Umxholo
- Imali
- Abantu basebukhweni
- Ukusondelelana
- Ukusonjululwa kwembambano
- Ukwahlulwa kwabasebenzi
- Ixesha elilodwa
- Itekhnoloji
- Impilo kunye nokuqina
Ndiyakuvuyela! Umtshato uphelile. Izipho azityhilwanga, amakhadi enkosi athunyelwe. Ubuyile kwiHoneymoon. Ngoku ujonge ixesha lokuphila nomntu osecaleni kwakho esofeni. Nokuba nihlala kunye ngaphambi komtshato, amava enu njengabantu abasandul 'ukutshata aya kuzisa imiba eya kuthi ibumbe ubomi benu njengabantu abatshatileyo. Njengoko uhlengahlengisa kwiindima zakho ezintsha, nantsi imicimbi eqhelekileyo ekufuneka usebenze kuyo.
Imali
Ngokwenyani, le nto kufuneka ibe yingxoxo eqhubekayo, kodwa kwelona nqanaba lisisiseko, uthathe isigqibo malunga nohlahlo-lwabiwo mali? Nokuba ungakanani umvuzo wakho, kuya kufuneka uphile ngokwamandla akho. Akukho ndlela ichanekileyo okanye engalunganga yokuseka ubomi bakho boqoqosho, kodwa nobabini kufuneka niyifumane. Ngaba uziva ukuba umxholo ngandlela thile awuthandeki? Akuyomfuneko ukuba ibe njalo. Indlela ngamnye wenu aziva ngayo malunga nesihloko-esekwe kwimvelaphi yosapho, uloyiko lwakho, iminqweno, iinjongo, njl-yindlela elungileyo yokwenza nzulu ukuqonda kwakho omnye komnye.
Abantu basebukhweni
Ngokufanelekileyo, uya kuba nolwalamano olunothando noluxhasayo nosapho lwakho olutsha. Okona kulungileyo koku kuza nomhlaba omtsha wokuhamba. Baza kufikelela kangakanani ebomini bakho? Uza kuchitha ixesha elingakanani kunye nabo? Yintoni enokuziva ilungile kusapho lwakho? Indlela enongena ngayo kusapho lomnye nomnye, loluphi ulindelo olutsha oluvelayo, kwaye kwinto elula njengale uya kuyibiza ngumamazala wakho, iya kuba luvavanyo lwamandla akho okulalanisa. Zama ukungawenzi umbuzo wokunyaniseka.
Ukusondelelana
Umnqweno we-ebbs kunye nokuhamba, kwaye izibini azisoloko zivumelanisa. Ngaba ukhululekile ukuthetha ngento oyifunayo? Njani isondo esahlukileyo kuwe kunothando? Yintoni ebaluleke nangaliphi na ixesha? Ingabonakala ngathi iyasilela ngokuzithandela, kodwa ukubekela bucala ixesha lokwabelana ngesondo kunokuba yinto ebaluleke, ngakumbi xa kukho abantwana emfanekisweni.
Ukusonjululwa kwembambano
Isibini ngasinye sinendlela yaso yokuxabana. Abanye bayangxola kunye nokuxabana, abanye bayakuphepha ukungqubana ngokupheleleyo, abanye bayasukela kwaye barhoxe. Nokuba siyintoni na isitayile sakho, kufuneka kubekho isivumelwano malunga nokuba niza kubuyela njani omnye komnye. Inyani yile yokuba ngokungathandabuzekiyo, eminye imilo ayinakulungiseka, kwaye uya kunikwa ngokufanelekileyo ngokuthatha isigqibo ngoku ukuba ukwazi njani ukwenza uxolo naloo nto.
Ukwahlulwa kwabasebenzi
Ngubani owenza ntoni? Yintoni enobulungisa? Xoxa ngoku ngokuphandle ngoku, ngaphambi kokuba ingqumbo ibe nethuba lokwakha.
Ixesha elilodwa
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba omnye wenu azokuxabisa “isithuba” sakhe ngaphezulu komnye. Kuthathwe ngokugqithileyo, omnye wenu uya kuziva eshiywe ngelixa omnye eziva exinekile. Ngaba leyo yindlela ofuna ukuba iqabane lakho livakale ngayo? Zama ukuhlala ubuthathaka, kwaye uhlengahlengiso njengoko kufuneka.
Itekhnoloji
Iifowuni, iipilisi kunye neekhompyuter zinokuphazamisa ngokulula ukusondela. Yiba nencoko (ubuso ngobuso!) Malunga nokuba ngamnye kuni uziva eyiphi na imida efanelekileyo ayibekileyo.
Impilo kunye nokuqina
Ngoku ayiloxesha lokuzithemba. Ukuzama nangona kukuyekisa ukubonakala ulumkile, usengozini yokuthumela umyalezo wokungakhathali ukuba wenzile. Ukujonga akuyiyo yonke into, ewe- kodwa ingqalelo kwezempilo kunye nokuzilungisa kubonisa ukuba awulithathi lula iqabane lakho.