Umxholo
- Ndiziva ndingahoywanga
- Umnqweno olahlekileyo
- Ubomi beMundane
- Ubomi besini obufileyo
- Okulindelweyo
- Ukuhlawula
- Ukuqhuba ngesondo
Ukuba kubudlelwane okanye ukuthandwa ngumntu ngowona mvakalelo ulungileyo kwihlabathi liphela. Unomntu okhethekileyo okuthandayo kwaye uyakubona ukukhula kwakho. Sonke sifuna ukuba kulwalamano olunjalo. Nangona kunjalo, ayinguye wonke umntu ofumana into ayinqwenelayo.
Kukho amaxesha apho elinye lamaqabane likhohlisa. Ukukopa ngomnye wamaqabane kungabutshabalalisa ubuhle bolwalamano kwaye kushiye ixhoba linenxeba lokuphila ngalo bonke ubomi balo.
Ngelixa sinokuthi ngesiqhelo amadoda ayaqhatha, ngamanye amaxesha akwindawo ekufumaneni kuyo. Ewe, abafazi banako ukukopela kwaye banokwaphula isiseko sobudlelwane, esithembekileyo kunye nokunyaniseka.
Uluhlu olungezantsi zezinye izizathu eziqhelekileyo zokuba kutheni amantombazana ekopa kubudlelwane
Ndiziva ndingahoywanga
Kusemthethweni kubantu abathandanayo ukufuna ingqalelo. Bafuna ukuba abo babathandayo babaphulaphule, babenabo kwaye beme ecaleni kwabo kumaxesha amnandi namabi. Nangona kunjalo, xa omnye wabo ebandakanyeka kakhulu kubomi babo bobuchwephesha, omnye uziva engahoywanga.
Xa abasetyhini befumana amadoda abo echitha ixesha elininzi ngaphandle kwendlu okanye enika ukubaluleka kubomi babo bobuchwephesha, imvakalelo yokungahoywa iyacaca.
Oku, ukuba kuyaqhubeka kangangexesha elide, umntu unokungayiqondi, kodwa iya kukhokelela ekukhohliseni. Amadoda anokuyiphepha le nto ukuba bayaqinisekisa ukuba banika ingqalelo enqwenelekayo kwezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo. Kuya kufuneka benze abafazi babo bazive bebodwa kwaye bethandwa, kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Umnqweno olahlekileyo
Ukuthanda umntu kunokuqala ubudlelwane kodwa umntu ufuna ukuthanda ukuyiqhuba. Ngumnqweno, yimincili egcina iintlantsi ziphila, nokuba kunjani. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha, xa izinto zibonakala zilungile ngaphandle, zichasene ngokupheleleyo ngaphakathi.
Njengamadoda, abantu basetyhini bayaphambuka kubudlelwane babo ukuba inkanuko iyafa kancinci. Imincili ilahlekile kwaye umnqweno wokuba kunye nomntu uhambile. Olu thando lilahlekileyo lubenza bajonge ukubengezela ngaphandle kolwalamano lwabo.
Baqala ukukhangela amadoda anokugcina ukuthanda kwawo kuthandwa kuphila. Kungenxa yoko le nto amantombazana ekopa naxa esothandweni.
Ubomi beMundane
Sonke sinokunqwenela ukuphila ubomi obonwabisayo kodwa akukho mntu ufuna ukuba lixhoba lobomi bemihla ngemihla. Yenza umsebenzi ofanayo imihla ngemihla, imihla ngemihla. Uthando lusekhona kodwa akukho nto ingaqhelekanga okanye isimanga eshiyekileyo.
Omnye umntu ufana nencwadi evulekileyo kwaye izinto ziya kuqikelelwa. Kulapho umnqweno wokuba uphume ngaphandle kokukhaba kwesiqhelo kwaye abasetyhini baphela bekopela amaqabane abo.
Ubomi besini obufileyo
Yinyani! Ukwabelana ngesondo yinxalenye yobudlelwane. Oko kugcina uthando luphila kunye nomnqweno wokuhlala nomntu usasebenza. Nangona kunjalo, ixesha elingaphezulu, sonke sibandakanyeka kakhulu kubomi bethu kangangokuba ubomi bezesondo buthatha isihlalo esingasemva.
Ubomi bokuncipha kwesondo buvela njengesizathu sokuziva ungacacanga kunye nokuqwalaselwa kubudlelwane. Abasetyhini, ukuba bayahluthwa, baya kuqala ukuyikhangela ngaphandle kobudlelwane kwaye kuya kukhokelela ekubeni bakope.
Okulindelweyo
Kucacile ukuba ulindele ubudlelwane.
Abantu bafuna ukuba amaqabane abo achithe ixesha elithile nabo. Nangona kunjalo, kubomi banamhlanje obuxakekileyo, kunzima ukuthatha ixesha. Ezi zinto ziyimfuneko emva koko zibonakala zilindelwe kakhulu liqabane kwaye kancinci zijika umthwalo.
Ngokufanayo, lowo ufuna la maxesha amancinci amnandi uziva eshiywe yedwa. Bona, ngokuthe ngcembe, baqala ukujonga ngaphandle kobudlelwane babo kwaye ekugqibeleni bagqibela ngokukhohlisa abo babathandayo. Oku, kwiimeko ezininzi, sesona sizathu siphambili sokuba kutheni amantombazana ekopa kubudlelwane.
Ukuhlawula
Ayiyiyo yonke iminwe elingana. Kungenzeka ukuba amadoda akhohlisile kwixa elidlulileyo kwaye abaleke engabanjwanga.
Ngamanye amaxesha, bayemka nayo kwaye bathabathe le mfihlakalo incinci bayise engcwabeni labo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukungcola kwabo okudlulileyo kuyavela kwaye kubangele isidubedube kubomi babo bangoku.
Ukuba imfihlo yabo ityhiliwe ngokuqinisekileyo abasetyhini baya kuziphindezela. Nangona, zininzi iindlela zokuziphindezela, abasetyhini banokucinga ngokukhohlisa ukuvumela omnye obalulekileyo ukuba ahambe kwintlungu efanayo abadlule kuyo.
Ingangabonakali iyinto elungileyo, kodwa iyafuneka ngamanye amaxesha.
Ukuqhuba ngesondo
Ewe, abasetyhini bayabelana ngesondo. Banesondo kwaye bahlala behlala bengonelisekanga ngokwesondo. Idrive ibatyhalela kwinqanaba apho bafuna abanye ngaphaya kobudlelwane babo obuqhelekileyo.
Kwilizwe elilawulayo eliyindoda oku kunokuvakala kuyinto ehlekisayo kwaye engalindelekanga kubafazi, kodwa oku kuqhelekile. Ukuba kulwalamano olunjalo okanye hayi umnxeba kabani.
Kuphosakele ukukopa xa ulwalamano, kodwa kunokubakho izizathu ezahlukeneyo emva kwako. Kuhlala kucetyiswa ukuba sazi isizathu, jonga ukuba ingathintelwa kwaye uthathe isigqibo esifanelekileyo.
Akusoloko amadoda ekopela, nkqu nabafazi bayakopa ngenxa yezi zizathu sele zikhankanyiwe.