Umxholo
- Yenza eyakho isithethe
- Xoxa ngamaphupha kunye neenjongo
- Gcina uluhlu lwazo zonke izihlandlo ezilungileyo kunye nempumelelo
- Nxibelelana rhoqo
- Yenza iteknoloji yasimahla ngokuhlwa
- Bekela bucala "Me ixesha" okanye ixesha nabahlobo
Inguqu, ulungelelwaniso, ulonwabo, kunzima, ukudinisa, umsebenzi, umdla, uxinzelelo, uxolo kunye nokumangalisa ngamanye amagama asetyenzisiweyo ukuchaza unyaka wokuqala womtshato phakathi kwabahlobo bam nabantu endisebenza nabo.
Uninzi lwezibini ezitshatileyo ziyavuma ukuba unyaka wokuqala womtshato unokuhluka ukusuka kulonwabo kunye nemincili ukuya kulungelelwaniso notshintsho. Iintsapho ezihlanganisiweyo, okokuqala izibini ezitshatileyo, abantu abatshatileyo ngaphambili kunye nembali yosapho zinokuba nefuthe elikhulu kunyaka wokuqala womtshato. Isibini ngasinye siya kufumana isabelo saso esikhethekileyo sempumelelo kunye nemiqobo.
Mna nomyeni wam sibabini kuphela, asikaze sitshate ngaphambili kwaye asinabo abantwana. Sisondela kwisikhumbuzo seminyaka emibini sitshatile kwaye siye safumana isabelo sethu sotshintsho kunye nemincili. Amagama athe avakala kum ekuchazeni unyaka wethu wokuqala emtshatweni lunxibelelwano, umonde, ukungazingci kunye nohlengahlengiso.
Nokuba uthandana iminyaka eliqela ngaphambi komtshato okanye uthandana ixesha elincinci ngaphambi kokubopha iqhina; ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo ziya kukunceda ukuba uhlengahlengise kwaye wonwabele unyaka onempumelelo womtshato.
Yenza eyakho isithethe
Imihla ngemihla kunye neeholide zizithethe eziqhelekileyo eziye zafakwa kuthi kwiintsapho zethu. Uzisa izithethe zakho, izithethe, imikhwa, imvelaphi kunye neenkolelo kusapho lwakho olutsha. Amaxesha amaninzi, ezi zithethe ziyangqubana, ezinokukhokelela kungxabano kumtshato wakho omtsha. Qala isithethe esitsha kusapho lwakho olutsha. Endaweni yokuba ukhethe ukuba yeyiphi indlu yosapho oza kuya kuyo ngeholide; bamba umbhiyozo weholide nosapho lwakho olutsha, cwangcisa iiholide, ukuphuma kweempelaveki okanye nawuphi na omnye umsebenzi oya komeleza ubudlelwane kunye neqabane lakho elitsha. Khumbula ukuba iqabane lakho liza kuqala kwaye lusapho LWAKHO.
Xoxa ngamaphupha kunye neenjongo
Ukuphupha kunye nokubeka iinjongo akupheli xa utshata. Esi sisiqalo njengoko ngoku uneqabane lakho lobomi ekwabelaneni ngamaphupha kunye neminqweno. Yenza isicwangciso seenjongo ofuna ukuziphumeza kunye kwaye uzibhale ephepheni ukuze omnye nomnye aphendule. Xa kufikwa kwiinjongo ezinje ngabantwana nakwimali, kubalulekile ukuba kwiphepha elinye. Xoxa ngamaphupha kunye neenjongo kwangoko kwaye rhoqo.
Gcina uluhlu lwazo zonke izihlandlo ezilungileyo kunye nempumelelo
Amaxesha amaninzi imiqobo, ubunzima kunye nobunzima bobomi bunokugquma amaxesha amnandi kunye nempumelelo encinci esiba nayo. Njengesibini, niya kuba nesabelo senu sobunzima kunye nobunzima, ke kubalulekile ukuba nibhiyozele impumelelo, enkulu kunye nencinci, nanini na ithuba livela.
Mna nomyeni wam sisandula ukuqala "Impumelelo Jar" apho ngamnye wethu abhala umzuzu olungileyo okanye impumelelo esiyifumene njengesibini. Siceba ukurhoxisa iphepha ngalinye kwisitya sokuphela konyaka ukuze sixabise onke amaxesha amnandi esiwabelane ngawo njengesibini unyaka wonke. Ikwayenye inkcubeko yokubhiyozela isikhumbuzo somtshato wakho!
Nxibelelana rhoqo
Esona sipho sikhulu onokuthi usinike umntu omthandayo unxibelelwano. Ukunxibelelana njengesibini; kukho umphulaphuli omnye kunye nesabelo esinye. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, ngelixa umamele, khumbula ukuba umamele ukuqonda iqabane lakho ngokuchasene nokumamela ukuphendula. Ukuba neengxaki ezingathandekiyo, kodwa eziyimfuneko ziya kulomeleza ulwalamano lwenu. Ngelixa unxibelelwano luqhubeka, kubalulekile ukuba singagcini ingqumbo, silususe uthando lwethu okanye siwohlwaye amaqabane ethu ngokungathethisani. Nxibelelana rhoqo, mayiyeke kwaye ungaze ulale ungonwabanga omnye nomnye.
Yenza iteknoloji yasimahla ngokuhlwa
Kwi-imeyile ye-2017, imithombo yeendaba ezentlalo kunye nemiyalezo ebhaliweyo kuye kwaba kukunxibelelana, nditsho nabantu obathandayo. Kukangaphi ubona isibini ngobusuku bomhla iintloko zabo zingcwatywe kwiifowuni? Ubomi bethu bugcwele ziziphazamiso kwaye amaxesha ngamaxesha, itekhnoloji inokuba sesona siphazamiso sikhulu okanye isithintelo kunxibelelwano. Zama ukuzibophelela ngorhatya olu-1 ngeveki (nokuba ziiyure ezimbalwa) kwitekhnoloji. Gxila kuphela komnye nomnye, nithandana ngokwenene kwaye ugcine loo mlilo uvutha.
Bekela bucala "Me ixesha" okanye ixesha nabahlobo
Natshintshana ngezifungo zomtshato, "nibanye" kwaye ..... ukugcina isazisi kunye nokuzimela kubalulekile emtshatweni wakho. Ukungahoyi ubuntu bethu okanye ukuphulukana nesazisi emtshatweni kunokubangela iimvakalelo zokuzisola, ukulahleka, inzondo, umsindo kunye nokudana. Ukucwangcisa ixesha ngaphandle kukwavumela ukuba sibuxabise ngakumbi ubudlelwane kwaye senze nentliziyo ikhule ithande.
Akukho mtshato ungenasiphako nakunyaka wokuqala "onoyolo". Khumbula, usuku ngalunye lwahlukile, umtshato ngamnye wahlukile. Kungenxa yokuba unyaka wakho wokuqala ungagcwaliswanga ngeholide, iiroses kunye nezipho ezibizayo ayenzi ukuba ikhetheke kangako. Lindela imingeni kunyaka wokuqala. Yamkeleni le mingeni kunye nemiqobo njengamathuba okukhula njengesibini. Unyaka wokuqala womtshato ubeka isiseko somtshato oqinileyo, onothando nohlala uhleli. Nokuba kwenzeka ntoni ngendlela yakho khumbula ukuba ukwelo qela linye.