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Ubomi obukhawulezayo kunye nokuzibophelela emsebenzini kukushiya unexesha elincinci lokuchitha nosapho lwakho. Nangona kunjalo, ukuziva siphila kwaye sithandwa kubalulekile ukuba sihlale siqhagamshelene neentsapho zethu.
Ulibale izikhalazo ezidlulileyo kunye nenqala kwaye uvule iingalo zakho kwimfudumalo nothando losapho lwakho. Cwangcisa ukudibana kunye nemidlalo yokudibana kosapho kunye nemisebenzi yokuhlangana kosapho.
Ngoku ukuba ujonge 'indlela yokucwangcisa uluhlu lokudibana kosapho' kunye namanyathelo okuphumelela ukuhlangana kosapho, ungajongi.
Iingcebiso ngokuhlangana ngokudibeneyo kosapho
- Ukuba le yinzame yakho yokuqala ekucwangciseni ukudibana nosapho, thumela isaveyi ubuze izihlobo ukuba zingathanda ukwenza ntoni. Unokufumana ukuba kunemveliso ngakumbi ukufaka uluhlu olufutshane lwezinto onokukhetha kuzo kwaye ubenze babalaselise kwaye babeke eyona nto banomdla kuyo.
- Ukuba awucwangcisanga ukudibana kwakhona kosapho ngaphambi kokuba ukhuseleke ngeyona ndlela elula, yokuhlangana kwakhona ngexabiso eliphantsi ukusingatha. Ipikniki yeklasikhi okanye ibarbecue epakini ekufuphi. Qinisekisa ukuba ipaki inemithunzi emininzi kwaye zininzi izixhobo zokudlala zabantwana bayo yonke iminyaka. Ukuba awukaziva uqinisekile unokuqesha isicwangciso sokudibana nosapho
- Isidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nokwamkelwa kwindawo yokutyela ebanzi nako kulula. Ngokucacileyo, gcina igumbi elikhethekileyo okanye icandelo lonke iiveki okanye iinyanga ngaphambi kwexesha.
- Uhambo lokudibanisa inkampu yosapho luyaphumelela kuphela ukuba uninzi lwezihlobo zakho ziindidi zangaphandle. Cwangcisa oku ngexesha lonyaka xa imozulu intle kakhulu. Nika isibini sezinto eziphambili zemenyu kwaye wonke umntu abelane ngoluhlu lwezinto ezidliwayo ukuze yonke into igutyungelwe xa befika. Yenza isimemo sakho sichaze ngokucacileyo ukuba yeyiphi inkampu eyimfuneko ukuba usapho ngalunye lubonelele ngokwalo.
- Ukuba ucwangcisa ukudibana kwakhona malunga nepaki yemixholo ebiza kakhulu kufuneka ubhengeze iinyanga ngaphambi kwexesha ukuze wonke umntu acwangcise ukuyongena kwiishedyuli zabo. Oku kubanika nexesha lokwenza uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali kunye nokonga iindleko. Yiba nolwazelelo kuwo onke amalungu osapho ngokwexabiso elicwangcisiweyo kusapho ngalunye. Ngaphandle kokuba ufuna ukuzihlawulela ngokwakho iindleko.
- Ukudibana kwakhona okukhulu kuya kufuneka ukuba uququzelele ikomiti yokuhlangana kwaye unyuse uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali. Unokuzama iirafuli yolonwabo okanye izinto eziluncedo. Amatikiti athengiswa ngethuba lokuphumelela into. Ungathatha imifanekiso yezinto kwaye uthumele i-imeyile enemifanekiso okanye incwadana yeendaba ukuba ufuna ukuthengisa amatikiti eraffle ngaphambi kwexesha.
- Ukudibana kwakhona okukhulu kunokuba yindleko kwaye ungafuna ukuthengisa amatikiti okwamkelwa kumsitho kunye nemisebenzi yawo. Zoba inani letikiti emva kokuba wenze iakhawunti ngokupheleleyo kuzo zonke iindleko ezizodwa. Yazisa izalamane ngokuthe ngqo ngexabiso letikiti.
- Khetha isalamane esinegama elihle lokunyaniseka kunye nenqanaba eliphambili lezemali ukuphatha imali. Gcina iindleko zirekhodwe ngendlela obuya kwenza ngayo nawuphina umsebenzi wekomiti. Zilungiselele "ukubonisa iincwadi" ukuba uceliwe. Kulungile ukusebenzisa iileta zohlaziyo ukwazisa izalamane ukuba yimalini ekufuneka inyuswe ukuze ubhukishe ihotele, uhambo ngenqanawa, okanye ukubhukisha indawo yokuhlala inkampu.
- Gcina idathabheyisi elungileyo, ngakumbi ikhompyuter, yazo zonke izihlobo zomzimba kunye nedilesi ye-imeyile, iinombolo zasekhaya nezasemsebenzini. Shicilela uLuhlu lweeNcwadi zoSapho ukunceda wonke umntu anxibelelane. Oku kwenza ukuba kube lula kakhulu ukulungiselela kunye nokufumana ii-imeyile kulo lonke usapho ngelixa ucwangcisa ukudibana. Ekudibaneni kwakhona wonke umntu makaphonononge umkhombandlela ngokuchanekileyo kwaye enze izilungiso xa kufuneka njalo. Isiseko sedatha esinye sinokurekhoda imbali yobuqu kunye namakhonkco omnombo.
- Cwangcisa umhla obekiweyo wokufaka, okanye ipesenti yexabiso letikiti. Kuya kufuneka ube nemali ngaphambi kwexesha ukulungiselela yonke into. Kwakhona, ukuzibophelela kwemali kuthetha ukuba abantu abanakufane bacime.
- Qinisekisa ukuba unolwazi oluninzi malunga nendawo yokuhlala edolophini. Yiba ngumnxibelelanisi wezihlobo zakho ezikude kwaye ubalungiselele amagumbi. Khetha indawo efanelekileyo efanelekileyo kwaye uthethathethane ngamaxabiso ancitshisiweyo ngokubhukisha ibhloko yamagumbi. Sukuyibeka le nto okanye amagumbi angathathwa sisiganeko obungakhange usibone kwangaphambili. Ukukhupha izalamane zedolophu kunye kwindawo enye bonwaba ngakumbi kubo. Ubusuku ngabunye bahlala kunye kwaye babenomhlangano omncinci wabo.
- Khangela iimemorabilia zosapho ukubonisa kunye nokudibanisa ulwazi lwembali malunga nosapho lwakho. Phrinta imbali yosapho kwaye ubandakanye neentsapho ezizayo. Iya kunika abazala abancinci ukuba bangobani abaya kubenza batyebe ngakumbi kunokuba bezazi. Emva kwexesha ebomini baya kufikelela omnye komnye bekhumbula ubumbano losapho. Ukudibana kwakhona kosapho ngamava okomoya ngakumbi kunokuba kubonakala kubonakala. Ixabiso lalo liyanda njengoko iminyaka idlula.
Ezi ngcebiso kufuneka zikuxhobise ngalo lonke ulwazi oludingayo lokucwangcisa ukudibana kwakhona kosapho olukhulu. Vuyisana nothando, ukuhleka kunye neenkumbulo oza kuzenza kwindibano elandelayo yosapho!