Umxholo
- 1. Ixesha lomgangatho liyanceda ekwakheni iqhina lothando
- 2. Yiba kwiphepha elinye ngokubhekisele kwingqeqesho
- 3. Landela izicelo / iingxelo zakho
- 4. Musa ukunika ingcaciso ende ngo “hayi”
- 5. Ukungaguquguquki sisitshixo sokukhulisa abantwana ngokufanelekileyo
- 6. Nika isilumkiso esinye phambi kokunyanzelisa iziphumo
- 7. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyazazi iziphumo
- 8. Yiba nomonde kutshintsho olufunayo
- 9. Umvuzo ofunwa kukuziphatha ngokuvuma
- 10. Yiba ngumzekelo kumntwana wakho
- 11. Yiba nengxoxo macala phambi kokuba nomntwana
- Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba enze ngcono ngokusebenzisa indumiso
- 13. Sukubuza umntwana wakho ukuba ufuna ukutya ntoni
Ngaba ujonga ezinye zeengcebiso ezinkulu zokuba ngumzali zokukunceda uhambe iminyaka yokukhulisa umntwana kunye nokuphucula ukukhula nokuzithemba komntwana wakho? Nazi ezinye zeengcebiso zokuba ngumzali ezisetyenziswe ngempumelelo enkulu!
1. Ixesha lomgangatho liyanceda ekwakheni iqhina lothando
Ixesha lokunikezela yonke imihla ukubakhona komntwana wakho. Oku kunokuthetha nje kubo ngaphandle kweziphazamiso zangaphandle (cima ifowuni yakho), okanye isiko lokufunda lokulala, ukugoba, umthandazo, kunye nokubangenisa ngesilwanyana abasithandayo. Nantoni na oziva ibalulekile kuwe nobabini, qiniseka ukuba uchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni nomntwana wakho yonke imihla.
2. Yiba kwiphepha elinye ngokubhekisele kwingqeqesho
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana wakho aqonde ukuba wena neqabane lakho nimanyene. Ukuba uva umohluko wezimvo, uya kukudlala ngokuchasene. Kuyaphazamisa umntwana xa abazali bengasebenzisi uqeqesho ngendlela efanayo.
3. Landela izicelo / iingxelo zakho
Xa ilixesha lokuphela komdlalo wokudlala, nika isilumkiso esinjengokuthi “Enye into vula ujingi emva koko kufuneke sithi ndlela ntle.” Sukuvuma ukwenziwa kwisicelo somntwana sokuchitha ixesha elininzi kwii-swings, okanye uya kuphulukana nokuthembeka kwaye ube nexesha elinzima lokubafumana benze into oyifunayo ukuba bayenze kwixesha elizayo xa usenza isicelo.
4. Musa ukunika ingcaciso ende ngo “hayi”
Inkcazo emfutshane, enengqiqo iya kwanela. Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho ukucela i-cookie kanye phambi kwesidlo sangokuhlwa, ungaphendula uthi "Ungayifumana loo nto kwidizethi ukuba usenalo igumbi emva kokutya". Awudingi ukuya ekubeni kutheni iswekile imbi, kwaye zingaphi ii-cookies eziza kumtyeba, njl.
5. Ukungaguquguquki sisitshixo sokukhulisa abantwana ngokufanelekileyo
Ngqinelana nengqeqesho, amaxesha okulala, amaxesha okutya, amaxesha okuhlamba, amaxesha okuthatha, njl njl. Umntwana ufuna ukungaguquguquki ukuze akhulele kwimeko ekhuselekileyo. Umntwana okhulele kwikhaya apho imithetho isetyenziswa ngokungahambelaniyo ukhula engabathembi abanye.
6. Nika isilumkiso esinye phambi kokunyanzelisa iziphumo
Nje enye. Inokuba “ndizakubala ndiye kwisithathu. Ukuba awuyimisanga umdlalo wakho ngesiqingatha sesithathu, kuya kubakho iziphumo. ” Sukubala ukuya kathathu. Ukuba kufikelelwe kwisithathu kwaye isicelo asithathiwanga, yenza iziphumo.
7. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyazazi iziphumo
Bachaze ngokucacileyo nangokuqinileyo, ngelizwi elingathath'icala, nelingoyikisiyo.
8. Yiba nomonde kutshintsho olufunayo
Xa usebenza nomntwana wakho ukutshintsha indlela yokuziphatha engafunekiyo, njengokungcungcuthekisa umntakwabo okanye ungahlali uzolile etafileni, jonga utshintsho oluthe chu. Umntwana wakho akazukuyeka indlela yokuziphatha engafunekiyo ngokukhawuleza. Umvuzo ngalo lonke ixesha "ubamba" umntwana wakho ebonisa isimilo sokuziphatha ukuze ekugqibeleni abe ngumkhwa.
9. Umvuzo ofunwa kukuziphatha ngokuvuma
Nokuba uthetha ngomlomo, njengokuthi “wenza kakuhle ngokugcina igumbi lakho licocekile!” okanye itshathi yesincamathelisi, okanye nayiphi na enye indlela yokunceda umntwana wakho azive enelunda ngempumelelo yakhe. Abantwana bathanda ukubetha okuhle.
10. Yiba ngumzekelo kumntwana wakho
Ukuba awondlulisi ibhedi yakho yonke imihla okanye ushiye iimpahla zakho phantsi, baya kuba nengxaki yokuqonda ukuba kutheni ufuna ukuba bathathe umthuthuzeli wabo ntsasa nganye kwaye babeke iimpahla zabo ezimdaka kwindawo yokuhlamba iimpahla ubusuku ngabunye.
11. Yiba nengxoxo macala phambi kokuba nomntwana
Ngaphambi kokuba ube nabantwana, licebo elihle ukuba uxoxe ngokuba wena neqabane lakho niza kuluthatha njani uqeqesho kwimeko yokukhulisa umntwana ophilileyo ngokweemvakalelo. Uqeqesho lufanelekile, lube sengqiqweni kwaye lusetyenziswe ngothando. Uqeqesho olulungileyo luthetha ukuba umphumo uhambelana nokuziphatha okungafunekiyo. Umntwana kufuneka eve ukuba siyintoni na isiphumo phambi kokuba usisebenzise ukuze bazi ukuba balindele ntoni kwaye iyavakala kubo. Usebenzisa ukuphuma kwexesha? Zisebenzise ngokufanelekileyo. Ixesha elide ukuphuma kwizikrelemnqa ezikhulu, ezimfutshane kwiziphene ezincinci (kunye nabantwana abancinci kakhulu). Faka uqeqesho usebenzisa isitayile esiqinileyo kodwa esingoyikisiyo. Yazisa umntwana wakho ukuba benze ngendlela engamkelekanga kwaye baya kufumana iziphumo. Sebenzisa ithoni engathathi hlangothi kwaye unqande ukuphakamisa ilizwi lakho, elinokuwonyusa umba kuphela.
Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba enze ngcono ngokusebenzisa indumiso
Akukho mntwana wakha watshintsha isimilo esingafunekiyo ukuba siziphathe kakuhle kuba baxelelwe ukuba bayonqena okanye bayaxakana okanye bayangxola. Endaweni yoko, hlambela umntwana wakho ngokudumisa xa ubabona bencedisa ngaphandle kokucelwa, ukucoca igumbi labo, okanye ukusebenzisa ilizwi labo ngaphakathi. Ndiyayithanda xa ndingena egumbini lakho kwaye zonke iimpahla zakho zibekwe kakuhle! ” izakwenza umntwana azive kamnandi kwaye imkhuthaze ukuba aphindaphinde le ndlela ayifunayo.
13. Sukubuza umntwana wakho ukuba ufuna ukutya ntoni
Batya oko ubukulungiselele ukutya, okanye abatyi. Akukho mntwana owake walamba ngenxa yokuba benqabile ukutya i-casserole yakho emnandi. Kodwa abantwana abaninzi baye baba ngoozwilakhe abancinci, bephatha ikhitshi njengendawo yokutyela, kuba umzali ubabuza ukuba bafuna ukutya ntoni isidlo sangokuhlwa.