Umxholo
- Udibene ngengozi
- Ufuna izinto ezifanayo
- Uziva ukhululekile kwangoko
- Sele ninikele ingqalelo komnye nomnye
- Niyonwabele kunye
Ngaba uthando lweholide lunokuhlala ngokwenene? Ubulumko obamkelweyo buthi hayi. Thatha uthando lweholide kwaye ungeze amatyala, ukuhamba uye kusebenza ngeentsuku ezibandayo, kunye noxinzelelo lobomi bakho obuqhelekileyo, kwaye iya kuphuma iphume njengamakhandlela owakhanyisileyo ngobo busuku elunxwemeni.
Kodwa ngaba ukuthanda iholide kuhlala kufuneka kuphele?
Ngelixa kuyinyani ukuba uthando oluninzi lweholide lushiyeke ngobo busuku basehlotyeni, ezinye zazo zinokujika zibe yinto enzulu kakhulu - cela nje uSandy noDanny eGrease!
Jonga le miqondiso yokuba uthando lwakho lweholide lwenzelwe ukuba luhlale.
Udibene ngengozi
Iholide lithuba elihle lokuzonwabisa kunye nokudlala ngothando. Akukho nto igwenxa kuloo nto ukuba uya kuyo uvule amehlo, kwaye uphambili kumaqabane akho ongakhange ujonge nantoni na enzulu.
Amathuba kukuba xa useta ukufumana into engaqhelekanga, uya kudibana nabanye abantu abafuna into efanayo. Kumnandi- kodwa akusebenzeli ubudlelwane obunzulu.
Ukuba kwelinye icala udibana nabo ngelixa nobabini nilindele ukubhukisha indawo kuhambo ngesikhephe ujikeleze izibuko okanye uthathe isigqibo sokuba ukhethe ntoni kwimenyu yokutya yaselwandle emnandi yasekhaya, kukho ithuba elininzi lokujika libe yinto enzulu.
Ukuba ubungakhange ukhangele nantoni na, kodwa udibene nje kwaye ucofa ngokwendalo, ubudlelwane bakho bunokuhlala buhleli.
Ufuna izinto ezifanayo
Ukuba seholideyini kumnandi kakhulu. Esona sigqibo sibaluleke kakhulu ekufuneka usenzile kunye yindawo yokutya ngobo busuku okanye yeyiphi i-cocktail oza kuqala kuyo. Kodwa kuthekani ngokubuya kwihlabathi lokwenyani? Ithemba lakho elizayo kunye nezicwangciso zejeli?
Ukuba nobabini ninomdla wokuhamba, umnqweno wokuphila ubomi begcisa kweso sixeko sinye benisoloko nifuna ukufudukela kuso, okanye iphupha labantwana abayi-2,5 kunye nendlu emnandi edolophini, niya kulunga qalisa.
Iinjongo ekwabelwana ngazo kwikamva luphawu lokuba xa iholide iphelile, uya kuba nokuninzi ngokufanayo. Ayisiyonjongo yeenjongo, nokuba. Jonga amaxabiso akho asisiseko kwaye ubone ukuba zininzi kangakanani izinto ezifanayo - ukuba ufumana umhlaba omninzi okwabelwana ngawo, oku kunokuba yinto ekhethekileyo.
Uziva ukhululekile kwangoko
Uthando oluninzi lweholide olujika lube yinto ngakumbi luqala ngala "nqakraza" ungathandabuzekiyo. Ukususela kumzuzu owadibana ngawo, ubunokuthetha ngayo nantoni na nangayo yonke into. Uhleke kwa ezo zinto. Uyazi nje ukuba bakufumene.
Ukuba ukuchitha ixesha kunye uziva ungokwemvelo ngokupheleleyo nangona beningazani, naka ingqalelo. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba awukhathali ukuvumela icala lakho lokujikeleza libajikeleze, okanye awukhathali nokuba iinwele zakho azifezekanga, luphawu oluhle lokuba udibene kakuhle.
Ukuziva ngathi sele nazana ngonaphakade luphawu oluhle lokuqala lokuba kungakho intlantsi yokwenene phakathi kwenu nobabini.
Sele ninikele ingqalelo komnye nomnye
Izenzo zithetha kakhulu kunamazwi, kwaye kuyinyani xa kuziwa kwizithandane zekhefu, nazo.
Ngaba bakhumbula isiselo sakho osithandayo emva komyalelo omnye? Ngaba ubuyile waya kubathengela eso sikhumbuzo sikhethekileyo ubusazi ukuba basifuna ngokwenene? Ngaba uthatha ixesha ukujonga ukuba wenza njani omnye?
Ukuba sele uthathela ingqalelo into ebalulekileyo, indlela abavakalelwa ngayo kunye nento abayifunayo, sele unonxibelelwano olukhathalayo. Esi sinokuba sisiseko esinamandla sento ethile eqhubeka ngaphaya kokuphuma kwehotele yokugqibela.
Niyonwabele kunye
Ngokwenyani ukuba kunye nomnye kunye kubalulekile ukuba nabuphi na ubudlelwane buqhubeke. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuxabisa imizimba yabo eselunxwemeni okanye ukubetha kwamehlo aluhlaza, kodwa ukuzifumana zilula emehlweni akusosiseko sobudlelwane bexesha elide.
Uthando oluninzi lweholide lwakhiwe malunga nokudlala ngothando kunye nokwabelana ngesondo. Kumnandi kakhulu, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha yile nto uyifunayo kwiholide yeholide. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuninzi. Ufumanisa ukuba ungathetha ubusuku bonke. Uyakuthanda ukuba nabo nokuba wenza into elula njengokubeka echibini. Ungaphulukana nokuthula cwaka kwaye wonwabele ukubukela ulwandle okanye uphonononge idolophu yasekhaya kunye.
Ukuba ubathanda nyhani ukuba ngoobani kunye nezinto abazimeleyo, unokuba nesiqalo sento ekhethekileyo. Ukuba ukubangqongileyo kukukhanyisa ngenene nokuba wenza ntoni, amathuba okuba uya kuba mkhulu kunye xa ubuyela esiqhelweni, nawo.
Uthando lweholide alunakuphela xa upakisha umthwalo wakho ukugoduka. Ukuba unxibelelwano lokwenyani kwaye ngaphezulu kweholide yakho ngokufanayo, kutheni ungathethi nabo malunga nokuvuselela idangatye emva kokuba ugodukile? Unokufumana nje ngesikhumbuzo esingalibalekiyo!