleke kakhulu kubo.
Abaqeqeshi banikwa abo babehambe umgama omde, kwaye inani elisezantsi lokugcina lagcina iindleko ziphantsi.
5. Ikhowudi yokunxiba
Omnye umtshakazi wayenxibe ibhatyi ekhululweyo kunye nejini emnyama. Omnye wayenxibe ilokhwe eluhlaza. Iindwendwe ziye zavela koko bezikufuna, ukusuka kwikiliti ukuya kwijean nakwiflannel.
Oku kwanika usuku lonke ukhululekile, ukuziva ukhululekile. Akukho mntu wayekhononda ngezithende okanye iimpahla eziqinileyo emini emaqanda.
Sonke siweve amabali othusayo kaMtshakazi efuna iindwendwe zibukeke njengeemodeli zeenqwelo-moya, kodwa kutheni le nto iyimfuneko? Ngaba yeefoto? Ngaba inkangeleko yangaphandle ibaluleke ngakumbi kunombhiyozo kunye nothando eninalo nonke?
Ewe, iindwendwe bezinokuvela zinxibe isuti yamaqhekeza amathathu ukuba ziyafuna. Bobabini oomama bomtshakazi banxibile.
Lo mtshato wawumalunga nokwamkelwa kunye nokuqondwa.
Kwaye akukho mntu wayenxibe izithende zobudenge oko kwakuthetha ukuba wonke umntu wayedanisa kude kube sezinzulwini zobusuku.
6. Ukutya
Ndikhe ndaya emitshatweni ngaphambili apho ukutya kuye kwaxabisa i- £ 50 entloko, kwaye ndaye ndagqibela ngecephe lomzala. Ndizamile ukuqiqa ngale nto. Ngokukodwa, ixabiso eliphezulu lokutya kungenxa yokuba iiweyitala zazinxibile kwaye umzala wanikwa ngelinen yelinen.
Ngelixa kumnandi, ndiqinisekile ukuba umzala wakho ayibizi kangako.
Kulo mtshato, bendinesidlo sokwenyani kuba abatshakazi bebeqeshe ilori yokutya yalapho bayithandayo. Ukongeza, bakhonze ii-burger ezinoncwadi olungeleleneyo kumxholo womtshato. Oku akuthethi nje kuphela ukuba baya kutshata, kodwa ibifikeleleka kwaye ilungile.
Babenendawo yokutyela eyayibabeke ngokwabo kunye nohambo oluya kwivenkile yedonut yendawo kunye nevenkile ekufuphi.
Ngaphandle koku, ibingaziva ngathi ayibizi. Kwakukho nesitampu xa kubhengezwa ukhetho lwe-gluten-free kunye vegan. I-FYI, ndikhethe i-burger "yenkomo okanye ingabi yinyama". Kwaye ndinayo yonke ipapa. Inqaku.
7. Yayilitheko
Kuxhomekeke kwisibini ngasinye ukubhiyozela umtshato wabo ngendlela abakhethe ngayo, ke mhlawumbi andizukugweba kancinci. Ngaphandle kokuba lo mtshato wawuyinyani. Umbhiyozo.
Phakathi kwee-cocktails ezinemixholo, uluhlu lokudlalwayo olucwangciswe ngononophelo, kunye neenkomfa ezininzi ze-impromptu ezazisolula zijikeleze indawo, yayiliqela lokwenyani.
Amava am emitshato liqela labantu abalusizi abahleliyo nabenza intetho encinci ngelixa u-DJ ezama ukukhuthaza abantu ukuba badanise ngee-2000s ezimbi ezibethwayo ezingathandwa mntu.
Endaweni yoko, abatshakazi bacwangcise uluhlu lokudlala olucokisekileyo kwaye eyona ndoda ibalaseleyo yenze ixesha ukuya kumzuzu njengesipho sayo kubo. Ingoma yokugqibela igqityiwe njengoko indawo ivaliwe.
Ngaphandle kokuba ngumtshato ongaqhelekanga, safumana umdaniso wokuqala wesiqhelo kunye nezikhukula zezinyembezi. Kwakungumbhiyozo wokwenene ngokubanzi.
8. Amasiko
Amasiko athetha izinto ezahlukeneyo kubantu abohlukeneyo.
Abanye abantu baphupha ngengubo emhlophe eqhelekileyo, hamba ezantsi kuba bebancinci. Kum, izithethe ezininzi zinamazwi aphantsi ezesini. Ukusuka "ekunikezeni" umtshakazi, uye kwilokhwe emhlophe "yobuntombi" ukuya "ekukhonzeni" umyeni wakho omtsha nokuthatha igama lakhe.
Lo mtshato wawungahambi ezantsi enqanaweni, endaweni yoko bangena egumbini kunye. Akukho tata 'wabanika' abatshakazi, endaweni yoko, bajonge kwaye bazama ukungakrazuli. Olunye usapho lwalungakholelwa kubukho bukaThixo.
Oku kuziva kunentlonipho kwiintsapho nakubantu abanyanisekileyo ngokwenkolo. Amasiko ayejijekile kwaye atshintshwa ukuze athethe kakhulu kubo bobabini abatshakazi.
Ukugcina isithethe ngenxa yesiko kunokuba yityhefu ngokupheleleyo kwaye wenze umtshato uzive uyadika kwaye usemgangathweni.
9. Inkcitho
£ 50 ngentloko. I- £ 10 ngeponti yebhiya. Sonke siye kwimitshato enjalo. Ndihlala ndizibuza ukuba ingaba esi sibini sonwabe ngenene nge- $ 20k + abayichitha kwindawo.
Lo mtshato wagcina iindleko ziphantsi, kodwa zange uzive unganeno. Phakathi kokulungiselela umqeqeshi ukuhambisa iindwendwe, kunye nabahlobo abanikezela ngeesofa, ngoko ke akukho mntu kwakufuneka atyhafise ngokungafuni ehotele, umtshato waziva ukhululekile kwaye ufikeleleka. Baxhasa iivenkile zabo zokunceda ngokuthenga iincwadi ezingamasekeni ukuze babanike njengemitshato.
Baqesha ibha ye-cabaret yendawo kwaye bagcina amaxabiso esiselo efikeleleka. Yonke into yaziva ifikeleleka kwaye ixhasa.
Konke kungothando nokuhloniphana
Xa ndijonga ngasemva, zonke izibini ezisempilweni nezonwabisayo endizaziyo zinemitshato engaqhelekanga.Esinye isibini sitshatile sinxibe iimpahla ezintle, ngelixa elinye ligqibe ekubeni lingene kwiofisi yobhaliso endleleni eya eBotswana.
Lo mtshato wawukhethekile, kwaye kungengenxa yokuba wawuyi-LGBT. Ikwazile ukutyeshela isiko ngelixa ivakalelwa ngokwesiko. Yaziva isondele, isondele kwaye inzulu kakhulu. Lo yayingengomtshato kuphela owawenzelwe ukuba ubekhona kwiifoto kwimithombo yeendaba zentlalo. Lo yayingumbhiyozo osemthethweni wothando phakathi kwabantu ababini.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, konke malunga nothando kunye nentlonipho oziva ngayo omnye komnye. Khumbula! Umtshato yipati. Ngumbhiyozo wokuthanda umntu kakhulu oya kuzibophelela kuye ubomi bonke. Ukuba iifoto zakho kunye nebhodi yePinterest zibaluleke kakhulu kuwe, ngaba kufanelekile ukuba utshate?
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, unokwenza izithethe zakho.