Umxholo
- Cacisa kwaye ubeke ulindelo
- Qhubeka nomsebenzi wakho wemihla ngemihla
- Sebenza neengcali kunye nabantwana bakho
- Gcina abantwana bekhuselekile
- Thatha ikhefu kulungiso
Ukuhlaziya ikhaya lakho ngumsebenzi oxabisayo nothatha ixesha uwedwa, ngoku khawufane ucinge ngokuphila ngokulungiswa ngelixa abantwana bebaleka indlu, bekhwaza bedidekile, lonke elixesha uzama ukuhlala kwishedyuli kwaye uqhubeke indlela yakho yesiqhelo.
Ewe, ayingomfanekiso mhle, kwaye yonke into inokuwela kukuphazamiseka ngokukhawuleza. Akunakuphikwa ukuba ukulawula umsebenzi wakho, ukuba ngumzali, kunye noxanduva lomtshato ngaxeshanye kunokuba ngumceli mngeni, ke ukuba ucinga ukulungisa kwakhona, udinga isicwangciso esomeleleyo somlo.
Kungenxa yoko le nto namhlanje siwela isitshixo iingcebiso zokuphila kwinkqubo yokulungiswa kunye nabantwana, lawula ixesha lakho, gcina abantwana (kunye nomnye obalulekileyo) bonwabile, kwaye uqhuba ukulungiswa ngokufanelekileyo nangokufanelekileyo.
Nanga amanyathelo okuvuselelwa kwekhaya elingena ngxaki.
Cacisa kwaye ubeke ulindelo
Ingcebiso yokuqala yokusinda ekuhlengahlengisweni kwakhona nabantwana abancinci kukujongana nomnqweno wokufuna komntwana wakho kunye nokuseta ulindelo kunye nabo.
Nabantwana. Yindalo ukuba baya kufuna ukwazi yonke into eyenzekayo.
Amathuba kukuba awuzukukwazi ukwenza umsebenzi omninzi owenziweyo kunye neekhontraktha (okanye ukuba upeyinta igumbi ngokwakho) ukuba abantwana bahlala bebuza imibuzo, bechukumisa izixhobo, okanye baphinde balwe idabi laseThermopylae kwigumbi lokuhlala.
Ke, kuya kufuneka ubacacisele ukuba kwenzeka ntoni. Ndiyathemba ukuba oku kuyabanceda ukuba bahlale bejongile.
Isitshixo kukuba gcina inkcazo ilula kwaye ithe ngqo kangangoko kunokwenzeka, ke kuya kufuneka uyilungiselele kwangaphambili impendulo yakho.
Ukubona indlela abantwana abathanda ngayo ukubuza imibuzo emininzi elandelayo, qiniseka ukuba uyilungiselela yonke impendulo - uyabazi ngcono ke ukuba ucinge nje okomzuzwana.
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, kuyakufuneka ubenze baqonde ukuba lukhona utshintsho olukhulu oluzayo kwaye nesithuba abebekade besazi ukuba sizakubonakala sahlukile kunangoku. Ukuthetha ngale nto kwangoko kuya kubanika ixesha lokuziqhelanisa.
Qhubeka nomsebenzi wakho wemihla ngemihla
Abantwana bayayithanda inkqubo esempilweni kwaye abatyekelanga ukubonisa iimvakalelo zovuyo kunye nemincili xa kukho into etshintsha ngesiquphe.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, yiza ekhaya nge-pizza ngobusuku obunye kwaye uliqhawe, kodwa qalisa ukutshintsha indlela yabo yemihla ngemihla ngenxa yokulungiswa kwakhona, kwaye baya kuqala ukufumana i-antsy kunye ne-cranky. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuba uzame ngako konke okusemandleni akho ukugcina inkqubo yakho ixesha elide, unophazamiseko oluncinci.
Ngoku, kuxhomekeke kwisikali sokulungiswa kwakhona, kuya kufuneka wenze uhlengahlengiso oluthile. Umzekelo, ulungisa ikhitshi, ke ngoku utya isidlo sakusasa kwigumbi lokuhlala.
Kukhulu, qiniseka ukuyenza ibe ngumdlalo omnandi, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu, qiniseka ukuba gcina indlela yakho yesiqhelo kwaye utye ukutya ngexesha elifanayo ntsasa nganye. Oku kuya kukunceda ugcine ishedyuli yakho, kwaye ugcine wonke umntu onwabile.
Sebenza neengcali kunye nabantwana bakho
Ngokuqinisekileyo eyona ndlela yokuququzelela ulungelelwaniso olumnandi nolonwabisayo kukusebenza nengcali, ke kubalulekile ukuba uqiniseke ukuba ukulungele ukulungiswa kwekhaya lakho ngokunxibelelana nekhontraktha enamava.
Kodwa xa unabantwana, ufunda ngokukhawuleza ukuba kungcono ukubagcina bekwiluphu ngokunjalo.
Abantwana bayayithanda imidlalo kwaye bayathanda ukuyila, kubalulekile ke oko Nika abantwana bakho umsebenzi kwiprojekthi ngokunjalo.
Oku kufanele ukuba kube yinto abanokuyenza ngokulula, into engayi kuphazamisa ukubonakala kunye nokuziva kwegumbi, kwaye ingabeki mngcipheko. Njengokupenda igumbi kwakhona.
Ngoncedo lwakho kunye nokukhokelwa, abantwana bakho banokufaka isitayile kumagumbi abo ngendlela yabo yobugcisa- mabazobe eludongeni, baxube iipeyinti, kwaye bafake isandla ekupeyinteni nangayiphi na indlela abanokuyenza.
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Gcina abantwana bekhuselekile
Abantwana bayamangalisa ngokupheleleyo. Umzuzwana omnye babonisa ubukrelekrele obungaphezulu komndilili kwaye babonisa iitalente ezizezokwenene, kwaye enye bayazigoqoza iintloko zabo etafileni ngokubonisa ubuqaqawuli obuzukileyo. Ke, njengomzali onothando, ngumsebenzi wakho ukubagcina bekhuselekile ngalo lonke ixesha.
Yiyo loo nto kunyanzelekile ukuba uqinisekise ubungqina bendlu yonke ngexesha lokulungiswa kwakhona, ngakumbi ngakumbi iindawo ezikhoyo ngoku.
Oko kwathethi, iya kuba licebo lobulumko ukubakhupha ngokupheleleyo endlwini ngexesha leeprojekthi ezinkulu. Akukho sidingo sokuba bamamele ukubhola kunye nokubethelela, endaweni yoko, bayeke kootatomkhulu noomakhulu okanye kwindawo yokugcina abantwana.
Thatha ikhefu kulungiso
Akukho mntu unokukubeka ityala ngokufuna ukulungiswa kwakhona ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa unosapho ngoku, abantwana bakho basebancinci kwaye abanako amandla engqondo kunye neemvakalelo zokuqonda ukuqhuba kwakho kunye nenzondelelo.
Bayalifuna ikhefu, nawe ke uyalifuna. Kubalulekile ukuthatha inyathelo ubuye umva rhoqo emva kwethuba, kwaye uthathe usuku ekuvuseleleni ukuze unxibelelane kwakhona nabantu obathandayo, kwaye wenze izinto ozithandayo.
Musa ukukujongela phantsi ukubaluleka kobudlelwane kunye nokuba ngowakho.
Ezi zikhefu zincinci ziya kukunceda ugcwalise kwakhona iibhetri zakho kwaye uqhubeke neprojekthi ngothando olusandul 'ukufunyanwa.
Ukuhlaziya ikhaya lakho kuthetha ukuphefumla ubomi obutsha kwindawo ohlala kuyo, kwaye uthandane nobomi bakho kwakhona.
Kodwa ukuba ungxama, ngekhe ubenalo ixesha elimnandi, ke sebenzisa ezi Iingcebiso zokusinda kulungiswa kunye nabantwana kwaye uyenze ibe mnandi kwaye ibe mnandi ngelixa ugcina wonke umntu onwabile.