Umxholo
- Amadoda ayathanda ukujonga
- Qonda ingqondo ebangelwe yi testosterone
- Ke kuthetha ntoni "ukujonga"?
- Oko "ukujonga" akuthethi:
- Kutheni amadoda ejonga abanye abantu basetyhini
- Kuqala nini ukuba yingxaki oku?
- Ungajongana njani nalo mbandela?
Yiba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni woku: Uhleli nomntu wakho kwindawo yokutyela unexesha elimnandi, kwaye ngequbuliso kudlula umfazi onxibe iimpahla ezimdaka, kwaye uyayiqaphela indoda yakho ithambekise intloko ukuze ijonge iimpundu zayo nesifuba sayo.
Ndiqinisekile ukuba le meko ayiqhelekanga emfazini.
Wonke umfazi ubambe indoda yakhe okanye isoka lakhe lisenza oku. Ngequbuliso uzaliswa kukudlamka kweemvakalelo, umona, iintlungu, umsindo kunye nokungazithembi. Imibuzo iqala ukuhamba entlokweni yakho; ngaba uyamthanda ngakumbi? Ngaba uyamfuna? Ngaba uyafuna ukulala naye? Uyandishiya?
Amadoda ayathanda ukujonga
Le meko iqhelekileyo liphupha elibi labasetyhini. Kwaye amadoda ayathanda ukujonga. Ewe ukuba unale mibuzo ibaleka engqondweni yakho kwaye ikonakalise usuku lwakho, silapha ukukunceda.
Qhubeka ufunda kwaye ufumanise ukuba kwenzeka ntoni entlokweni yendoda xa ijonge omnye umfazi xa intombazana yayo ikufutshane nayo.
Qonda ingqondo ebangelwe yi testosterone
Kwilizwe lendoda, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba indoda ijonge abafazi. Kungokwemvelo ukuba ajonge abanye abantu basetyhini ngelixa bekwi ubudlelwane. Kungenxa yokuba inkcazo yabo yokuba inkangeleko ithetha ntoni yahlukile kwinkcazo yabasetyhini.
Ke kuthetha ntoni "ukujonga"?
- Ufumanisa ukuba intombazana inomdla (ngokwasemzimbeni)
- Xa wabona le ntombazana, ezinye iikhemikhali zakhutshwa kwingqondo yakhe, kwaye loo nto yamgcwalisa ngolonwabo.
- Inxalenye yakhe iyamfuna kwaye iyazibuza ukuba ingayintoni kodwa ngendlela engenatyala kwaphela.
Oku kujongeka kufana nokubonakala komfazi kunika uDenzel Washington okanye uGeorge Clooney.
Oko "ukujonga" akuthethi:
- Ufumanisa ukuba intombazana intle kunawe
- Akonwabanga kukuzibophelela nawe kwakhona
- Akasavuyi nawe
- Akasenamdla kuwe okanye emzimbeni wakho
- Awusenelisi iimfuno zakhe
- Awungu ____ (ubhityile, unomdla, uyatshisa, unothando, njl.) Akwanele kuye
- Akathembekanga kuwe
- Kufuneka ube uyamcaphukisa okanye umonele okanye ungazithembi ngomzimba wakho
- Ulwalamano lwakho luphelile.
Ukubeka ngokulula, ukujonga kwakhe kwintombazana akunanto yakwenza nawe
Ihlabathi linezinto ezintle ezifana neelwandle, ukutshona kwelanga kunye neentyatyambo. Kodwa njengokujonga ezi zinto akukwenzi ukuba ungathandeki ngokufanayo ukujonga umfazi akukwenzi ukuba ungathandeki.
Kutheni amadoda ejonga abanye abantu basetyhini
Kumadoda, unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo kunye nomtsalane wesini asihambi kunye.
Banokutsalwa ngumfazi kuphela kwinqanaba lomzimba kwaye bavulwe ngaphandle kokuziva naluphi na uhlobo lonxibelelwano okanye ukuhambelana naye.
Abasetyhini banomdla ngakumbi kumadoda ngokusekwe kwinqanaba lokuziqhelanisa.
Unxibelelwano oluthe kratya kunye nolwazelelelo abanalo nalo mfo, kokukhona betsala ngakumbi. Nangona kunjalo, amadoda anomdla kwinto entsha. Batsalwa zizinto ezintsha kunye neempawu ezahlukeneyo kunye neentlobo zomzimba.
Amadoda anokuba ziintloko-zentloko ezithendeni zithandana neqabane lawo kwaye abe etsala umntu odlula kwitafile yabo yesidlo sangokuhlwa.
Kuqala nini ukuba yingxaki oku?
Ngelixa kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba amadoda aqaphele abanye abantu basetyhini kwaye awathande, kukho umgca wentlonipho indoda ethembekileyo neqolileyo engayi kuwela.
Ukujonga kuye yenye into, kwaye ukujonga yenye into. Ukujongela phantsi kunokuba neentloni kwaye kuyacaphukisa.
Njengoko intombazana idlula apho kuya kubakho ukutshintsha kwamehlo okomzuzwana, kodwa njengoko intombazana idlula, iyakuphela. Ukuba indoda yakho iyaqhubeka nokujika intloko ibuye umva kwaye ijonge ngakumbi nangakumbi kunokuba kunokuba yingxaki. Ukujongela ecaleni, udlulise amagqabantshintshi angafanelekanga, ukudlala ngothando, ukuchukumisa kunye nokukhohlisa ezinye zeeflegi ezibomvu ekufuneka uzikhangele.
Le miqondiso ibonisa ukuba indoda yakho ayikakhuli kwaye ihloniphekile ngokwaneleyo ukuba izilawule okanye ayihloniphi ngokwaneleyo. Olu hlobo lokuziphatha lunokubonakalisa ubomi bakho kwaye alubonisi kakuhle ngekamva lobuhlobo bakho.
Ungajongana njani nalo mbandela?
Njengamadoda akhankanyiweyo anomkhwa wokujonga. Nangona kunjalo, ukuzinqanda ungazicingeli kakhulu kuya kufuneka uphephe ukucinga. Kuphephe ukufunda kakhulu kwingxaki. Khumbula ukuba kuthetha ntoni kwaye akuyi ntoni.
Ukujonga nje akuthethi ukuba uyakungcatsha.
Khumbula ukuba kubo bonke abafazi ebomini bakhe wakhetha wena. ukhetha ukuba uhlale kunye nothando kwaye uze ekhaya yonke imihla. Ke yithi ntle ngokungazithembi kwaye ukuba le nto iyakukhathaza kakhulu thetha neqabane lakho ngayo.