Umxholo
- Chitha yonke imizuzwana kunye
- 2.Lindela ukuba lonke uhambo luya kuba luthando
- 3. Sukwenza ixesha lothando
- 4. Ukuxoxa ngemali
- 5. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kumlingane wakho
- 6. Ukuwela kwisiqhelo
- 7. Zahlule
- 8. Ukukhalaza ngokungapheliyo
- 9. Ukulinda uhambo lobomi bakho
Ngaba ucinga ngoku uhamba neqabane lakho? Oko iqabane lam kunye nam saqala ubudlelwane bethu kwi-2018, sihambe kakhulu kunye.
Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa sobabini sisebenzile senza iprojekthi enye ngokudibeneyo, kwaye sinikwe izibane ukuba sazi into ongafanele uyenze xa uhamba neqabane lakho (kubandakanya nohambo lobomi).
Okwangoku sihamba kwaye sisebenza kunye, kwaye singatsho ukuba ukuhamba yenye yezo zinto zikusa kwizimo ezingaqhelekanga kunye neqabane lakho kwaye zikwenza uchithe ixesha elimangalisayo kwaye ungabi nalo nexesha elimangalisayo.
Kungaba lula ukukhathazeka kunye nokuphikisana, nokuba usenza into eyonwabisayo kwaye inomdla njengokuhamba. Nangona kunjalo, imiceli mngeni ye uhamba neqabane lakho okokuqala uhlala unciphisa xa uqala ukuhamba neqabane lakho rhoqo.
Ewe, ukuhamba kunokuba noxinzelelo. Awusikholelwa thina? Jonga usapho oluqhelekileyo kwiDisney yeHlabathi, kwaye uyakubona ukuba, nakwindawo eyonwabileyo emhlabeni, abantwana bayangxola kwaye abazali bajonge boyike; aba bantu bakumgwebo wabo wokugqibela.
Kodwa akufuneki ibenjalo. Ewe kuya kubakho amahla ndinyuka, kodwa ukuba ubeke umgudu omncinci ekuboniseni olona hlobo lwakho lubalaseleyo kwaye uphephe imikhwa emibi, wena neqabane lakho ninokwenza kakuhle.
Ukukunceda ekulungiseleleni uhambo lwenu njengesibini kunye nokonwabela izibonelelo ngokudibeneyo, ezi ziingcebiso ezili-9 zoku usinde ekuhambeni neqabane lakho kunye nezinto ongazenzi xa uhamba njengesibini.
Chitha yonke imizuzwana kunye
Into oyivileyo ngaphezu kwesihlandlo esinye kwaye ongafanele uyenze xa uhamba neqabane lakho kukuchitha ixesha kunye. Yi hayi efunekayo ukuze nibe kunye kuhambo lwakho iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku, iintsuku ezisixhenxe ngeveki.
Nokuba nguwe kuphela hamba neqabane lakho kangangeveki, qiniseka ukuthatha ixesha kube kanye (ngokufanelekileyo yonke imihla) ukuba wedwa. Oko akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka uchithe usuku lonke bodwa, kodwa kufuneka uzenzele ixesha.
Siyiva le iphindaphindwe (ukuthanda wena! Inkathalo yobuqu!) Kodwa konke oko kuthetha ukuthatha ixesha lokunxibelelana nawe, iimfuno zakho kunye zihlaziye kwakhona.
Le ngcebiso ilungileyo ngakumbi ukuba omnye okanye bobabini bangabangenisi. Ngaba kukho ukulungelelanisa okugqibeleleyo? Chitha iiyure ezingama-2-3 uwedwa ngemini enye yohambo lwakho, usenza into oyifunayo.
Yiyo loo nto xa sasikwiZiqithi zeSan Blas ePanama, ndandikonwabela ukwenza into yokuqhuba isinqanawa ndedwa kwinqanawa eyayitshonile, ngelixa yena wayehleli kwisaphetha ebukele.
2.Lindela ukuba lonke uhambo luya kuba luthando
Ungu uhamba neqabane lakho. Wonke umzuzu kufuneka ube ngumlilo, iinqaba kunye namaxesha ama-epic phezulu kwentaba, kunene? Ayichanekanga.
Ewe uza kuba namaxesha anjalo xa useluhambeni, kodwa yintoni ongafanele uyenze xa uhamba neqabane lakho Kukulindela ukuba yonke into ibe ntle.
Mzuzwana ngamnye wohambo lwakho awuyi kuba bubuhle kunye nothando kuba kunokwenzeka ukuba:
- Kukho iinqwelomoya ezilibazisekileyo
- Nokuba umntu uyalahleka
- Kukho ukuphazamiseka kolwimi
Zonke ezi zinto zinokufunxa uvuyo (singasathethi ke ngokubulala uthando). Ke sukuhamba kuhambo lwakho ulinde ulonwabo olunyulu nolungangxengwanga.
3. Sukwenza ixesha lothando
Ngesizathu esinye, nangona ungenakulindela uhamba neqabane lakho ukuba ube liqela lothando oluqhubekayo, kufanelekile ukuba ubenakho nwabele amaxesha okuthandana kunye.
Ayisoloko izwakala ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye inomdla, kodwa yinto ekufuneka uyenzile!
Ukuba umbono wakho wokuthandana yimva kwemini apho ukhetha ukucela inkonzo yasekamelweni kwaye uhlale ebhedini imini yonke okanye uhambo olukhethekileyo apho zimbini kuphela, cinga ngendlela yokwenza uhambo lwakho lwesibini lube mnandi kwaye lungalibaleki. Ezi zihlandlo zisondeleyo ziya kubonakala kwaye ziya kuba zezinye zeenkumbulo ezigcinwe kakuhle kuhambo lwakho.
4. Ukuxoxa ngemali
Ukuxabana malunga nemali yeyona nto imbi, yinto yokuqala ekufuneka ungayenzi xa uhamba neqabane lakho. Kwaye xa useholideyini, akufuneki nokuba uzise.
Kukho ukubakho ngaphandle koku ukuba uhamba njengeqabane lexesha elide. Ke, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kuvela ingxaki yemali, kwaye kuya kufuneka usebenze ukuze uzibophelele kwaye wenze uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali njengeqela.
Kodwa ukuba useholideyini elifutshane, zama ukuphepha iingxoxo zemali. Yiba nengxoxo enzulu ngaphambi kokuba uhambe malunga nento oceba ukuyisebenzisa kunye nalapho unokuchitha khona kwaye wenze uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali ngokudibeneyo.
5. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kumlingane wakho
Le ngcebiso yenzelwe ubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla, hayi nje ukuhamba njengesibini. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba kwilizwe langaphandle kwazisa indawo entsha kunye nabantu abatsha.
Ngokukodwa kwiindawo ezimbalwa zaseYurophu, amadoda athetha kakhulu ngokuxabisa kwabo ubuhle besetyhini.
Amadoda namakhwenkwe: sukuphakuzela okanye ulwe. Phantse rhoqo, oko akuthethi monakalo, kwaye impempe yabo yinto nje yokuncoma umfazi othandekayo omkhaphayo.
Kukwanjalo nakwabasetyhini. Indoda yakho inokuba inomdla kancinci malunga ne-blondes ende yaseScandinavia okanye iRussia, kodwa khumbula, weza apha nawe. Kuhambo lwabo kunye, kububulumko ukugxila komnye nomnye.
Akukho mntu kwaye ayikho enye into ebalulekileyo. Nguwe kuphela kunye neeholide ezintle. Sukuvumela ubugqwetha babanye abantu bonakalise uhambo lwakho.
6. Ukuwela kwisiqhelo
Oku akusebenzi kuphela izibini ezihamba ixesha elide. Nokuba uhamba nomlingane wakho okanye ekhaya, kunokuba lula kakhulu ukuwela kwisiqhelo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo le yinto akufuneki uyenze xa uhamba neqabane lakho, Kuphephe ukwenza oku kube yinto yesiqhelo. Ngelixa uhambo lunenzuzo yendalo: ihlala isongeza ukonwaba kunye nezinto ezintsha ebomini bakho.
Nangona kunjalo, iinkqubo ziba ngumkhwa. Elinye inqanaba lesiqhelo lilungile, kodwa musa ukubanjwa kubomi bemihla ngemihla kunye neshedyuli olibeleyo:
- ukuzenzekela
- ukuthandana
- kunye neempawu ezizodwa, ezincinci.
Zama ukushukumisa izinto phezulu Ubuncinane kanye ngeveki ... nantoni na oku kuthetha kuwe nakwiqabane lakho! ukuhamba neqabane lakho kunceda ukuba uphume kwinkqubo eyothusayo.
7. Zahlule
Ngoku kujongeka ngathi sizokuphikisana ngqo. Uhambo lunokuba malunga nawe nobabini kunye nolwalamano lwakho, kodwa ukhenketho luya kuphuculwa ukuba uyalandisa iqela lakho labantu ababini amaxesha ngamaxesha.
Iholide emfutshane okanye ukutshata unokuba ngaphandle ... ke kuyindalo kwaye kulindeleke ukuba ugxile kakhulu kwiqabane lakho.
Kodwa ukuba ubandakanyeka kukhenketho lwexesha elide, sukuzihlukanisa. Qiniseka ukuba thatha ixesha veki nganye ukuba ube noluntu. Zama ukudibana nezinye izibini. Yazi abantu nenkcubeko yabo.
Thatha inxaxheba kukhenketho lweqela lokuphisa ngotywala, kwiiklasi zokupheka, okanye nakukuhamba esixekweni. Ezi zinto ziya kuvula isangqa sakho kwaye zongeze ngakumbi kumava akho okuhamba. Ukwabelana ngamava amatsha neqabane lakho kubalulekile.
8. Ukukhalaza ngokungapheliyo
Kuyothusa xa iqabane elihambahambayo lingayeki. Oko kunciphisa isimilo ekwabelwana ngaso kwaye kunokucaphukisa iqabane lakho. Ukuba le ikhala ngentsimbi, zama ukugcina izikhalazo zakho ngaphakathi. Okanye kungcono, cinga ukucinga kwakho kwaye wenze umthambo olandelayo.
Ngalo lonke ixesha isikhalazo sifika engqondweni yakho, yitsho into oyonwabileyo okanye onombulelo ngayo ngokuvakalayo. Oku kuyakonyusa imeko yakho kwaye mhlawumbi kuncede iqabane lakho liziva likhululeke kakhulu. Musa ukwahlula uxanduva lwakho lokuhamba.
Kuhambo lwalo naluphi na ubude, kunokuba yinzuzo kuyo chonga imisebenzi yomntu ngamnye ehambelana nohambo. Into ongafanele uyenze xa uhamba neqabane lakho kukubeka lonke uxanduva lube lunye, kuba uya kuphela udana kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo usola into ethile.
Ukuba iqabane lakho liyazi ukuba unoxanduva lokuphatha iipaspoti, ngekhe kubekho "bendicinga ukuba ubazisile !!!!" kwisikhululo seenqwelomoya. Iqabane lakho liya kuba nakho ukuphumla ngokulula, lisazi ukuba elinye ilungu linolawulo.
Oku kunceda amalungu kunye ukufaka isandla kulwalamano ukwenza inkqubo ingabi luxinzelelo kuwo wonke umntu. Ngamafutshane, yenza ukuhamba nomlingane wakho amaxesha alishumi ngcono.
9. Ukulinda uhambo lobomi bakho
Into ongafanele uyenze xa uhamba neqabane lakho Gxila kuhambo lwakho kwiifoto ezintle oceba ukuzithatha, ukonwabele ukutshona kwelanga, jonga kwiqabane lakho, yazi indawo.
Siyakholelwa ukuba i-Instagram isinike ulindelo olungenangqondo malunga nokuhamba kakhulu neqabane lakho. Ngemifanekiso ekhethwe ngononophelo kunye neefoto ezicwangciswe kwangaphambili ukuya kweyona nkcukacha zincinci, kunokuba lula ukukholelwa ukuba iholide yakho iya kuba yeyokurekhoda iincwadi.
Ngokunokwenzeka ewe, kodwa kuphela ukuba ugcina ulindelo lwakho luyinyani ebomini.
Ukuba unqwenela, uya ukonwabele ukutshona kwelanga kwezothando. Uya kuba nezidlo ezintle. Uya kuhamba ngesandla okanye uthathe uhambo kwimijelo yaseVenice, kodwa khumbula ukuba ubomi abuyiyo ifilimu okanye intsomi.
Yamkela okulungileyo nokubi yeqabane lakho kunye nobudlelwane, kwaye uya kuzifumana unesipho esingalibalekiyo.