Umxholo
- Uthando lobuntwana luhlala luyinyani
- Isindululo
- Amalungiselelo omtshato
- Ekugqibeleni, usuku lomtshato!
- Iingcebiso ezivela kuJessica osanda kutshata
Uthando woyisa bonke ubunzima, woyisa yonke imiqobo, kunye neziphumo zokwenza naliphi na elinye igunya akunakwenzeka ~ William Godwin
Ubudlelwane phakathi kwengxaki ye-COVID-19 ngokungathandabuzekiyo buhamba ngemiceli mngeni eyahlukeneyo- ngakumbi xa kufikwa kumba wokucinga ngokutsha ngezicwangciso zomtshato.
Ngaba oku kufanele kuchaphazele ubudlelwane bakho? Ngokuqinisekileyo akunjalo!
Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ungatshata njani ngeli xesha linzima, funda kunye nebali lomtshato elibonakalayo kaJessica Hocken kunye noNathan Allen ezenzeke phakathi kwezithintelo zokutshixa.
I-saga yabo yomtshato ebonakalayo iyinkuthazo kubo bonke abo bakhuthazwayo ukoyisa le meko.
Uthando lobuntwana luhlala luyinyani
Ngomhla wamashumi amabini ananye ku-Matshi 2020, yayingumhla apho abathandekayo besikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, uJessica Hocken kunye noNathan Allen, benothando oluninzi emehlweni abo, bathetha la magama mabini omlingo athi 'ndiyayenza' kwiintlango ezomileyo zaseArizona.
Indawo ebebeyibhukishe ekuqaleni ibingafumaneki kwaye umsitho womtshato awenzekanga ngendlela ababecinga ngayo.
Kwaye okwangoku, wonke umcimbi uye wavela ungakholeki, bobabini abasandul 'ukutshata besithi ngekhe kube kukuthandana ngakumbi
Isindululo
Kwakungo-Meyi ka-2019, xa iintaka zothando zazihambe zenyuka intaba kwicala lolwandle eSeattle, kwaye uNathan wehla ngedolo ukwenza isindululo kuJessica.
Ukuthetha neMarriage.com, uJessica wabiza amava 'njengesindululo esifanelekileyo seminyaka eliwaka.' Nangona wayesazi ukuba yenzelwe ukuba yenzeke ngenye imini, wayengayilindelanga ngelo xesha.
Kwaye ngokucacileyo yayingu "Ewe" kuye!
UJessica ekubeni 'ngumntu ohamba-hamba,' wahamba nocwangco olubanzi lomtshato kwangoko xa esi sibini sabuyela eArizona.
Indawo yakhethwa, kwaye umhla womtshato wagqitywa ngoMatshi 21, 2020 kwiklabhu yelizwe eScottsdale, eArizona.
Amalungiselelo omtshato
Ngoluhlu lweendwendwe olulungiselelwe nguJessica kunye noNathan, babelane ngezimemo zabo nezihlobo kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo ngoSeptemba 2019.
Ingxaki ye-COVID-19 yayingekakheki kwintlekele yehlabathi namhlanje, kwaye isibini sasibhaptiziwe kumalungiselelo omtshato.
UJessica wayememe abatshakazi abathandathu, omnye wabo wayehlala eHong Kong. Kwakumalunga noJanuwari xa umolokazana waseHong Kong wabelana ngamabali akhe okutshixwa kwaye waxela kwangaphambili ukuba ngekhe akwazi ukuya emtshatweni.
NgoJanuwari waqengqeleka, kwaye kungoko ke apho iimeko zokuqala ezimbalwa zeCoronavirus zaqala ukufunyanwa eMelika.
Nangona esi sibini besisazi ukuba uloyiko lweCoronavirus luza, ngokuqinisekileyo bebengazange babucinge ubungakanani bempembelelo eya kuba nayo emhlabeni.
Njengoko umhla womtshato wawusondela, malunga neveki eseleyo, iArizona yaqala ukuvala.
Imitshato ibinokwenzeka kodwa iindibano bekufanele zilinganiselwe kubantu abangama-50 kuphela.
UJessica noNathan babecebe umtshato osondeleyo, ke ngoko bagqiba kwelokuba baqhubeke nezicwangciso zabo zokuqala.
Kwiintsuku ezintlanu ngaphambi komtshato wabo, indawo yabo ebibhukishwe kwangaphambili yarhoxiswa kubo. Kwiintsuku ezimbini kuphela ngaphambi komtshato, uJessica noNathan bahlaziya abahlobo babo kunye nosapho malunga nophuhliso olungalindelekanga.
UJessica uthe, “Nangona besicinga ngokuhlehlisa, ngenqanaba lokungaqiniseki, sicinge ukuba kungcono ukutshata kunjalo. Kuphela nje besingazi ukuba njani, nini, phi! ”
Bagcina izimemo zivulekile. Kodwa, ngokuthintelwa kohambo kunye nemibhiyozo, esi sibini besisazi ukuba uninzi lwazo ngekhe lube nakho ukwenza oko.
Kulapho esi sibini sagqiba ekubeni siye emtshatweni kwi-Intanethi. Umtshato obonakalayo wawucwangciselwe ukuba abahlobo babo kunye nosapho babeyinxalenye yomtshato wabo ngexesha lokutshixa.
Nangona kunjalo, bonke ababemenyiwe babesiqonda kwaye basixhasa isigqibo sesibini sokutshata.
Ekugqibeleni, usuku lomtshato!
Ngaphandle komtshato ungenzeki ngendlela ababecinge ngayo aba babini, bahlala bephakamile emoyeni.
Indawo entsha yomtshato yayikwintlango yaseArizona, akukho mzuzu kude nendlu yabazali bakaJessica. Wayengazange aqaphele ukuba indawo akhulele kuyo intle kwaye ifanelekile ukusingatha umtshato wakhe!
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, wafika umhla xa yonke into yawela endaweni yayo. Ngabo bonke abathengisi abaxhasayo, indawo yomtshato yayihonjiswe ngomhombiso othandekayo weentyatyambo.
UJessica wayebukeka emangalisa kwisinxibo sakhe somtshato esithandekayo esivela kwi-Essense yase-Australia enconywa yizinwele ezifanelekileyo kunye nokwenza izambatho nguMonique Flores. UNathan, enxibe isuti entle eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, wagcwalisa umtshakazi omhle.
"Ngeentombi ezimbini zomyeni kunye nabathandathu abathandana, uNathan wayejongeka njenge diva," wahleka uJessica xa wayethetha ngamava akhe.
Kwaye, ngendawo entle eyomileyo yaseArizona ngasemva, esi sibini sagqibela ngokufunda izifungo zabo zomtshato. Umphathi, uDee Norton, owayeqhelene nesiko lokuzila ukutya ngesandla, wanceda esi sibini ngomsitho womtshato.
UJessica kunye noNathan babenosapho kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo ukuba baye emtshatweni, ababandakanya abazali babo kunye nomakhulu kaJessica.
Babenomtshato omileyo ukuze kugcinwe umgama wentlalontle kwaye kugcinwe wonke umntu ekhuselekile kusulelo lweCoronavirus.
Kwaye, kwakungokufowuna ividiyo ye-Zoom ukuba umntakwabo Jessica eChicago, umninawa kaNathan eDallas, kunye nabanye ababemenyiwe phantse kuzo zonke iindawo zase-US, baya kumtshato wabo kwi-Intanethi.
Emva kokuba esi sibini sitywinile isibophelelo sabo saphakade ngoqabulo olunomdla, uJessica kunye noNathan banikwa iminqweno yentliziyo kunye neentsikelelo kwiseshoni yoSondeza.
Esi sibini emva koko samkelwa kamnandi emva kwendlu endlwini yabazali bakaJessica, kwaye utata kaNathan wenza ukhangelo lokuqala lwe-duo.
Xa kwenziwe ilayisensi yomtshato kwangaphambili, esi sibini sasingenasizathu sokukhathazeka kwaye sasinomtshato osemthethweni ongenasiphelo.
Ke, ngaphandle kwako konke ukungahambelani, ngothando nenkxaso evela kubahlobo nakwintsapho yabo, uJessica noNathan babenowona msitho womtshato ungaphaya komtshato ababewucinga.
Iingcebiso ezivela kuJessica osanda kutshata
UJessica nomyeni wakhe balandela zonke izikhokelo ezibekwe ngurhulumente kwaye bathobela imigaqo yokuphambuka eluntwini kwaye babenomtshato okhuselekileyo okhuselekileyo.
Kwabo basazibuzayo- ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba batshate kwi-Intanethi ngexesha lokungaqiniseki kwesifo seCoronavirus, uJesica uneengcebiso ezincinci kwizibini eziziva zibambeke kwisaqhwithi somoya wokungaqiniseki.
“Hlalani ninengqondo ephangaleleyo. Inkqubo ye- usuku lomtshato mhlawumbi ngekhe uhambe kanye ngendlela obucinga ngayo kodwa, ngamanye amaxesha iphela ingcono kunaleyo ubuya kuyicwangcisa ngenxa yovuyo olunyulu olujikeleze umtshatoidings. Kunzima kodwa kufanelekile,“utsho UJessica.
“Besilahlekile kumalungu osapho kumtshato wam okwi-intanethi njengobhuti wam ohlala eChicago (eyayiyindawo eneshushu) kunye nomntakwaboNathan ohlala eDallas kodwa bakwazi ukujoyina iZoom.
Uninzi lwabantu aluzange lukwazi ukuyenza kodwa kwakhona, ngumkhukula nje ekuseni, umzekelo, iintombi zam ezandithumela iividiyo zazo zinxibe ilokhwe, zibukele, okanye zilungiselela nam nangona bezikhona ilizwe elahlukileyo okanye ilizwe, lalichukumisa ngokwenene. Abantu bayayiqonda kakuhle imeko kwaye kutheni sifuna ukuqhubeka nokuqhubela phambili. Ndaziva ngathi iyandixhasa nyani, ”kwabelana uJessica.
Ngelixa ixesha lokuzahlula liqhubeka nokwandiswa, ibali likaJessica liphakathi kwabanye abaninzi abakhetha ukutshata kwi-Intanethi okanye kwimitshato ebonakalayo njengendlela yokuvumela uthando lukhulule ngeli xesha lobunzima. I-Marriage.com yandisa iminqweno yayo emihle kubo bonke abatshatileyo kwaye sinethemba lokuba ngala mabali, abanye banokufumana ithemba elifunekayo kwimitshato yabo.
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