Umxholo
- Yenza ezimbini "uluhlu lweminqweno" ezimbini
- Lwazi ulwimi lwakho lothando
- Bhala amanqaku anentsingiselo
- Izipho ezincinci zihamba indlela ende
- Yiba lula kwiso
- Ukufunda kukuthandana
- Ukudlala imidlalo kumnandi
- Yothusa! Yothusa!
- Iikhalenda zigcinwa
Ke uSuku lweValentine lufikile lwadlula kwakhona! Ndiyathemba ukuba wena kunye nesithandwa sakho nilisebenzise kakuhle eli thuba ukubonisa uthando lwenu omnye komnye ngeendlela ezithile. Nangona kulungile ukuba ube nale "sizathu" qho ngoFebruwari ukwenza into engathandekiyo, akufuneki ukuba ugcinwe kuphela kusuku olunye ngonyaka. Ukugcina ukuthandana kuphila kubudlelwane bakho kunokuba yinto eyonwabisayo unyaka wonke, kwaye nazi iingcinga ezimbalwa zokuba uhambe kweli cala:
Yenza ezimbini "uluhlu lweminqweno" ezimbini
Bathi ungafundisa abantu ukuba bakuphathe njani, kwaye oku kuyinyani kubudlelwane obunothando. Ungathini ngokubhala "uluhlu lwakho lweminqweno" kumaphetshana amancinci kwaye uwafake kwiijagi ezimbini ezikhethekileyo (ezakhe nezakhe)? Ke rhoqo xa usenza into ukhe uyonwabise iqabane lakho ngayo nantoni na eyithethayo: umzekelo umva wokuthambisa, okanye ukuhamba ngokuhlwa kwindawo ohlala kuyo, icappuccino, okanye nokuba zeziphi izinto ezincinci ezenza usuku lwakho.
Lwazi ulwimi lwakho lothando
Ukwazi ukuba loluphi ulwimi olukhethiweyo luthando lweqabane lakho kuya kuhamba indlela ende yokwenza ukonwaba omnye nomnye. Ukuba uqhubeka unkcenkceshela umfazi wakho ngezipho xa ulwimi aluthandayo luluncedo olusebenzayo, usenokungayixabisi phantse ngokungathi ubuya kusonga umthwalo wokuhlamba iimpahla kuye. Kwaye ukuba ulwimi lwakhe lothando luchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye unokungafuneki ngamagama amaninzi kunye nezipho.
Bhala amanqaku anentsingiselo
Xa sele uthethile, amagama anentsingiselo kunye namanqaku ayahamba indlela ende ekomelezeni unxibelelwano lwakho nomntu omthandayo. Zama ukufaka ikhadi elincinci epokothweni okanye kwidayari yakhe apho aya kuyifumana khona kamva xa efika emsebenzini. Okanye faka ileta yothando emotweni yakhe ngaphambi kokuba aye emsebenzini. La manqaku angakha ukonwaba kunye nolindelo oluvuyisayo malunga nokubonana kwakhona ngokukhawuleza, ekupheleni kosuku.
Izipho ezincinci zihamba indlela ende
Ngokuqinisekileyo izipho zinendawo yazo, njengoko umntu efuna ukunika umntu omthandayo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe nkulu okanye ibize. Intyatyambo ikhethwe endleleni egodukayo, okanye uhlobo oluthandayo lwetshokholethi okanye ikuki. Ukuba iqabane lakho liyayithanda indalo, yiza negqabi, ingqalutye entle okanye iintsiba ozifumeneyo -ukutsho nje ukuba nicingelana xa nisahlukene kwaye nifuna ukuzisa into eniza kuyabelana ngayo.
Yiba lula kwiso
Wakhe wacinga ngento yokuba iqabane lakho lelakhe ekufuneka likujongile mihla le? Kulula ukutyibilika kwikhompiyutha ekhaya uze uxhome iimpahla ezindala, ungakhathali nokuba ubukeka njani. Kodwa ungathini ngokuzama ukubonakala ulungile nokuba kunjalo kwaye uqiniseke ukuba unxiba kwaye uzilungise ngokucocekileyo ukuze ube "lula emehlweni" kwisithandwa sakho.
Ukufunda kukuthandana
Ngaba ukhe wazama ukufunda incwadi kunye? Ningatshintshana ngokufunda isahluko esinye ngexesha. Mhlawumbi iqabane lakho alikhulanga kunye neencwadi ozithandayo owazonwabelayo, ke ngoku lixesha lokuba wabelane ngala mabali athandwayo 'wokulala'. Okanye unokufunda incwadi eyakhayo ngesihloko esithile eninomdla kuso nobabini. Okanye uthini ngendaba yothando yakudala? Ukuba ufunda kancinci yonke imihla uya kumangaliswa kukufumana kude.
Ukudlala imidlalo kumnandi
Ukuthetha ngezinto ozithandayo zobuntwana- uthini ngokudlala imidlalo yebhodi kunye: iscrabble, monopoly, pictionary, checkers, chess, okanye nantoni na oyithandayo. Unokumema abahlobo bakho kwaye wonwabe ngezibini ezimnandi zangokuhlwa. Qiniseka ukuba wena neqabane lakho nikwiqela elinye, ngakumbi nePictionary, kwaye nibone indlela eningadlala ngayo kunye. Ukuba ungaphandle kakhulu, kutheni ungadlali i-croquet, izitya okanye igalufa kunye.
Yothusa! Yothusa!
Akukho nto injengothusayo yokunyusa ukuthandana kubudlelwane bakho! Unokucwangcisa ngeveki emangazayo, okanye nokuba ubusuku nje kunye, indawo ethile ongazange ube kuyo ngaphambili. Njani malunga nokuchola iqabane lakho emsebenzini (emva kokwenza onke amalungiselelo kunye nokupakisha ibhegi yasebusuku kuye) emva koko uye kukumangalisa, indawo ekuyiwa kuyo ngasese ngexesha lobomi bakho, nisenza iinkumbulo ezixabisekileyo kunye.
Iikhalenda zigcinwa
Ukuba ucinga awuyi kufumana xesha lokwenza zonke ezi zinto, yenza ikhalenda yakho kwaye wenze ucwangciso olunzulu! Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ubudlelwane bakho nomntu omthandayo yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakho-ke oko kuthetha ukuba bafanele utyalo-mali olubalulekileyo lwexesha lakho kunye nomzamo wakho. Iminyaka ihamba ngokukhawuleza okukhulu. Ngoku lixesha lokonwabela nokwakha kubudlelwane bakho ngazo zonke iindlela, ukugcina ukuthandana kuphila yonke imihla yonyaka!