Umxholo
- 1. Bafuna ukunconywa, bajongwe kubo, kwaye baqwalaselwe
- 2.Umdibaniso wonxibelelwano, zombini iimvakalelo kunye nezesondo
- Igumbi lakho
- 4.Ukuchukumisa okungekho ngokwesondo
- 5. Izibuko lakho elikhuselekileyo
- 6. Ukwamkelwa ngokunyanisekileyo
- 7. Ezothando
Cinga ukuba onke amadoda afuna ngokwenene ubudlelwane bubuhle besini, ibhiya ebandayo kunye nexesha lokuxhoma kunye nabahlobo babo? Cinga kwakhona. Siphakamise iqela elikhulu labafana kulo lonke ilizwe, yonke iminyaka eyahlukeneyo, kunye nemvelaphi, kwaye nazi izinto ezisixhenxe eziphambili abazifunayo kubudlelwane.
1. Bafuna ukunconywa, bajongwe kubo, kwaye baqwalaselwe
Nokuba loo mfo ubonakala ngathi akanazimvakalelo nantoni na enesidingo sokuva ukuba ucinga ukuba yeyona nto ibalaseleyo eyakhe yahamba kulo mhlaba. Isenokungayivakalisi, kodwa ukuva amazwi akho okuncoma kubalulekile kuye.
Yiba nesisa ngezincomo zakho.
Xa eyilungisile inkunkuma, mxelele ukuba uyakuxabisa ukuba nomlungisi wasekhaya. Xa efumene ukunyuselwa emsebenzini, mxelele ukuba uyavuya xa abanye bembona ukuba unetalente emangalisayo.
Awudingi nomsitho okhethekileyo wokumjonga emehlweni umxelele ukuba unethamsanqa lokuba wakhetha. Ngamanye amaxesha ukunconywa okuzenzekelayo lolona hlobo lubalaseleyo.
2.Umdibaniso wonxibelelwano, zombini iimvakalelo kunye nezesondo
Akukho buhlobo buhlala ixesha elide ukuba busekwe kuphela kwisini. Amadoda ayalixabisa zombini unxibelelwano olukhulu ngokwesondo kunye nolunzulu lweemvakalelo kunye neqabane labo. Ngapha koko, bobabini basebenza ngokubambisana ukwenza olona hlobo lusondeleyo isibini esinokulufumana.
Ke, qiniseka ukuba ujonge ukukhulisa unxibelelwano ngokwesondo ngokuhlala unomdla, ulonwabo, uthando kunye namaqabane ashushu kwigumbi lokulala.
Gcina incoko yesini ivulekile, kwaye ukuba uyayiqonda into yokuba uthando lwakho luyinto yesiqhelo okanye luyaphela, ungathandabuzi ukuthetha kwaye ubuze ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni.
Funa isiluleko kunye nonyango xa kufuneka njalo, kodwa ugcine loo mlilo uhamba okanye unobungozi ukuba umntu wakho ajonge kwenye indawo ukushisa.
Ngokwasemphefumlweni, uya kufuna ukuqhubeka nokusebenza ukomeleza iqhina elidibanisa iintliziyo zakho, ngokuhlala niphathana ngobubele nentlonipho, kwanakumaxesha engxabano.
Igumbi lakho
Oku akuthethi igumbi lokwenyani, elibonakalayo apho indoda inokwakha umqolomba wendoda, nangona unayo indawo yoku, iya kuba yindawo exatyiswe kakhulu ukuba umntu wakho aye kuyo xa efuna nje ukuphola, ukudlala eminye imidlalo yevidiyo, okanye iqela kwakhona.
Oko amadoda athetha ngako xa esithi "into eyeyabo" inene ngakumbi malunga nexesha apho besenza into eyahlukileyo ... umdlalo, ukuthanda, umdlalo okanye ukufunda isakhono esitsha.
Izibini ezilungileyo ziyazi ukuba ukuhlala ezipokothweni komnye nomnye akuyondlela esempilweni yokugcina ulwalamano lutsha kwaye ludlamkile. Vumela indoda yakho ukuba ithathe impela-veki iyokuloba, i-kayak, okanye yenze nantoni na edada ngesikhephe. Makhe aqeqeshele umdyarho weemarathon, abhalise kwiklasi yokusebenza ngomthi, okanye abenobusuku bokuphuma kunye namakhwenkwe amaxesha ngamaxesha.
Ayizoyikiso kulwalamano lwakho.
Kwingokuchaseneyo,ixesha elahlukileyo lenza ukuba nithandane ngakumbi xa nibuyela ekhaya omnye komnye.
4.Ukuchukumisa okungekho ngokwesondo
Kanye njengokuba uyayixabisa imithambo elungileyo yentamo engakhokeleli kwisini, indoda yakho iyenza, nayo.
Ke sukuyityeshela into encinci esemlonyeni njengoko nigqitha omnye epasejini, okanye nihamba nibambene ngezandla nihamba nje epakini. Amadoda ayakuthanda ukuva imfudumalo yengalo yakho esinqeni kwaye ahlala engumdlalo wokurabha umqolo olungileyo.
5. Izibuko lakho elikhuselekileyo
Uninzi lwamadoda esibuzile saxela ukuba ukwazi ukuba amaqabane abo anemqolo kwakuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu kubudlelwane babo.
Bakuxabisile ukukwazi ukubonisa onke amacala kubafazi babo: abomeleleyo, abasesichengeni, abonwabileyo nabonwabileyo.
Bayixabisile ingqiqo yokuba iqabane labo yayingumntu wabo okhuselekileyo, iliwa labo, ilitye labo lokuchukumisa ngamaxesha anzima, kwaye kunjalo nangamaxesha okonwaba, nawo.
6. Ukwamkelwa ngokunyanisekileyo
Amadoda asixelele ukuba ayathanda ukuba baziva bemkelwe ngokupheleleyo ngamaqabane abo, nangamaxesha apho bengazamkeli ngokupheleleyo.
Amaxesha okungaqeshwa, impilo enkenenkene, imood bad, uxinzelelo ... babethanda ukuba naxa bengenguSuperman, amaqabane abo ayesoloko ebamkela njengabantu — iimpazamo nabo bonke — ukuba babenjalo.
7. Ezothando
Kwakhona, uthando olwalungakhokeleli kwigumbi lokulala.
Amadoda ayayixabisa imiqondiso yothando.
Ileta yothando ethandekayo yangena kwisikhwama sabo ngaphambi kokuba baye kuhambo lweshishini. Inqaku lasemva kwalo lifakwe kwisipili sokuhlambela, kubhalwe "UR SO HOT" kuso. Isipho esivela ngokuzenzekelayo kwi-whisky yakhe ayithandayo. Zonke izinto ezincinci ezipela ezothando ziyamkhumbuza ukuba uliphi iqabane elinothando nelinomdla.